Iingcamango zabazali ekusebenzisaneni nabantwana Abani bobabini abaxhatshazwayo kunye nexhoba
Enye yezona zinto zinzima kakhulu ukuxhatshazwa kwiinkcukacha zixhomekeke kubaxhatshazwayo. Amaxhoba ahluthayo amela abantwana abancinci kunye namaxhoba. Baxhala abanye ngenxa yokuba nabo baxhatshazwa.
Ngenxa yokuba abaxhasi-buluntu bajamelana nemiphumo emibi , kubalulekile ukuba abazali nabanye baqaphele imingeni abajongene nayo kunye neendlela zokwenza ukulungelelanisa iimfuno zabo.
Ngokomzekelo, aba bantwana banokuzuza kwiiprogram ezijolise ekuhlaziyweni kwengcamango, ukuxazulula iingxaki, ukulungiswa kwemibango kunye nokuphathwa kwemvakalelo.
Unokunceda njani abantwana abano-Bully-Victims
Nazi ezinye iimbono zokuncedisa abaxhasi-amaxhoba aphule umjikelezo wokuxhatshazwa nokuxhatshazwa .
Sebenza ngesimo sengqondo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abaxhatshazwayo baxhaphaza baneengcinga ezingathandekiyo neenkolelo malunga nabo nabanye. Sebenza ukutshintsha ezo nkolelo. Nceda umntwana wakho abone ukuba kukho okulungileyo kuye nokuba kukho abanye abantu. Ngokomzekelo, ukwakha ukuqina nokuzithemba kunokukwenza oku. Ukuba abaxhasi-baxhasi banokuzithemba kwaye baxhasayo ngaphandle kokugwenxa, baya kuba nethuba elingcono lokuphula umjikelo wokuxhatshazwa.
Ukunika izakhono zentlalo . Amaninzi amaninzi, amaxhoba-xhaphaza ayanzima ukusebenzisana nentlalo. Kwakhona banokungabikho kwezakhono zokulungisa iingxaki .
Ukuchonga iindawo apho umntwana wakho ezama khona kwaye ancede anqobe le mingeni.
Ukubonelela imizekelo yeemeko ezahlukahlukeneyo ezinzima kwaye uqikelele kunye nendlela ezi zijongene ngayo. Injongo kukumnika iindlela ezininzi zokujongana neemeko ezinzima.
Bancede bawenze abahlobo . Oontanga abachaphazeli nje kuphela abachaphazelekayo ngabangenayo, kodwa bawagatya kwaye bawagxotha .
Khangela iindlela zokunceda umntwana wakho enze abahlobo abambalwa . Abahlobo nje ababenokuthintela ukuxhatshazwa , kodwa banikezela ngenkxaso yoluntu abaxhatshazwayo-maxhoba abahlala bengenako.
Bafundise ukulawula iimvakalelo . Abantu abaxhaphazwayo bahlala bekulwela ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, banomqondo ophakamileyo wokwazisa oko kwenzekayo malunga nabo. Ngenxa yoko, bayasabela ngokukhawuleza nangenkohlakalo kwiinkqubela eziqhelekileyo . Baye baphendule ngokukhawuleza ukubiza igama , ukugculela nokuxhatshazwa.
Nika umntwana wakho ngezakhono ezifunekayo ukuphendula ngendlela ezolile kunye nengqiqo. Ukukhishwa kwempendulo yimpendulo abanye abayifunayo. Ngoko sebenze naye ukutshintsha iimpendulo zakhe.
Yenza uvelwano . Nangona ufuna ukukunceda umntwana wakho aphilise kwaye anqobe ukuxhatshazwa , kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba ukhetho lokunyelisa nguye. Ukuxhatshazwa ngabanye akuxhomekekanga kwizenzo zakhe kwaye akumniki isizathu sokukhetha kwabanye abantu.
Kungenxa yokuba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba unjani ukuxhatshazwa, uxinzelelo lokuba ukuxhatshazwa kwakhe kwabangela intlungu kumnye umntu. Zama ukumenza ukuba abone oko kuthanda ukuba ngumnye umntu. Olunye uhlobo olufanelekileyo kukuba umntwana wakho abuyele kuwe oko akwenzileyo.
Kufuneka ufezekise iziphumo zokuziphatha kwakhe. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba wenze into ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqonda ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kukukhetha kwaye akuvumelekanga.
Gxi ninisa kwi zifundo . Ngokuqhelekileyo, amaxhoba-bully ahlukunyezwa nabafundi. Imingeni abajongene nayo ngokuxhaphaza kunye nexhoba bahlala behlala becala kwaye baxakeke ukuba izifundo zabo ziya kubandezeleka. Kunoko, zama ukufumana iindlela zokwenza izifundo uthathe isigaba esinqanaba.
Bafundise iindlela zokuyeka ukuxhatshazwa ngokuxhatshazwa okanye amaxhoba abo baya kujolisa kwaye kunoko bajolise kwizinto ezibalulekileyo ngokuphathelele isikolo.
Yaye ukuba umntu onokuxhaphaza ulwa nomxholo othize, khangela iindlela zokumnceda aphucule. Ngokomzekelo, ngaba inkqubo ye-intanethi okanye umncedisi wesikolo emva kokufunda? Hlola zonke iindlela zokukhetha oko kukulungele umntwana wakho.
Funa ngaphandle uncedo . Ngenxa yokuba abaxhatshazwayo baxhatshazwayo ngokufanayo, kufuneka ukuba uncede umntwana wakho anqobe nayiphi na imiphumo yokuxhatshazwa . Qiniseka ukuba ukhangele iimpawu zokudandatheka , iingcinga zokuzibulala , ukuphazamiseka kokutya kunye noxinzelelo olusemva kokudandatheka .
Okwangoku, ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kuhambelana neengqungquthela okanye uxinzelelo lwaontanga , ngoko uncedise ukuba abuye ahlawule loo mava ngokunjalo. Ungesabi ukudibanisa nomcebisi okanye ugqirha wengane yakho ngoncedo. Ezi ngcali zingaphandle zingancedisa umntwana wakho ukuba afunde ukujongana kakuhle nemiphumo emibi kunye nemiphumo yokuxhatshazwa. Baya kunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuyeka ukuxhaphaza abanye ngokulawula umsindo, ukuguqula ingqondo yakhe nokufunda ukuzithiba.