Abazali banokusebenza ukuze bafumane i-right -rapist for the child gif
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana abanesibalo baneengxaki ezifuna uncedo lomcebisi. Abantwana abanjalo bangaba mfihlelo kubazali kwaye baqhagamshelana neencwadi zokubazali abakunako ukuvelisa. Kwenye into, ngaphandle kokuba incwadi yesandla ebhalwe abazali ibhalwe ngokukhethekileyo kubazali abanezingane ezinezipho, ayiyi kuhlanganisa imiba ephathelele ngqo kubantwana abanjalo, njengentuthuko engabonakaliyo kunye novelwano olunzulu lwengqondo .
Kwakhona, iincwadi zinokunika uncedo oluninzi. Kukho ixesha apho abazali befuna ukufumana uncedo lwabafundi kubantwana kwaye xa ixesha lifika, kubalulekile ukufumana uqeqesho olufanelekileyo.
Nini Ukufuna Uncedo Lobugcisa
Wonke umntwana uyaxhalaka kwaye athukuthele, ngoko ukubona iimpawu zokudakumba nomsindo kumntwana akuthethi ukuba lixesha lokukhangela umcebisi. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba loo miqondiso idlulileyo kwiiveki ezingaphezu kweeveki, ingaba yinto efanelekileyo yokufuna uncedo lochwepheshe. Khumbula kwakhona ukuba loo miqondiso iya kuba yintshintsho yokuziphatha komntwana wakho.
Ukuba unomntwana onokungeniswa, akanakho ukuphuma. Unokubonakala ngathi uyasuswa. Nangona kunjalo, ekubeni ama-introverts ahlala ethanda ukuchitha ixesha yodwa, kubonakala sengathi ukuxothwa akusiyo impawu yokudakumba. Into ofuna ukuyijonga yinguqu ekuziphatheni okuqhelekileyo.
Abantwana banokuba neminye imiba abayidinga uncedo ngaphandle kokudandatheka.
Baya kuba ngabagqibeleleyo kwaye iinzame zabo zokwenza umsebenzi opheleleyo zingakhokelela ekukhathazeni. Ukugqithisa ngokwayo akuyona ingxaki, kodwa xa kuthinta amandla omntwana wokusebenza, yinkinga. Basenokuba nzima kunokwenza abahlobo okanye ukusebenzisana namanye abantwana. Abanye abantwana bayonwabile omnye okanye ngabahlobo abasondeleyo kwaye abo bahlobo akudingeki ukuba bafunde nabo.
Kwakhona, ukuba intsebenziswano phakathi kwabantu bayabangela uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba komntwana wakho, ngoko kuya kuba yinto elungileyo yokufuna uncedo lobuchwepheshe.
Ukufumana ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo
Bambalwa abaqeqeshi bempilo yengqondo bafumana naluphi na uqeqesho oluthile kubantwana abanesakhono. Oko kuthetha ukuba abasenakukwazi ukuqonda iimfuno ezizodwa zabantwana abanesipho kunabani na abanye kuluntu jikelele. Kwakhona banokuthi babe neengcamango eziphosakeleyo malunga nezingane ezinezipho njengabanye. Yaye ukuba awaziqondi abantwana abanesiphiwo, banokubona iimpawu zobungqina njengeengxaki ezifuneka zilungiswe. Basenokuthi, ngokomzekelo, babone umntwana onobuchule kunye no- psychomotor overexcability njengomntwana one-ADHD. Olu hlobo lwesifo esingaqhelekanga aluqhelekanga.
Ukufumana uhlobo olulungileyo loncedo, sifuna ukuxilongwa ngokufanelekileyo. Umntwana onobuchule onokungafumani kakuhle ngengxaki ethile unokugqitywa ukuba anikwe iziyobisi ngenxa yengxaki engenayo.
Kubaluleka kokufumana uMcebisi oLungileyo
Ukufumana i-right therapist kunzima njengokufumana umntu ofanelekileyo ukuvavanya umntwana onobuchule . Kungaba luncedo ngakumbi ukufumana ugqirha onokuqeqeshwa ukulawula iimvavanyo. Isizathu kukuba ukuvavanywa komntwana wakho kunokukunika ulwazi oluninzi, ngaphezu kwelama-IQ.
Kwaye ukuba umntu oya kumcebisa umntwana wakho naye nguye owamvivinyayo, lowo mntu sele udibene nomntwana wakho kunye nengqiqo ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufuna ukuhamba umgama ukufumana umhloli, mhlawumbi awufuni ukuhamba kakhulu ukuya kwiiseshoni zokucetyiswa rhoqo.
Ngoko uyifumana njani umcebisi okanye ugqirha? Enye indlela kukusebenzisa inethiwekhi yakho ukuba unayo. Ngokufanelekileyo, udibene nabanye abazali abanabantwana abanesiphiwo esikolweni sakho somntwana, mhlawumbi ngenxa yobuhlobo bomntwana bakho okanye ngokuya kwimisebenzi yesikolo njengobusuku obuya esikolweni. Ukuba akunjalo, unokufuna ukuthetha nomxhumanisi onobuchule okanye oyingcali kwisikolo okanye kwisikolo sithili.
Enye inketho kukuqhagamshelana nombutho wakho onobuchule . Bahlala beqhagamshelana nabantu kulo lonke elaseburhulumenteni kwaye banako ukufumana iingcebiso.
Ukuba usenako ukufumana umntu ogxininise ekusebenzeni nabantwana abanesiphiwo, kufuneka ufumane into elandelayo phambili - umntu ovulekile kwaye ozimisele ukufunda. Ukuze ufumane indlela ovulekile ngayo kwaye uzimisele ukuba umntu afunde ngezingane ezineziphiwo, uya kufuna ukumisela udliwano-ndlebe ukuze ukwazi ukubuza imibuzo. I-Aimee Yermish ye-DaVinci Learning Centre inecebiso elincomekayo ekufumaneni uphando kumxhasi onomsebenzi.
Eyona nto ibuzwayo yimibuzo engacacile. Ngokomzekelo, kunokuba ubuze ukuba umcebisi uyaqonda abantwana abanikiweyo, babuze, "Ukholelwa ntoni na ezinye zeengxaki ezibaluleke kakhulu ezinokuhlangabezana nabantwana?" Unokubuza kwakhona, "Ucinga ukuba uphuhliso olunjani luchaphazela ubudlelwane obunabantwana abanezakhono?"
Ngamanye amagama, beza nemibandela enomntu owaziyo ngokwenene nokuqonda abantwana abanikiweyo abanokukwazi ukuphendula.