Isizathu sokuba abantwana abathandwayo bangabonakalisa ukuba banomdla
Isazi sengqondo sengqondo sasePoland uKazimierz Dabrowski sichaze iindawo ezinhlanu apho abantwana babonisa ukuziphatha okunzulu, kwaziwa nangokuthi "ukugqithiseleka" okanye "ukunyamekela." Bayaba ngengqondo, iimbilini, imvakalelo, ingqondo, kunye neengcinga. Abantwana abanikiweyo bavame ukuba namandla amaninzi, nangona enye idla ngokuqhelekileyo.
Ingaba umntwana wakho ukhononda ngeemigangatho ezantsi kweesokisi?
Beka izandla zakhe phezu kweendlebe zakhe xa i-movie iqalisa kwi-movie yeshashalazi? Ngaba unenkathazo yokuhlala ehleli? Fumana ukufudumala ngokukhawuleza ngengqungquthela yomculo okanye umsebenzi wobugcisa? Ezi zibonakaliso zokugqithiseleka (OE).
I-Psychomotor
I-psychomotor overexcability iyinto eqhelekileyo kubantwana abanesakhono. Kubonakala ngokukodwa ngamanqanaba aphezulu yamandla. Abantwana abane-OE babonakala behlala behamba. Njengabantwana, bafuna ukulala okungaphantsi kunabanye abantwana. Njengabantu abadala, bayakwazi ukusebenza iiyure ezinde ngaphandle kokukhathala.
Abantwana abane-OE nabo banokuthi bangaphathwa kakubi njenge-ADHD. Kodwa ngelixa bekwazi ukusebenza, banako ukukwazi ukugxininisa ingqalelo ngaphandle kokuba bengakhuselekanga ngengqondo. Ukungabikho kokukhupha ngengqondo kunokuba yingxaki kula bantwana esikolweni.
Uphawu oluphambili lwolu bunzima luyintsikelelo yamandla. Abantwana abane-psychomotor overexcitability eziphambili bahlala bexilongwa nge-ADHD ekubeni iimpawu zifana.
Zingaquka:
- Intetho ekhawulezayo
- Indlela yokuziphatha
- Khu phiswano
- Ukunyanzela ukuthetha
- Ukucwangcisa ngokunyanzelisayo
- Imikhwa yobuthakathaka kunye neengcali
- Ukukhethwa kwezenzo ezikhawulezayo kunye nemidlalo
- Ukubonakalisa ngokomzimba iimvakalelo
- Ukulala
Eziqhelekileyo
Uphawu oluphambili lwolu bunzulu lukwazisa okuphakamileyo kuzo zonke iintlobo zintlanu: ukubona, ukuvumba, ukunambitha, ukuthintela, nokuva.
Abantwana abanomthwalo wokuzikhusela ngokwemvelo bangagula ngenxa yokuvumba kokutya abathile okanye, njengabantwana, baya kubazonda ukuhamba ngotshani ezinyaweni zabo. Injabulo abayifumana kwizinto zokuzonwabisa kunye nokutya kwamanye ukutya kunokubangela ukuba batye ngokutya.
Ukuba umntwana wakho unomthwalo wokunyamekela, unokubona ezinye zezi mpawu:
- Ukuxabisa ubuhle, nokuba ngababhaliweyo, umculo, ubugcisa okanye imvelo, kuquka ukuthanda izinto ezifana nobucwebe
- Uvakalelwa ukuthunga, ukuthanda, okanye ukutya kokutya
- Ukuqonda ukungahlambulukanga
- Ubuthakathaka obunobuncwane (ukukhathazeka ngezinye izinto zokwesikhumba, iimpawu zokugqoka)
- Ukuthanda ukuzonwabisa
- Ufuna okanye ufuna ukuthuthuzelwa
Ngengqiqo
Olu bunzima lona luye lwaziwa kakhulu kubantwana abanesiphiwo. Kubonakala ngemisebenzi yengqondo. Abantwana abakhokela ngoku ngqongqo kubonakala becinga njalo ixesha kwaye bafuna iimpendulo kwimibandela enzulu. Ngamanye amaxesha iimfuno zabo zezimpendulo ziya kubafumana enkingeni esikolweni xa umbuzo wabo utitshala ungabonakala ngathi unzima. Bangabonakalisa eziliqela kwezi mpawu:
- Inqwenela
- Ukuthanda ulwazi nolwazi
- Uthando lokusombulula iingxaki
- Ukufunda u-Avid
- Ukubuza imibuzo engxaki
- Iingcamango zokucinga
- Ukucinga okuhlalutyo
- Ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo
- Ukugxininisa, ukukwazi ukugcina imizamo yengqondo
U kucinga
Uphawu oluphambili lwolu bunzima ngumdlalo wokukhulula weengcamango. Iingcamango zabo ezicacileyo zingabangela ukuba bajonge into ebaluleke kunayo nayiphi na imeko. Inokubenza bachithe amathuba okanye babandakanyeke kwiimeko ezintsha. Unokuqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa:
- Amaphupha angafanelanga
- Ukwesaba okungaziwa
- Ubulumko obuhle
- Ukucinga ngemilingo
- Uthando lwemibongo, umculo kunye nomdlalo
- Uthando lwe fantasy
- Ukuhamba
- Abahlobo abacingayo
- Ukubonakala ngokubanzi
Umoya
Uphawu oluphambili lwolu bunzulu lubuchule obuthile obuvelele.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana bakholelwa ngokugqithiseleyo ngokweemvakalelo ezibangelwa yimpazamo yeengqondo kunye nezinye iingxaki kunye neengxaki. Bahlala bengabantwana abathi abantu baya kuthi, "Unomdla kakhulu." Umntwana wakho angabonisa ezi mpawu:
- Iimvakalelo ezinzulu
- Ukuxhalabisa
- Ukuziva unetyala kunye nemfanelo yokuxanduva
- Iimvakalelo zokungafaneleki kunye nokuphantsi
- Ukukhawuleza neentloni
- Uxhala
- Ukukhathalela abanye
- Ukuqonda okulungileyo nokungalunganga okanye ukungabi nabulungisa kunye nohanahaniso
- Inkumbulo enamandla yemvakalelo
- Iingxaki zilungele ukutshintsha
- Ukuxinezeleka
- Ufuna ukhuseleko
- Impendulo yomzimba kwimvakalelo (isisu esiswini esibangelwa ukuxhalaba, umzekelo)
Ukuchonga ukuxhomekeka koMsebenzi wokuNcedisa umntwana wakho
Uyakwazi ukuqonda kangcono umntwana wakho onobuchule xa uqaphela amandla abo angakunceda ukuba ube ngumzali osebenzayo nangaphezulu. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho ukhululekile ngokomzwelo, uyazi ukuba uya kuba nexesha elinzima "nje ukungahoywa" ukukrakra okanye ukuxhatshazwa. Unokufuna uncedo olongezelelweyo ekulawuleni ukuphendula kwakhe kwindlela yokuziphatha kakubi kwabanye.
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