Ulutsha oluthile lube nolwazi olucacileyo noluntu
Ziziphi iimpawu kunye neempawu ezenza abantwana abanesiphiwo siphuma kwiontanga zabo? Ukuchonga ezi zinto ziyingxaki ekhethekileyo yokuqonda, izentlalo, iimvakalelo kunye neelwimi. Enyanisweni, kwiso eliqeqeshwe, kunokuba lula ukubona umntwana onobuchule. Kuye kweso elisoloko liqeqeshwe ngumzali, kulula ukubona ukuba umntwana akafani nabanye abantwana .
Sekunjalo, abazali bahlala bebuza ukuba lithini ukungafani. Bayazi ukuba umntwana wabo uhlakaniphile, kodwa ngaba unako ukufumana isipho? Ukuphonononga olu luhlu lokukhangela lweempawu eziqhelekileyo ezifumaneka kubantwana abanesiphiwo sokuqala isinyathelo sokuqala abazali abangasisebenzisa ukuze banqume ukuba umntwana unesipho. Ukuba umntwana unamanqaku amaninzi, kufuneka uthintane notitshala wakhe okanye umlawuli wesikolo malunga nokuvavanywa okwenziweyo ukufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho unesipho.
Olu vavanyo lunokuba lunyanisekile kubantwana abancinci, ngoko abazali bezingane ezincinci, njengabantwana abaselula, bangahlaziya uluhlu lweempawu eziqhelekileyo ezifumaneka kubantwana abaselula .
Iimpawu eziCacnitive ezibonakalisa izipho
Ingaba umntwana wakho ukhangeleke kakhulu, unomdla okanye unelungelo lokwenza izinto ezinzulu? Emva koko, unokufumana isipho. Cinga malunga nokuba umntwana wakho uqaphele izinto abantwabanye, okanye abantu abadala, abangazijonga. Loo mqondiso wokubheka. Yaye ukuba umntwana wakho ekukhathaza ngokuhlala ebuza imibuzo malunga nayo yonke into esuka kwi whey kufuneka adle isidlo esithile sokuba kutheni imfazwe ehlabathini, unokuba ne-kid gif ephathekayo ezandleni zakho.
Khawucinge ngendlela umntwana wakho onomdla ngayo ngokunjalo neminqweno yakhe. Xa efumana umdlalo omtsha unokuchitha iiyure kuyo? Ngaba ubonakala ecinga okanye engathethi nto? Oku kubonisa umdla.
Ezinye izicatshulwa ezenza abantwana abaneziphiwo ezibonakalayo zibandakanya kubandakanywa imemori enhle kakhulu, ixesha elide lokuqwalasela, izakhono zokuqiqa ngokugqithiseleyo kunye namandla anokuphuhliswa kakuhle, ukuqonda, kunye nokwabelana.
Umntwana wakho unokukwazi ukukhawuleza nokulula ukubona ubudlelwane phakathi kweengcamango, izinto okanye inyaniso kunye nokucinga okucacileyo kunye nezimo. Iingcamango zezingane eziphathekayo zivame ukuba zinzulu kwaye zisekuqaleni, kwaye zineendlela ezintle zokulungisa iingxaki . Bafunda imiyalezo ngokukhawuleza kwaye bengaphantsi kwaye baphindaphinda kunokuba babo ontanga badinga.
Yaye ukuba umntwana wakho unengcamango engavamile okanye ecacileyo ukuba ngamanye amaxesha umhlaba emanzini atshisayo, cinga ngelinye uphawu lobutyebi.
Iimpawu zoLuntu kunye nemizwelo
Abantwana abanikiweyo bavela kwiontanga zabo ngokuphuhlisa umdla kwimibandela yefilosofi kunye nentlalo. Banobubele kakhulu, bobabini ngokomzwelo nangokwenyama. Basenokukhala ngenxa yezinto abanye abantwana abazenzayo okanye abakhonkco malunga neetaki kwiingubo zabo okanye izigxobo zabo kwiisokisi zabo ezikhubaza isikhumba sabo.
Ukongezelela, abantwana abanesiphiwo sibonakalisa inkxalabo enzulu malunga nokulingana nokungabi nabulungisa. Bavame ukuphelela, ukunyamezela kunye nokuphuhliswa kakuhle, ukuba kungenjalo i-quirky, ukuzonwabisa. Ngokuqhelekileyo zikhuthazwa ngokusesikweni, oku kuthetha ukuba zibeka iinjongo kunye nemingeni ngokwabo kunokufumana imvume kwabanye. Nangona baxubusha kakuhle kubazali, ootitshala kunye nabanye abantu abadala, baphinde babuze umphathi ngaphandle kwekhono okanye xa bakholelwa ukuba kungekho sikweni.
Iimpawu zoLwimi
Iimpawu zolwimi zabantwana abanesiphiwo sendawo zibahlukanisa ngokunjalo. Bavame ukuba namazwi amaninzi kwaye bangafunda ngaphambi kweontanga zabo. Nangona bafunda kwixesha eliqhelekileyo, bathambekele ekufundeni ngokukhawuleza nangokubanzi. Baye bathanda ukubuza "kuthiwani ukuba" imibuzo.
Iimpawu ezongezelelweyo zabantwana abanikiweyo
Umntwana onomsebenzi onomdla uyafunda ukufunda izinto ezintsha. Uyakuvuyela umsebenzi wezobugcisa kwaye ubonise ukudlala kwengqondo. Mhlawumbi uya kukhetha iincwadi kunye namaphephancwadi okubhekiselele kubantwana asebekhulile aze athathe isimo sengqondo sokungathembisi, esicacileyo nesivavanyayo. Abantwana abanikiweyo bavame ukuba nokuphuhliswa kwamanye amazwe , nto leyo ithetha ukuba ingqondo ingabonakalisa ingqiqo kodwa imvakalelo yempembelelo kwiimeko ezifana nomntwana wabo ubudala, nokuba yincinane.