Umntwana kufuneka abe ngumdala kangakanani ngaphambi kokuba abonise iimpawu kunye neempawu zobungakanani? Abazali nabafundisi abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba umntwana unesipho xa iimvavanyo zesikolo zithi ziyiyo, kwaye ezi zivivinyo azinikiweyo ukuya kwinqanaba lesithathu okanye lesine , ukuba kunjalo. Inyaniso kukuba iimpawu eziphathekayo zibonisa kubantwana abancinci. Enyanisweni, ezinye zazo ziyabonakala nakwiintsana!
Dlulisa amehlo kuluhlu olulandelayo uze ubone ukuba zininzi iimpawu ezisetyenziswa kumntwana wakho omncinane. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba ukuba unikwe umntwana umntwana akudingeki ukuba ube nayo yonke yale mpawu.
Iimpawu kubantwana abaselula:
- Njengeintsana, unokufumana ingxaki xa ujongene nesikhokelo esisodwa ixesha elide
- Njengabantwana, bonani uqaphile
- Ufuna ukulala okungaphantsi , njengabantwana
- Ngokuqhelekileyo kufinyelela 'ezinzima' ezifana nokuhamba kunye nenkulumo yokuqala ngaphambi komyinge
- Ngamana ungathetha ngasekupheleni, kodwa ke uthethe ngezivakalisi ezipheleleyo
- Umnqweno onamandla wokuhlola, ukuphanda, nokulawula indawo (ivula iibhakethi, ithatha izinto ngaphandle)
- Iidyhu neimidlalo zilungele phambili, zilahlwe
- Usebenza kakhulu (kodwa umsebenzi ngenjongo, ukuba ungadideki kunye ne-ADHD)
- Unokwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwenyaniso kunye nefantasy (imibuzo malunga neSanta okanye inyoka yezinyo ifika kakhulu kakhulu!)
Abancinci abancinane abanakho abanokubonisa umdla omkhulu kumanani okanye kwiileta. Aba bahlala bengabantwana abaqala ukwenza izibalo ezilula okanye bazifundise ngokwabo ukuba bafunde ngexesha bebathathu.
Nangona kunjalo, umntwana ongafundanga okanye ukwenza izibalo zakudala unokuthi abe nesipho. Abantwana abafunda okanye benze imathematika kusasa ngokuqinisekileyo banesipho, kodwa akubona bonke abantwana abanesiphiwo senze loo nto kuqala.
Izifundo zeintsana ezinesakhono (abo baphakanyiswa phezulu kwiimvavanyo ze- IQ njengabantwana besikolo besikolo) babonisa ukuba banokubekezela okuphantsi kunye nokukhethwa kwinto entsha.
Ngokuyinene, iintsana zaboniswa izinto ezahlukeneyo ngexesha elithile. Ezi zintsana ezathi ziboniswe ukuba zizibini zibonwa kude nezinye izinto ngokukhawuleza kunezinye iintsana. Xa kuboniswe into eqhelekileyo kunye neyomnye, iintsana ezinamakhono zikhetha ukujonga entsha.
Yintoni Okufanele Uyenze Ukuba Ucinga Ngomntwana Wakho Ohamba Ngayo Unokuthi Unokubakho?
Impendulo emfutshane kuloo mbuzo "ayikho" - ubuncinci ngaphezu kokuba sele usenokwenza njalo. Ukuba ubona ukuba umntanakho ubonakala enomdla kwiileta nakwiincwadi, mthengi amathoyizi aqulethwe ngeencwadi, ezinjengobumba bamagnetic okanye iileta ze-foam kwibhabha. Kwaye, zithenga iincwadi. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyathanda amanani, athenge amathoyizi ngamanani.
Gcina umntwana wakho umngeni. Unokwenza okunjalo okokuba kuba umntwana onelungelo unokufumana i-cranky encinci xa ebuhlungu. Landela nje ukukhokela komntwana wakho. Xa ubona engasenomdla kumsebenzi, yibeke. Ngokomzekelo, abantwana abanobuchule badla ngokuthanda i-flashcards. Kumntu ongaphandle, kunokubonakala ngathi ucela umntwana wakho ukuba afunde, kodwa ngokwenene, mhlawumbi ngumsebenzi umntwana wakho onwabileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba umntwana wakho amathayi eekhadi lamakhadiza, ungagcizeleli ukuba uqhubeke nomsebenzi nje ngokuba ucinga ukuba uhlakaniphile kwaye ufuna ukufunda.
Oko bekuya kubangela.
Abazali abaninzi abakholelwa ukuba umntwana wabo unesiphiwo esifuna ukufuna ukwazi ngokuvavanya. Bakufumana phi umntwana wabo ovavanywayo? Ndiyiphendula loo mbuzo "Kutheni ufuna ukuba umntwana wakho ahlolwe?" Kwiimeko ezininzi, abazali baphendula ngokuthi bathi bafuna ukwazi ukuba baya kuba neengcinga ezingcono zento yokwenzela umntwana wabo. Kodwa ngokwenene akukho nto ongayenza okanye onokuyenza kumntanakho ongeyena. Awuyi kumthanda umntwana wakho ngaphantsi okanye ngaphantsi, kwaye akufanele umphathe kakuhle umntwana wakho. Maxa wambi abazali banomuvo wokuthi ukuba umntwana wabo unesipho, banembopheleleko yokubafundisa.
Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba umnqweno wokufunda uvela kumntanakho, uya kukhwaza. Yaye ukuba ivela kumntanakho, sele usenceda umntwana wakho afunde.
Kuza kufika ixesha apho unokufuna ukuba umntwana wakho ahlolwe, kodwa oko kungekhona ngexesha leminyaka encinane.