Inkcazo: Injongo yinto esiyifunayo ngokwaneleyo ukuba sizame ukufikelela kuyo. Injongo ayifani nokufunwa. Ngokomzekelo, umntu unokufuna imoto engcono kunokuba ayenako ngoku, kodwa akuyona enye yeenjongo zakhe. Ukufuna imoto ye-nicer kwimeko apho kufana nefantasy. Yinto into umntu angathanda ukucinga ngayo ngezikhathi ezithile, kodwa akanalo injongo yokuzama ukufumana enye.
Ifantasy iyonwabile ukucinga. Siyakwazi ukucinga ukuba kuthini ukuqhuba ngokujikeleza kwinqwelo ehamba phambili kuneyona esinayo. Sinokucinga ngokuhamba ngokukhawuleza, sicinga ukuba abahlobo bethu bayamangaliswa yimoto yethu enhle kwaye inomdla, kwaye sinokucinga ukuba sisebenzisa zonke iintsimbi kunye neengcingo eziza kule moto. Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba sifune loo moto ngokwaneleyo ukuba isebenze ekuyifumaneni, iya kuhlala ingummangalo, kungekhona umgomo. Iphupha lingaba yindalo okanye injongo. Xa sifuna into, sihlala siyibiza ngokuthi iphupha lethu. Ngokomzekelo, mhlawumbi iphupha lakho lokuba neyakho ishishini. Okanye umntwana wakho angaphupha ukuba yi-ballerina. Kodwa kude kube sisebenze ekwenzeni lelo phupha liyinyani, kuya kuba yinto emnandi, kungekhona injongo. Akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngamaphupha kunye neengcinga. Baya kusinceda siphume kwiintsuku ze-dreary size sicinge ngezinto ezintle thina nakwiintsapho zethu. Nangona kunjalo, ukuphosa nokuphupha, ngelixa lihle kwaye ngamanye amaxesha luncedo, alufani neenjongo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba sifuna ntoni into, kungakhathaliseki ukuba kukuzonwabisa kangakanani ukucinga ngabo, abayizinjongo ngaphambi kokuba sikulungele ukusebenza ukuze senze into eyiyo.