Abantwana abanikiweyo Ngokuqhelekileyo Yabelana Ngale miba elishumi
Awazi into oyenzayo yomntwana wakho. Ukuziphatha kwakhe kuphazamisayo kwaye kuphazamisekile. Ngamanye amaxesha uyazibuza ukuba unayo i-ADHD, i-ODD, i-OCD, i-disorder disorder disorder, okanye enye i-disorder okanye syndrome. Uyazibuza ukuba unesiphene sokufunda . Okanye, mhlawumbi, ucinga, uvila kwaye akanakuxanduva. Mhlawumbi ke, umntwana wakho unikwe izipho. Ungazixelela njani?
Iintlobo zePalty
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba isipho asikho nje umcimbi wokuphumelela emfundo.
Umntwana (okanye umntu omdala) unokufumana isipho kwimimandla eyahlukeneyo:
- Ngengqiqo
- Ukudala
- Ubugcisa
- Ubukhokeli
- ZeMfundo
Ngaloo ndlela, nangona umntwana wakho engekho i-academic whiz, unokufumana isipho kwezinye iindawo. Nangona izikolo zinokuthi zinomdla kwizifundo zobuchule kunye nezifundo, abazali kufuneka baxhase abantwana babo bokudala, ubugcisa okanye ezinye izipho. Ezi zinokubaluleka xa umntwana wakho ehamba kumabanga aphezulu okanye aqala umsebenzi.
Uvavanyo lweSipho
Ngelixa "uvavanyo olukhawulezayo" (njengalowo olungezantsi) lunokukunika ulwazi malunga nobuchule bomntwana wakho, abayiyo iimvavanyo zinyaniso zokufumana izipho. Xa umntwana sele echongiwe njengomntu onesipho, uya kuhamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo eziphuhlisiweyo, ezibonakalisiweyo ukuba aqinisekise ukuba kwaye ungayiphi na imilinganiselo ephezulu ngaphezu komyinge. Ezinye zezi mvavanyo zingabandakanya:
- Iimvavanyo eziqhelekileyo ze-IQ
- Uvavanyo lwe-IQ olungenzi-magama
- Iimvavanyo zokuphumelela
Iziphumo zale mvavanyo, ezilawulwa ngabaqeqeshi abaqeqeshiwe, zinika izikolo ngolwazi abayidingayo ukubeka, ukufundisa, nokucelomngeni wakho umntwana.
Uluhlu lokuHlola lweMpawu zoBantwana abanikiweyo
Abantwana abanikiweyo abanakuhlala beziphatha ngendlela enokuyilindela. Ngokomzekelo, abaninzi abantwana abanesiphiwo kubonakala ngathi "bahamba phambili" kwiklasi, ngelixa abanye banokuba nzima ukulawula i-tempers yabo. Ngenxa yoko, azinakuba ziinkwenkwezi zokufundela; Enyanisweni, banokuba neengxaki kuninzi!
Ezinye iimpawu zobungqina zihamba kunye neempawu zentlupheko yophuhliso. Ngako oko kunokuba nzima ukuba unqume ukuba umntwana unesipho okanye uhlolisiswe nge-ADHD, i-autism ephezulu yokusebenza, okanye omnye umcimbi onxulumene nawo. Kwaye, kunjalo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ube nekhono kunye nokuba nengxaki yokuphuhliswa.
Unokuphendula imibuzo elandelayo uze ubone ukuba zingaphi iimpawu zokuziphatha ezisetyenziswa kumntwana wakho. Khumbula, nangona kungabikho abantwana abanesiphiwo esifanelekileyo, ngoko ke akuyiyo yonke into enomntwana onesiphiwo esiya kuba nayo yonke into yokuziphatha, kodwa ukuba ezinye zezi ziphatha ziyazi kakuhle, unokufuna ukufunda okunye malunga nezingane ezinezipho !
- Thetha i-blue streak, usebenzisa isilulumagama esingaqhelekanga
- Buza imibuzo eninzi
- Kubonakala ngokungaqhelekanga ukungabi nabulungisa okanye ukungabi nabubele
- Ukugqithisa ngeembuzo ezingapheliyo
- Ukukukhupha ngamandla akhe obonakala engenamkhawulo
- Yiba nomsindo kuba umsebenzi wakhe ungaphantsi
- Fumana ngokupheleleyo kwimisebenzi kunye neengcamango
- Unqwenela ukusebenza ngokuzimela kunokuba ube kwiqela
- Fumana nzima (okanye ungathandeki) ukuhambelana nokulindela kwabanye
- Yiba nenqanaba elingaqhelekanga lomdla ekuhleleni nasekuhleleni izinto okanye iingcamango
Ndicinga ukuba Umntwana wam Uphethwe; Ngoku kuthweni?
Ukuba uluhlu olungaphezulu olungaphezulu luchaza umntwana wakho, unokufuna ukucinga ukuba ufunyenwe okanye uvavanyelwe izipho.
Thetha nengcali yengqondo yengqondo yomntwana okanye umcebisi ukuba umise ibhetri ye-IQ kunye neemvavanyo zokukwazi ukubona ukuba imfundo yakho yomntwana ifanelekile izipho zakhe.
Okwangoku kunjalo, ukuba umntwana wakho unenkathazo yokuthetha kunye noontanga, ukukhawulelana nokuziphatha, okanye ukugqiba umsebenzi ngexesha, unokufuna ukuphakamisa imibuzo malunga nale micimbi. Umntwana wakho unokufumana isipho; ngelo xesha, nangona kunjalo, unokuba nemingeni emele iqwalaselwe ukuze izipho zakhe zikhanye.
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