Ukufumana ukuba umntwana wakho unikwe isipho kungenakuqinisekiswa ukuba umbuzo wenzeni malunga nayo. Ingaba ufumene ukuziphatha okuphambili kumntwana wakho okanye abanye bakhombele kuwe, amathuba okushiya ukuba uyazibuza ukuba, yintoni na, kufuneka wenze ngako. Abanye abazali banenkxalabo yokuba baya kwenza izinto eziphosakeleyo okanye ukuba abahlakaniphile, abanetalente, okanye abafundiswe ngokwaneleyo ukubonelela oko umntwana wabo akufunayo.
Nangona kunjalo, konke okuthathayo kuyinto engundoqo yokuqonda nokudala. Nazi ezinye iimbono ukuze uqalise.
Izikhokelo eziqhelekileyo zokuKhulisa abantwana abaPhezulu
Isisitshixo sokuqala ekuncediseni umntwana onobuchule ukwenza ubuninzi bekhono lakhe kukufunda oko kuthetha ukuthatha loo mathuba. Ukunyusa kukunyamekela umdla wabantwana nokumtyhila kwiimbono kunye namava amatsha. Umzekelo, ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho unomdla kwiidinosaurs, fumana amathoyizi kunye neencwadi malunga nabo. Nangona kunjalo, nangona umntwana wakho engenakho ukubonisa umdla onomdla, ufuna ukufumana amathoyizi omculo uze uveze umntwana wakho kumculo.
Ukusebenzisana
Unako ukukhusela umntwana wakho onesipho njengoko uthetha kwaye udlala kunye. Abantwana abanikiweyo bathanda ukusebenzisa ubuchopho babo. Bathanda ukucinga nokubala izinto, ngoko babuze imibuzo! Kwaye, ke, abantwana abaneemfundo banemibuzo eninzi yokuzibuza yona!
Indlela ophendula ngayo imibuzo yabo inokubanceda bacinge baze bafunde ukufumana iimpendulo. Indlela ophendula ngayo imibuzo yengane yakho inokunceda ukugcina uthando lwabo lokufunda luphila kwaye lubafundise izakhono zobomi ukuze baqhubeke nokufunda.
Imisebenzi
Njengoko ufumana ukhululekile ngakumbi ngengcamango jikelele yokukhuthaza iimfuno kunye nekhono lomntwana onobuchule, ungaqala ukucwangcisa imisebenzi ethile.
Enyanisweni, awudingi ukucwangciswa okukhulu. Umzekelo, ukuhamba ukuhamba akuthathi ucwangciso olungakumbi kuzo zonke, kodwa ukuhamba okulula kunokukhokelela ekuhloliseni kunye nokuxubusha. Uninzi olunabantwana abanesipho luyabonakala, ngoko ke banokubona izinto ongaziboniyo, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukubuza imibuzo!
Iinkqubo
Ukugcina umntwana onobuchule evuselelwe ekhaya kungaba ngumsebenzi onzima. Kubonakala befuna (kwaye badinga) ukuyeka ukucinga ngengqondo. Awudingi ukwenza konke ekhaya, nangona kunjalo. Cinga ukuthumela umntwana wakho kwinkqubo eyenzelwe abantwana abanobuchule okanye ukhange abantwana abaninzi abanesiphiwo. Ukuba umntwana wakho udala ngokwaneleyo, unokumthuma ekampini. Ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci ukuba ahambe yedwa, cinga inkqubo yendawo, njengalezo ezinikezelwa ngamathala eencwadi okanye uluntu.
Imidlalo neMidlalo
Indlela efanelekileyo yokukhulisa ikhono lomntwana kukubonelela ngeevenki ezilungileyo kunye neencwadi. Kodwa azinakuba yiyiphi na incwadi kunye namathoyizi. Iibhokhwe ezithandwayo zivame ukukhathazeka ngokudlala kunye nokuhlala zifumana iincwadi ezinqwenelekayo. Ukufumana iifayili ezifanelekileyo kunye neencwadi ezinabantwana abanesipho kunokuba ngumngeni, kodwa kungekhona ukuba uyazi ukuba ukhangele ntoni. Iibhokhwe ezinomdla zivame ukunyamekela amathoyizi avumela ukuba bafunde, bacinge, kwaye babe nobuchule.
Inkcazo yabo kwiincwadi ifana.
Ukunyamekela Ukuxhathisa
Nangona ucinga ukuba wenza nje oko ucinga ukuba ufanele uyenze ukuze ukhulise amakhono omntwanakho, usenokukhathazeka malunga nokuba uyamnyanzela umntwana kwaye mhlawumbi wenza umonakalo. Sonke sixelelwa rhoqo ukuba asifanele sinyanzise abantwana bethu ukuba asinakunceda ukuzaliseka. Ukuze uxolo lweengqondo, uya kufuna ukuqonda umahluko phakathi kokunyusa nokunyusa.