"Ngaba umntwana wam isipho?" Lo ngumbuzo abazali abaninzi babuza. Ukufumana impendulo akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi kuba abantwana abanesakhono ngabanye. Bayehluke omnye komnye njengabantwana abangenabanikezi bavela kwabanye abantwana abangenabaniki. Benza ke, nokuba kunjalo, banempawu ezininzi kunye neempawu ezifanayo. Ukuba uyazibuza ukuba umntwana wakho unelungelo, jonga izi mpawu eziqhelekileyo kwaye ubone ukuba zininzi zazo zivumelane nomntwana wakho.
Unokuzijonga ezinye izinto, njengokuba umntwana wakho wafika ngokukhawuleza kangakanani ukuphuhlisa.
Nangona uqinisekile ukuba umntwana wakho uninzi lwezo zinto eziqhelekileyo kwaye uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho wadibanisa amanyathelo amanyathelo okuphuhlisa kwangaphambili, usenako ukuqiniseka. Nangona abaninzi abantu bakholelwa, akubona bonke abazali bakholelwa ukuba umntwana wabo unesiphiwo, kwaye abazali bezingane ezinesakhono bahlala beqinisekile okanye benganqabanga ukubiza ukuba umntwana wabo unesipho.
Xa ufunda ngokuphathelele abantwana abanesiphiwo kunye nomqondo wezakhono, kulula ukuba ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho unesipho okanye awuyi-okanye ufumane ubungqina bokumangalisa kwakho ukuba umntwana wakho unesipho.
Iimpawu kunye neempawu
Abazali bavame ukuzibuza ukuba umntwana wabo unelungelo xa bebona ubungqina bezakhono eziphambili, umzekelo, ukufunda kwangaphambili , ukukhumbula okulungileyo, okanye ukuthetha kakuhle nabantu abadala. Bayaqala ukufumana umqondo wengqondo yomntwana ngokujonga kwiintlobo zeempawu.
Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba umntwana akadingeki ukuba zonke iimpawu zibonelelwe.
- Iimpawu zabantwana abanikiweyo
- Iimpawu zabantwana abancinci abaselula
- Iimpawu zeentlawulo kwiintsana
EziPhambili
Ukufakela izipho kuthatha ukugijima kwiintsapho, ezininzi iimpawu ezibonisa izipho ziqhelekileyo phakathi kwamalungu entsapho awandisiweyo.
Abazali banokukhangela isibonakaliso sobubungqina kwaye bacinge ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo. Emva koko, amalungu amaninzi entsapho anesimo esifanayo. Abazali banokukhangela uluhlu lweempawu kwaye baqiniseke ukuba umntwana wabo uhambelana nencazelo, ngoko kukuhle ukuthelekisa uphuhliso lomntwana kumanqanaba athile ophuhliso. Kwakhona ingcamango enhle ukubona oko kuthathwa njengentuthuko ephambili.
Ubungqina obukhulu okanye u-Overexcitability
Abaninzi abanabantwana abanesipho banomnye okanye ngaphezulu "AbaPhakamileyo." Umntwana unokuzivezela kancinci ukuva kwakhe okanye mhlawumbi uyasichukumisa ukukhala okanye ukukhathazeka ngamagqabha. Umntwana unokufumana amandla amaninzi kwaye abe nokunyakaza rhoqo. Kubalulekile ukuqaphela, nangona kunjalo, ukuba akubona bonke abantwana abanesiphiwo esinokubaluleka.
- I-Dabrowski's Overexcitabilities
- I-Psychomotor OE
- OE
- O imagination
- OE Intellectual
- Omoya OE
Umbono ohlukileyo kwixesha elithi "liphiwe"
Esinye isizathu sokuba abazali, kunye nabanye abaninzi, banenkathazo yokuqonda ukuba umntwana unesipho okanye akunjalo ukucacisa okuchasene neli gama "elinikeziwe." Akuyena wonke umntu osebenzisa le migaqo ngokubhekiselele kwiimpawu ezifanayo.
Ukufunda ngembali yekota kwaye utshintsho kwintsikelelo yalo luya kuhamba ixesha elide ekuncedeni abazali ukuba baqonde ukuba yiphi isipho kunye nokuba umntwana wabo unelungelo.
Uvavanyo lweNkcazelo
Uvavanyo lwe-IQ lunokunceda abazali ukuba banqume ukuba ngaba umntwana wabo unelungelo, nangona iingcali zicebisa ukuba abantwana bangavavanywa ngaphambi kweminyaka emihlanu kwaye mhlawumbi ngaphambi kweminyaka eyi-9 kuba iziphumo zingenakuchaneka ngokupheleleyo. Ngokuqhelekileyo akudingekile ukuba abazali bafumane umvavanywa ngumntwana ngaphandle kokuba kuyimfuneko ukukhuthaza imfundo efanelekileyo ngakumbi kunokuba umntwana ufumana. Ukuvavanya kunokwenza uxolo lwengqondo kubazali abanokungabaza ngokuqhubekayo ngamakhono abo.
Kutheni Kubalulekile
Abazali abanabantwana abanesiphiwo sivame ukuxelelwa ukuba bayeke "ukuziqhayisa" okanye "vumele umntwana wakho abe yintsana" okanye ayeke "ukunyusa." Abantu abangenayo izipho abantwana abanakuqonda imiba echaphazelekayo. Iimvana ezifuthiweyo zivame ukuba yimfihlakalo kubazali babo, abanokumangaliswa kwaye bayamangalisa oko abantwana babo abanokukwenza. Ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bazali bafuna ukuqinisekiswa ukuba oko babonayo, ngokwenene, bakubonayo, ukuba umntwana wabo ubonakala enamakhono angaphezulu kunabanye abantwana abaneminyaka efanayo.
Ewe, ke abantu baxelele abo bazali akufanelekanga. Kwaye ngezinye iindlela zinyani. Awunamthandi umntwana wakho okanye ungaphantsi xa unesiphiwo - okanye angenalo isipho. Kodwa uya kuqonda kakuhle umntwana wakho. Uya kukwazi apho ufuna ukufumana uncedo kunye naluphi uhlobo loncedo olufunekayo. Ngokomzekelo, iincwadi zabazali, zingabadibanisa kwaye zidibanise nabazali abanezingane ezinezipho kuba iinkcazo kunye neengcebiso ezinikeziweyo azisebenzisi kwaye azisebenzi kubaninzi (ukuba akuninzi) abantwana abanesipho. Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho unesakhono esinokuthi uyazi ukuba ufuna iincwadi kwizingane ezinabantwana abanesiphiwo .
Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho unikwe izibonelelo kukukunceda ukuba uqonde ukuba ingaba isikolo sinikeza isilungiselelo semfundo esifanelekileyo. Ezinye iibhokhwe ezinezipho ziba ngaphantsi kweevenkile kuba aziyilo mngeni. Ezinye iifoto ezineempesheni ziyafikelela - ukufumana amabanga aphakamileyo - kodwa ayingatshintshi . Kwimeko zombini, abantwana bangena kwiingxaki esikolweni nakubomi.
Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho unikwe izipho kunokukunika uxolo kwengqondo, kukunceda uqonde umntwana wakho, kwaye kukuncede ukuba unikeze indawo engcono yezemfundo kuye.