Abantwana abanikiweyo baqonda ukuba bahluke kwintsapho
Abazali bahlala becinga ukuba kufuneka baxelele abantwana abanesipho . Emva koko, abaninzi abantu bakholelwa ukuba akulungile ukuxelela abatsha ngekhono labo lobuchule ngenxa yokuba bayesaba le ngcaciso iya kubangela ukuba abantwana abanjalo bafumane i-ego ehluthe. Bacinga ukuba abantwana banokuzikhukhumeza nabanye . Baye bakholelwa ukuba abantwana abafumanisa ukuba banezakhono baza kuhlakulela iingxaki zentlalo baze bazihlukanise nabalingana nabo.
Kodwa inyaniso inabantwana abanesakhono ngokuqhelekileyo sele sele benengxaki yeentlalo kunye nokufunda malunga nezipho kunokubanceda.
Ingxabano Ngethuba le "Iimpazamo"
Nangona ukufunda ukuba baneemfuno ezizodwa kunokunceda abantwana abanesakhono, abanye abazali nabafundisi bayalivumi ithuba elifanelekileyo ngenxa yokuba banomuvo wokuthi umntwana "unesipho," into engenayo abanye abantwana. Le ngxabano ibangelwa inkolelo yokuba bonke abantwana bayalingana kwaye ke banesipho.
Kodwa ukukhanyela abantwana abanesiphiwo ubungqina malunga nobuchule babo beengqondo bunokulimaza ngaphezu kokulungileyo. Inyaniso kukuba abantwana abanesiphiwo sengqondo xa bebancinane kakhulu ukuba abafani nabanye abantwana. Bakwazi ukuchazela ngokucacileyo iimvakalelo zabo zokungafani nento engalunganga, ngokuqhelekileyo bazibona bephutha ngendlela ethile okanye banento engalunganga ngayo. Kuza kunceda kakhulu kubantwana abanesakhono ukuba bafunde ukuba abaphosakeleyo kwaye kukho isizathu sokuba bazive behluke.
Ukongezelela, abantwana abanobuchule bavame ukuziva behlukane kwaye bebodwa kwaye bahlakulele iingxaki zentlalo kuba baziva behluke. Basenokuba nzima kunokwenza abahlobo , okanye banokuziva bengacatshulwa kwaye bengathandwa. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantwana abanesakhono banaloo ngxaki kwizicwangciso zesikolo apho baphoqelelwe ukuba benze ubuhlobo nabafundi kwibakala labo kwibanga.
Abantwana abanengxaki yokunxulumana nabafundi ofunda nabo abanakho ukukhathazeka nokwenza ubuhlobo kunye nabantwana abadala okanye abanye abantwana abanesiphiwo.
Ukuvumela Abantwana Bazi ukuba Bafakwe i-Gifted Ayikulimaza
Ukuxelela umntwana onikwe isipho akuyi kwenza ukuba azive ehlukileyo ngenxa yokuba umntwana uvakalelwa ngaloo ndlela. Ngokuchasene noko, ukuvumela abantwana bazi ukuba banesipho kwaye baxoxe ngekhono labo lobuchule kunye nabo baya kunceda abantwana abanjalo baqonde isizathu sokuba bazive bengaphandle. Ukuzenza ngathi isipho somntwana asikho khona akusayi kubangela ukuba loo mvakalelo ihambe, njengoko nje ukuzenza ukukhubazeka komntwana engekhoyo kungeke kwenze ukuba ukukhubazeka kuhambe.
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