Nento enokuyenza ngayo
Akukho mntwana uphelele kwaye abazali abaninzi bayazi ukuba umntwana wabo akafani. Esinye isiphoso esingaqhelekanga sezingane ezinesiphiwo sobuchule. Le ngxaki ingaba yinto ephazamisayo kubazali xa ikhona kumntwana ongenamdla kwiimfuno zabanye.
Intombazana ibonakala ityholwa ngokuba yinto engaphantsi kowamaqabane. Isizathu esona sizathu sokuba oku kufana nabafana ababonwa njengenkokheli, into efanelekileyo.
Amakhwenkwe amancinci azama ukulungelelanisa nokuziphatha kwabanye abonakala njengabonakalisa izakhono zobunkokeli ezinamandla kwaye badunyiswa ngenxa yalo. Amantombazana amancinci ayenzela into efanayo ayaxelelwa ukuba ayenobuntu kwaye abanye abantwana abafuni ukudlala nabo. Isigidimi samantombazana amancinci kukuba ukuhamba kunye nabanye kunye nokwamkelwa kubaluleke ngaphezu kokuhlonipha izakhono zabo zobunkokheli.
Yintoni Edala Ukuziphatha Kwenkohlakalo?
- Kufuneka Ulungelelanise
Abanye abantwana abanesipho kufuneka bahlele yonke into, kuquka abantu kunye nemisebenzi. Ngenxa yokuba baqhubele phambili ngokugqithiseleyo kunokuba bengabanikazi abaneminyaka engengabanikiweyo, banokukwazi ukuqonda okuphezulu ngakumbi kwintlangano yeqela. Bayazi ukuba ngubani omele enze umsebenzi kunye nendlela ngamnye msebenzi omele wenziwe ngayo. Kunokuba ulinde abanye abantwana ukuba bafunde indlela yokusebenzisana ukuze bafumane umsebenzi - nokuba ngaba umsebenzi udlala umdlalo - aba bantwana abanesakhono baya kuthatha imali kwaye bafumane imisebenzi ehleliweyo.
- Uthando lweMimiselo eqinile
Uninzi lwemidlalo eyenzelwe kwaye nabantwana banemithetho elula. Nangona kunjalo, abantwana abanomdla bafuna umceli mngeni kunemithetho elula. Ngenxa yoko, banokuzama ukwenza imithetho eyinkimbinkimbi yokudlala kunye nokuqondisa abanye abantwana ukuba bawalandele. Ekubeni abanye abantwana abavumelani ngokubanzi ukulandela imigaqo yomntwana omnye, loo mntwana uza kubonakala ekhohlakeleyo. Nangona kunjalo, xa abantwana abanesiphiwo sokudlala badlala kunye, le nto ayidla ngokuba yingxaki kuba bonke abantwana abanezakhono baya kuzama ukwenza imithetho eyinkimbinkimbi. Basenokugqiba umdlalo omtsha onomdla owenziwe ngemithetho eyabanjelwa ngumntwana omnye.
- Kufuneka Ulawulo
Xa abaninzi abantu bacinga ukuba ngabaphathi, mhlawumbi bacinga kuqala ukulawula. Ngokuqinisekileyo kunokwenzeka ukuba umntwana onobuchule unokufuna nje ukulawula imeko enjengeyomnye umntu. Nangona kunjalo, oku akusiyo imbangela yokubambisa abantwana abanobuchule.
Yintoni Oyenzayo Ngomsebenzi Wobungqina
- Isibheno kwiNtshisekelo Yomntwana Wakho Yobulungisa
Phakamisa ukuba abanye abantwana bafuna ukujika ekuhleleni umdlalo kunye nokuba benze imithetho. Oku kunokuba nzima, nangona kunjalo, kuba abantwana abangenabaniki ngokubanzi abakwenzi iindidi ezifanayo eziyinkimbinkimbi kunye nemithetho yabo isenokungabi nalutho. - Isibheno kwiNtshukumo yabantwana bakho kwabanye
Ingxaki yokuzikhethela yodwa ayinakusebenza, kodwa xa isetyenziswa ngokubambisana nesibheno kubantwana bakho, inokukunceda. Yenza umntwana wakho azi ukuba abanye abantwana banokuziva bazibi okanye baziva bebuhlungu xa bengenalo ithuba lokuba benze imithetho okanye baqondise lo msebenzi. - Xoxa ngoBungqina boBungqina obuhle
Uninzi lwabantwana, kunye nabantu abadala, abayiqondi ukuba ubunkokeli abukho malunga nokulawulwa yedwa. Kwakhona kukunika abanye abantu ithuba lokubonisa nokuphuhlisa amandla abo. Xoxa nomntwana wakho malunga nento eyenza inkokheli enhle. Ukufumana umntwana wakho ukuqonda umahluko phakathi kolawulo kunye nobunkokeli kunokumnceda ukuba abone isizathu sokuba ukuziphatha kwabo "kakubi" kungasebenzi. Kuya kukwazisa nomntwana wakho ukuba awuvumeli ukuzama iinkokeli, nje ngeendlela ezithile.
OKUSENZAKO
- Musa ukuxelela umntwana wakho ukuba akukho mntu uya kudlala naye xa edlala. Oku kuthumela umyalezo ongafanelekanga. Ixelela umntwana ukuba ukuhamba kunye kubaluleke ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Okubaluleke ngakumbi, nangona kunjalo, kunokukwenza umntwana abe nomuvo wokuthi into ephosakeleyo kuye. Unokuziva ukuba unomdla ngakumbi ngabanye abantwana kunokuba wenza ntoni ngaye.
- Musa ukuyidimaza intlungu yomntwana wakho. Kungaba nzima kumntwana onomsebenzi ukuyeka abanye igunya kwabanye, ingakumbi xa abanye bengakwazi ukwenza i-gameplay eyinkimbinkimbi okanye bengabonakali. Ukuba umntwana wakho ubonisa iimvakalelo ezinjalo, ziqinisekise kwaye umenze azi ukuba uyaziqonda.
- Ungalindelanga ukuba umntwana wakho abe yinkokeli epheleleyo ngobusuku bonke. Nangona umntwana wakho engase aqonde ngengqondo ingxaki, kuya kusenokuba nzima ngaye. Ukuphuhliswa koonyana abanesiphiwo esinokubangela ukuba kunzima ukuba bakwazi ukujamelana nemvakalelo kunye neengqiqo abaziqonda kakuhle.