Ukungafezeki nokuvelela kungenza umntwana wakho abe mngciphekweni
Ukunika izipho kuyamangalisa ngeendlela ezininzi, kodwa abantwana abanesiphiwo esinokuthi bangaba neempawu ezinokuchaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwezentlalo kunye nomoya. Ukuze uqonde umntwana wakho onesipho , kuyilungileyo ukuba ubone indlela ubuchule bomntwana wakho obuchaphazela ngayo ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Iingxaki eziphumo ezivela kuPhuhliso oluHlanganisiweyo
Izakhono eziphambili zeengqondo azihlali zihamba kunye nezakhono ezentlalo nezengqondo.
Xa izakhono zikhula ngezantya ezahlukeneyo, uphuhliso luchazwa ngokuba "njengama- asynchronous ." Kwezinye iimeko, abantwana abanesakhono banokungena kwiingxaki xa amandla abo engqondo ahambelani namanye amakhono abo. Umzekelo:
- Abantwana abanikiweyo bangakwazi ukuqonda iingqiqo ezingengqiqo kodwa bengenakukwazi ukujongana neengcamango zengqondo, ezikhokelela kwiinkxalabo ezinzulu malunga nokufa, ikamva, isondo kunye nezinye izinto eziphambili.
- Ukuphuhliswa kwezinto eziphathekayo kubantwana kungabangela ukuba bangakwazi ukugqiba umsebenzi ababenako ukucinga ngomqondo. Oku kunokukhokelela ekukhungathekeni okukhulu nokusebenza. (Ukuphelelwa komzimba kungadlala indima kule nkxalabo.)
- Umntwana onobuchule unokukwazi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwingxoxo endala malunga nemiba efana nokufudumala kwehlabathi okanye ukulamba kwehlabathi ngomzuzu omnye kwaye umzuzu olandelayo ukhawuleze ukhale ngenxa yokuba umntakwabo uthathe ithoyilo eliyintandokazi. Oku kunokudibanisa abantu abadala, kwaye kubangele ukuziphatha okungaphezulu kokuziphatha okufanelekileyo.
Iingxaki ezivela kwi-Advanced Verbal and Reasoning Skility
Nangona abantwana abanesakhono abanokukwazi ukufunda, ukuthetha, kunye nokuqiqa ngaphezu kwebanga lesibini, ezo zikhundla zingasetyenziswa rhoqo kwiindlela ezilungileyo. Umzekelo:
- Abantwana abanikiweyo banokuphikisana kunye / okanye ukuxhaphaza. (Abadala bavame ukuvakalisa ukuba aba bantwana bangabameli bamancinci.) Abazali nabanye abantu abadala kufuneka bakhumbule ukuba, nangona iikhredithi kufuneka zinikezelwe ngengqiqo kunye neengqiqo, umntwana usengumntwana kwaye ufuna ukuqeqeshwa okufanelekileyo , kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhaliphile okanye umhle ukuziphatha kunokujonga. Abantwana ababona ukuba banako ukuphatha abantu abadala banokuziva bengakhuselekanga.
- Umntwana onobuchule unokuzama ukuphuma kwabazali kunye nootitshala.
- Isigama esisisigxina kunye neengqondo eziphambili zezinto ezihlekisayo zingabangela abantwana abanesakhono ukuba bangaqondwa kakuhle, oko kunokubenza bazive bengaphantsi kwaye balahlwe. (Esi sisinye isizathu sokuba abantwana abanesiphiwo esinomdla bakhethe ukuhlala kunye nabantwana abadala kunye nabantu abadala.)
Iingxaki eziphumo ezivela ekugqibeleni nokuzivelela ngeemvakalelo
Kuyamangalisa ukuba nezakhono zamabanga aphakamileyo, kodwa ezo zakhono maxa wambi zidala ukulindela okungenangqiqo. Abanye abantwana abanesiphiwo sibe ngabagqibeleleyo, balindele ukuba bafumana amanqaku e-100 kwiimvavanyo. Ukunika izipho kunokukhokelela ekucingeni okungakumbi. Le micimbi ingabangela imiba yokuziphatha; umzekelo:
- Ukutshatyalaliswa kwezinto kungabangela ukwesaba ukungaphumeleli, okwenza umntwana onobuchule aphephe ukungaphumeleli ngokukhanyela nokuzama into ethile (kubandakanywa nokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo).
- Ukuqwalasela ngokukhawuleza, ukucinga, kunye nokukwazi ukubona ngaphaya kwezinto ezibonakalayo kunokubangela umntwana onobuchule ukuba abe neentloni, abuyele kwiimeko ezintsha ukuze aqwalasele zonke iimpembelelo.
- Umntwana onobuchule unokufuna iinkcukacha ezipheleleyo phambi kokuphendula imibuzo okanye ukunika uncedo, okwenza ukuba avele entloni.
- Ubuninzi bobubele bungenza abantwana abanesiphiwo sokugxekwa, okanye nokuba nomsindo oqhelekileyo, ngokwabo. Izilwanyana ezingabantwana azivuli umqolo wazo.
- Ukuqonda kunye nokuqonda kakuhle okulungileyo nokungalunganga kunokubangela inkxalabo malunga neemfazwe, abantwana abalambileyo, ukungcola, ubundlobongela nokungabi nabulungisa. Ukuba balayithwe imifanekiso kunye neengxoxo zale micimbi, banokungeniswa kunye nokurhoxiswa okanye nokuba bahlupheke "ngenxa yokudakumba ."
Phantse zonke iimpawu zobungenako zenza abantwana abanobuchule bazive "behluke," kwanaxa beselula kakhulu. Kubalulekile ke ngoko ukuba ubenze kunye nabantwana abafana nabo kunye nabantu ababaqondayo.