Abaselula banabantu abadala abazama ukufunda iindlela zehlabathi. Xa benza into enkulu esikolweni okanye ekhaya okanye benze isigqibo esipheleleyo, abazali banokubanika umvuzo.
Umvuzo akufanele ube yimali, kodwa yindlela enhle yokuthi " ndiyabonga " okanye " ndiyaziqhenya ngawe. " Intsha ifuna ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo kuba ibonisa ukuba ihamba ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Kwakhona isifundo sokuphila esilungileyo ongasidlulisela kuso: izinto ezintle zenzeka kubantu abalungileyo.
Ngaba Abafana Abanelungelo Lokufumana Umvuzo?
Intombazana inokufumana umvuzo wokuziphatha kakuhle okanye ngokutshintsha ukuziphatha okubi. Nangona akufanele uziva ukuba kufuneka 'uhlawule' yonke into eyenziwa ngumntwana wakho, ukuqiniswa kokuziphatha kakuhle kuya kunceda ukuqinisekisa ukuba iyaqhubeka.
Ngaphezu koko, kulungile ukunika umntwana wakho umvuzo. Kubonisa ukuba ubeka ingqalelo xa umntwana wakho entle efanelekileyo kwaye kungekhona nje xa enza into engalunganga.
Imiphumo evunywe ngumntwana yokuziphatha okuhle
Uluhlu olulandelayo lubandakanya inani lemiphumo ongafuna ukuyiqwalasela. Zizo zonke izinto abafunayo abaselula abazifunayo kwaye zizodwa.
Ewe, ukuba umntwana wakho usemdlalweni okhethekileyo okanye unomdla obalaseleyo, unokufumana umvuzo kuloo nto ngezikhathi ezithile.
- Ihagi. Uya kumangaliswa ukuba lo mqondiso olula usho ukuthini.
- Ukubhaliselwa. Mhlawumbi banomagazini ozithandayo oya kunciphisa ixesha 'leskrini' okanye kukho inkonzo yomculo ehambayo abaye bafuna ukuqala ukuyisebenzisa.
- Ixesha eliqhelekileyo. Banike iyure eyongezelelweyo ngeeveki zabo zeeveki ukuze baxhomeke kunye nabahlobo nje ixesha elide. Oku kunokunceda ukuseka ukuthembeka.
- Ukulala. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba athathe ekuseni aze alale kamva kamva kunokuqhelekileyo. Kakade, oku akufanele kubekho ngosuku lwesikolo.
- Amalungelo Eemoto. Ukwandisa amalungelo akho emoto ekwenzeni imoto ngeyure eyongezelelweyo okanye ezimbini ukuze bahlale kwivenkile okanye ivenkile yeefikile ixesha elincinane.
- Ixesha lekhompyutha. Ukunciphisa ixesha leskrini yexesha elivisayo akuyona into embi. Xa benza izinto ezilungileyo, banike iiyure ezimbalwa zokudlala kwikhompyutha ngaphandle kokwenza umsebenzi wesikolo.
- Isidlo esizithandayo. Nika umntwana wakho ithuba lokucwangcisa isidlo sesinye seentsapho kwaye azivumele ukuba akhethe isidlo esithandayo kunye ne dessert.
- Ubusuku boPizza. Phantse yonke intsha ithanda i-pizza kwaye ungabaphatha kwisidlo kwi-joint pizza eyintandokazi okanye yenza ipayi ekhaya. Mema umhlobo ongcono weselula uze ubavumele ukuba bakhethe izinto ezizithandayo!
- Ubusuku boBomi. Yenza intsapho ihlangane okanye yenza intombazana imemezele abahlobo abambalwa kubusuku be-movie. Banike ithikithi kwibala leemidlalo okanye bafumane abahlobo babo ukuba basasaze loo mbhobho ebusayo kwindlu yakho. Ukuba ubusuku bobushushu beentsapho, buyisane nomntwana wakho kunye nentsha yokukhetha.
- Iikatikiti ze Concert. Ingaba umntwana wakho uyafa ukuba ahambe kwiqela elitsha elitsha kakhulu eliza kutsho edolophini? Bavuze ngeetekiti kwaye bavumele ukuba bamemele umngane ukuba baye kwi-show nabo.
- Igumbi lokulala eliBomvu. Igumbi lokulala elisengumntwana liyindawo yabo endlwini kwaye kulungile ukuhambisa ifenisha okanye udibanise indlela entsha yokuzikhusela njengoko ikhula. Ukuba baye becela kuwe ukubukeka okusha, lo ngumvuzo omkhulu.
- Ixesha lomhlobo. Nika umntwana wakho imvume yokumema abahlobo abambalwa ngaphezu kwe-sleepover okanye nje iiyure ezimbalwa ezongezelelweyo ukubukela ama-movie, ukudlala imidlalo kunye nokuxhoma.
- Unomyayi. Ukuba umntwana wakho akasenayo ifoni yakhe okwamanje, oku kungaba ngumvuzo omuhle wokwenza into ekhethekileyo. Mkhumbuze ukuba ngefowuni iza uxanduva kwaye ulindele ukuba baqhubeke nomsebenzi omuhle okanye ifowuni kufuneka ihambe.
- Izixhobo zokuzonwabisa. Kubaselula abanomdla kwinto ethile yokuzonwabisa, ithuluzi elitsha elinxulumene nalo ngumvuzo omkhulu.
- INcwadi eNtsha. Khuthaza ukufunda nokuvuza umntwana wakho ngexesha elifanayo ngokubanika incwadi entsha okanye isitifiketi sesipho ukuze bakwazi ukuzikhethela.
- Izambatho ezintsha. Yonke intsha ifuna iifashoni zakutsha kunye nekhadi lesipho kwi-mall yinto engummangaliso. Banike uhambo kwaye bavumele ukuba bachithe emini kunye nabahlobo bechitha umvuzo wabo ozuze kakuhle.