Ngaba umncinane wakho ufuna iimfumba ezindala?
Inyaniso elula: Ukulala kubalulekile ukugcina umntwana wakho enempilo - kodwa ukufumana umntwana wakho ukulala akuhlali kulula. Nabo "abalungileyo" abalalayo banokuba namaxesha apho bengakwazi ukulala, okanye bangavuka baze bangakwazi ukuzihlaziya phantsi ebusuku. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho usegxininini lokulala, mhlawumbi unentlungu , okanye mhlawumbi ulahlekelwa ngumva kwintambama kwaye usuke ukhululekile ngoku ekupheleni kosuku.
Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala eneengxaki zokulala ngokwakhe - okanye akabonakali wakwazi ukuzincama ekuphumeni xa evuka ebusuku - ngoko unokuba neengxaki zokulala omele usebenze ngazo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubhekene nexesha lokulala okanye ixesha lokunqumla i- nap, ukuba yintoni umntanakho onokuyidinga yinto enokudumala kunye neentambo. Oku kulula ukutsho kunokwenza, nangona kunjalo, xa unomemeza, umntwana onqabileyo ongenakwenzeka ukuba ufuna ukuthotywa.
Ngama-20 ukuya ku-30 iipounds okanye kunjalo, umntwana wakho ongeyena umntwana olula-on-swaddle-and-soothe owake wakhawula ukulala. Kodwa usengumntwana ngeendlela ezininzi, kwaye ngoku, unokudinga ukubetha ngaphezu kokuba wenza unyaka odlulileyo. Ingundoqo kukumbeka ekhululekile kwaye uhlale egcina ukuvala naye ngelixa eqaqa.
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Nazi izicwangciso ezimbalwa ezinokukunceda ukuzola kunye nokuthuthuzela umntwana wakho.
Ukuphelisa iziphazamiso. Ukubona amathoyizi, ukuvalelwa kweTV, okanye ukuqaphela abanye abantu eklasini kuya kwahlula ingqalelo yomntu ogqithiseleyo okanye okhuselekileyo kunye nokukwenza kube nzima ukuba ahlale phantsi.
Ukuba kunokwenzeka, mthabathe ekamelweni elimnyama kungekho sandi, okanye sebenzisa umculo othobekileyo okanye umsindo omhlophe ukudala indawo yokuzola.
Zama indawo yokulala. Umncinane wakho unokucinga ukuba usemdala kakhulu ukuba loo mntwana ubambe, kodwa ukumkhangela uya kunceda umntwana okhulelwe. Bambelele phezulu kwiphepho sakho ngokusemandleni. Ngokukhethekileyo, uya kukwazi ukufikelela indlebe yakhe ngomlomo wakho ubeke itekisi lakhe eduze kwakhe.
Ungamxineli ngokukhawuleza, kodwa umzungeze ngokuqinileyo ukwenzela ukuba uya kuncitshiswa yindlela enokuyenza ngayo. Ngaloo ndlela, ngeengalo zakho, esifubeni, nakubuso, ungamfaka njengolubobo oludala lwe-swaddle.
Sway kwaye uhlabe isigqi. Iintsana ezahlukeneyo zingathanda ukuhamba okuhlukeneyo; Ngokomzekelo, umntwana omnye unokuthanda ukuxhamla ngokukhawuleza ngelixa omnye angakhetha ukhetho oluhle, oluzinzileyo. Ingqungquthela iya kumnceda aphule ebuthongweni.
Gcina kuyo ixesha elide kunokuba ucinga ukuba uyimile. Oku akusiyo indawo ekhululekile kakhulu, kwaye njengoko umntwana wakho eqhubeka ekhala kunye nokugubha, kulula kakhulu ukuyeka emva komzuzu okanye ezimbini. Ngokuqinisekileyo akunakulindelekile ukwenza njalo ubusuku bonke, nangona (oko kwakungeke kube kuhle nakubani na umntu), kodwa kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ngaphezu kwemizuzu emibini. Kungathatha ixesha elide ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-20 ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko enomntwana wakho. Ukuba ekhanda lakho ugxininise xa unokumbeka phantsi kuya kuba yinto ephazamisayo ngokukhawuleza - kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba akunakusebenza.
Ukusebenzisa into ngaphandle kwewashi ukukunceda ukuba udlule kwaye ulinganise ixesha kunokukunceda unamathele kuze kube yilapho umntwana ehlala phantsi kwaye unokukunceda uzalise ingqondo yakho ngeengcinga ezivuyisa ukuze ukwazi ukubethelela ezo zikhalo kunye nezikratshi.
Umzekelo, umzekelo, unokunciphisa kokubili. I-Pop kwi- Baby Einstein CD okanye ucule ingoma yakho oyithandayo. Nenani ubuncinane ezintathu okanye ezine ezineengoma eziqhelekileyo ngokulungele kwaye uzilungele ukugungqa kwaye zithuthukise ubuncinci nangona kuninzi kuthatha ixesha elide ukucula bonke.
Yazi ukuba ubeke nini umntwana. Ukuba ubeke umntwana wakho phantsi uze umfake kwi-ywn / iso-rub rub / iqhokhwe-nqanaba, ungamfaka kwisibhedlele sakhe. Ukukhala kunokukhawuleza kwakhona kwakhona, kodwa mhlawumbi uye wanciphisa into eyayikukhathaza kakhulu kwaye kufuneka akwazi ukuzinqamla ukulala apha. Nangona kunjalo, uyazi kakuhle umntwana wakho.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntwana usuke ekhululekile okanye ekhungathekile, kwaye oko akufunayo kukuba ulale ebusweni bomama ebusuku.
Ekugqibeleni, kuya kufuneka uyibeke phantsi, kunjalo. Xa wenza, zama ukumbeka ecaleni lakhe kwaye ugcine izandla zakho zisemgangathweni nangaphambili. Ukuba, xa umbeka phantsi uqala ukukhwaza kwakhona, cinezela izandla zakho kuye malunga nemizuzwana embalwa ukumqinisekisa ukuba kulungile. Xa ukucwina kunye nokuxubha kutshabalalisa embalwa imizuzwana, mshiye ukuba aphumle xa ukhulula ezo ntloko zeengalo.