Umntwana oneminyaka eyi-9 uyangena ebusheni kwaye unyawo olulodwa kwinqanaba elincinci lomntwana kunye nelinye ekukhuleni kweminyaka engama-10. Ukutshintshwa kwezi hlabathi kuthetha ukuba ungalindela ukubona umntu oneminyaka engama-9 egijimayo kwaye uhlasele ngomzuzwana omnye aze afike kwi shishini elincinci elilandelayo. Abantwana abaneminyaka elithoba ubudala banokukwazi ukujongana nokuphazamiseka nokuxabana.
Baya kuqala ukukhula ngokomoya, njengokuqonda ukubaluleka kokubambezeleka kokuncedisa okanye ukunceda abanye, okuya kubanceda bahambe ngendlela yabo yeshumi elineshumi elinesibini.
Baza kuxhamla kwinkululeko ekusebenziseni ukuzimela kwabo kodwa baya kusasa kwaye bafune ukuqinisekiswa ngokomzwelo kumama noyise. Abazali bangaqhubeka nokubonelela ngeminyaka engama-9 ubudala kunye nezokhuseleko zeziganeko eziqikelelweyo kunye nexesha ngalinye.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala banokuthi babe neengxaki, kwaye banokucaphukisa umzuzu omnye uze ulungele okulandelayo. Iimvakalelo zabo zingalimaza lula, kwaye zingaphinde zithandane kunye nabahlobo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala baya kukwazi ukuqhuba iingxabano phakathi kwabo.
Ukuzimela
Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala baya kuba bazimeleyo ngakumbi kwiintsapho zabo kwaye baya kuba neemeko zokwenza izinto ezininzi ngokwabo. Bangakujabulela ukuya kumafilimu kunye nosapho lomhlobo okanye nokuba nomngane kunye nabahlobo.
Baya kufaka izibambiso zengqondo kubantu abangaphandle kwintsapho yabo kwaye bangase baqale ukuphuhlisa.
Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 baqala ukuza kwabo. Baya kunandipha ukwakha kunye nokwabelana ngeengcamango zabo kunye neengcamango malunga nezinto, ezizimeleyo kwizinto abazali bazo abazicingayo.
Ukuzithemba
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 banomnqweno onzulu wokuba bafanelwe (oko kwenza ukuba babe noxinzelelo lwabaontanga) kwaye banokuhlazeka lula okanye bahlaselwe ngumgxeka. Basenokuba baxhomekeke ekungathandabuzeki nasekuzigxeka. Ubuhlobo-kunye nemibono yabahlobo babo-kuya kubaluleke ngakumbi kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala.
Abantwana baya kuxhotyiswa bhetele ukujongana neengxaki zengcinezelo zontanga xa benesimo esinamandla sokuzithemba. Abazali banokuthetha nabantwana babo malunga nokubaluleka kokucinga okuzimeleyo kwaye benze oko bakuziva kunyanisekileyo, nokuba ngaba kuhlukile kwabanye abakwenzayo. Bakhuthaze ukuba benze izigqibo ezinempilo kwaye zilungile kubo, kwaye babe nobubele kubo nakwabanye.
Ukuxinezeleka
Kanye njengabantu abadala, abantwana banokuxinezeleka kwimimiselo yemisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Xa uneminyaka engama-9, abantwana baphatha umsebenzi wesikolo onzima nakumsebenzi wesikolo. Baya kuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yecandelo elithile njengemidlalo okanye umculo, ongadinga ukuzenza nokuzinikezela. Kwabaninzi abaneminyaka engama-9 ubudala, uxinzelelo lokusebenza nokusebenza kanzima kunokuba bafanele benze njengabantwana abasebancinci kunokubangela uxhalabo kunye noxinzelelo.
Abantwana abaneminyaka enesithoba nabo bayazi ngakumbi ngeengozi zehlabathi kunye neentlekele zehlabathi. Ukwesaba malunga neziganeko ezinjengezophulo-mthetho okanye iziphepho okanye ukuxhalaba ngomzali onokufa ngomnye usuku kunokusabela endaweni yokoyika ukuba babe nabantwana abasebancinane njengoloyiko lwezilwanyana.
Abazali banako ukukhulula ukuxhalaba kunye neengcinezelo zabo zezingane ngokuthetha nabo ngezinto abanokuzilindela xa bafumana utshintsho oluthile olunjengokuqala okanye esikolweni esiphakathi. Bayaqiniseka kwakhona ukuba bayamxhasa umntwana wabo njengoko elandela izinto ezinomdla kunye nemisebenzi ngaphandle kokubanceda ukuba baphumelele kwaye bazuze ngeendleko zomntwana wabo abasayithandi loo msebenzi.
Bayaqiniseka kwakhona ukuba umntwana wabo ulala ngokwaneleyo kwaye akabukeli izinto ezininzi ezivuthiweyo okanye ezikrakra zeTV okanye ii-movie. Ukungaphuli ngokwaneleyo kunokuchaphazela ukukhathazeka kwengane, kwaye uogonyamelo okanye udidelo olushukunyisayo lungakhokelela ekukhathazekeni komntwana oneminyaka engama-9 ubudala.