Abazali banokudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekukhuseleni imiba yomzimba kwiintsana ezincinane
"Ndiyinyameko." "Ndiyingozi." Amazwi afana nalawa angakhathaza ukuva xa bevela kumntwana oneminyaka eli-10 okanye umntwana osemtsha, kodwa kunokuphazamisa ngokwenene xa bathetha ngabantwana njengaselula njengesikolo sokufundela okanye iminyaka yobudala. Uphando oluninzi luye lwabonisa ukuba abantwana baqala ukuxhalabisa ngesisindo somzimba kunye nokubonakala kwangoko kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 kuya kwe-5 kwaye abantwana abaninzi abaselula bayabonakalisa ukungonwabi malunga nemizimba yabo.
Uphando lweNzululwazi olusondeleyo lweeNgxaki zeZithombe
Uphando olwakhululwa ngo-Agasti 2016 nguMbutho woLondolozo lweNtlalo kunye neNyaka yokuqala (i-PACEY), inhlangano encedisayo enika inkxaso kubantu abasebenzela ukunakekelwa kwezingane kulo lonke elaseNgilani naseWales, bafumanisa ukuba akuqhelekanga kubantwana abaselula ukuba bathethe ukunganeliseki ngendlela khangela. Ezinye zeziphumo zabo zophando:
- Inani elinama-24 ekhulwini labasebenzi bokunakekela abantwana baye babika ukubona abantwana njengabantwana abaneminyaka engama-3 ukuya kweyesi-5 ubudala, bachaza ukungonwabi ngokubonakala kwabo okanye imizimba yabo.
- Amaphesenti angama-47 ama-professional carecare abone ukukhathazeka ngomfanekiso womzimba kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-6 ukuya kwe-10-phantse kabini inani lenani elixhalabileyo phakathi kweeminyaka embalwa nje embalwa.
- Abaninzi abangama-71 abasebenzi bokunakekelwa kwabantwana bakholelwa ukuba abantwana bayaxhalaba malunga nemizimba yabo emncinci.
- Iingcamango ezinjengokuthi "Utyebile" okanye "Uthobekile" ziqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana; abaninzi abangama-37 ekhulwini labasebenzi bokunakekela abantwana baye bava abantwana bethetha izinto ezinje kwaye amaninzi engama-31 eve
- Iipesenti ezilishumi zabasebenzi bokunakekelwa kwengane zibika xa beva umntwana esithi uvakalelwa kakubi, kwaye iipesenti ezili-16 zithi ziye zava abantwana bethe banqwenela ukuba zibukeka zihle okanye zikhangeleka njengomnye umntu.
- Phantse enye kwintlanu (iipesenti ezi-19) abaqeqeshi bempilo yabantwana bathi baye babona abantwana benqaba ukutya ngenxa yokwesaba ukuba kuya kubathambisa.
Olunye umbiko, owakhululwa ngoJanuwari 2015 yi-Common Sense Media ngoJanuwari, inhlangano engenzi nzuzo esebenzayo ekufundiseni nasekuxhobisa abazali, ootitshala kunye nabanomgaqo-nkqubo malunga neendlela zokunceda abantwana baphumelele njengoko basebenzisa i-media kunye ne-teknoloji, bafumanisa ukuba umfanekiso womzimba uqala ukuphuhlisa eselula kakhulu kwaye imifanekiso igxile malunga nendlela umntu ekhangeleka ngayo, ayengenangqiqo, kunye nesini. Ingxelo ihlolisise izifundo ezikhoyo malunga nendlela abantwana nabaselula abavakalelwa ngayo ngemizimba yabo kwaye bafumanisa ukuba imiba emalunga nomzi womzimba iqala ixesha elide ngaphambi kobuntwaba: Abantwana abaneminyaka engama-5 ubudala baqala ukubonisa ukungathandi ngamalungu abo baze bathi bafuna ukunyaniseka. Ezinye iziphumo ezimangalisayo ezivela kwi-Common Sense Media ingxelo:
- Ngaphezu kwesigamu samantombazana kunye neyesithathu kweebhinqa abaselula abaneminyaka engama-6 ukuya kweyesi-8 bathi isisindo sabo esifanelekileyo sinokuba sincinci kunabo.
- Ngeminyaka eli-7 ubudala, enye yezingane ezine sele izame ukuziphatha ngendlela ethile.
- Amanqaku angama-41 emantombazana athi basebenzisa iidiyasithi zentlalo ukuze "bazenze bajonge."
- Ukupasa ama-87 ekhulwini abalinganiswa besifazane kwiTV ephakathi kweminyaka eyi-10 no-17 ingaphantsi kwesisindo esiphakathi.
Iingcebiso kubazali ekuncedeni abantwana bavelise umfanekiso oMzimba ophilileyo
Izingane zifunda ngomfanekiso womzimba-kwaye zihlakulele uxhalabo malunga nokubonakala kwazo-ezivela kwimithombo eyahlukeneyo, kuquka nabazali, abahlobo kunye noontanga, kunye neendaba.
Abazali banokudlala indima ebalulekileyo ekukhuthazeni umuzwa womzimba omhle kubantwana. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokugcina engqondweni:
- Jonga amagama akho. Musa ukuthetha izinto ezinje, "Ndikhangeleke kakhulu kule nto," okanye "andinakuyidla ngenxa yokuba iya kundenza ndithole." Umntwana wakho uphulaphule kwaye ufunda kuwe. Ucwaningo oluqhelekileyo lweMedia Media luboniswe ukuba abantwana abaneminyaka emi-5 ukuya ku-8 abacinga ukuba abafazi babo abanelisekile ngemizimba yabo banokunganeliseki ngamalungu abo. Bonisa ukuzithemba emzimbeni wakho kunye nawe.
- Zama ukungagxininisi ekubonakaleni. Musa ukuthetha ngokubonakala kwabantu kunye nemizimba yabo kwaye bagxininise ngezinto ezibalulekileyo malunga nomntu, njengokuba babenomusa okanye abanomdla okanye bazinzileyo okanye basebenza kanzima.
- Ukugxininisa umzimba kunye nokutya okunempilo. Sebenzisa ixesha lentsapho wenze izinto ezinomsebenzi ezinjengokudlala ngaphandle, ukugibela ibhayisikili, nokuya epakini. Xa usuka kwindawo yokuthenga ukutya, vumela abantwana bakuncede ukhethe izithelo nemifuno enempilo kwaye ufunde iilebula zokutya kunye kunye nokufundisa abantwana malunga nempilo yokutya .
- Ukutshekisha amathoyizi abo. Khawubhekisise kumanani amanyathelo kwisifuba somntwana wakho. Ingaba zixhambile? Ngaba iidodoli ekamelweni lentombi yakho zinokulinganisela okungenakwenzeka ngabantu? Zama ukuhlela ezi zixhobo okanye ubuncinci ukuzithengisa ngeendlela ezibonakalayo zomzimba womntu. Kulungile nokho, isitokethi kwimidlalo yebhodi yokwakha ingqondo , iipuzzle kunye neencwadi ezinkulu zezingane .
- Xoxa malunga neentlobo zesini kunye nesimo somzimba kwiintengiso nakwiimidiya. Jonga umxholo nomntwana wakho kwaye xa ubona iimveliso okanye imiboniso yeTV okanye iifrimu ezibonisa abafazi kwiingubo ezigcobayo okanye ukwenza ukutya okungabonakaliyo kubonakale kuyilingo, uthetha ngezinto ezingalunganga kule mizobo.
- Nciphisa ixesha leskrini. Ucwaningo luye lwabonisa ukuba ixesha lokuvala isikrini linganciphisa ingozi yabantwana yokunyanya ukugqithisa nokuze iphucule amabakala. Fundisa abantwana ukuba bajonge iintengiso zokutya ezidliwayo, ngoku zilandele abantwana kwi-intanethi , ngokuqonda oko bazama ukuthengisa nokuthetha malunga nokuba kutheni oku kutya kukubi kwimpilo yabo.