Inzondelelo phakathi koodade beza ngeendlela ezininzi. Mhlawumbi ujongene nomona oqhelekileyo-oqhelekileyo womntakwabo omtsha onomtsalane obona umona umntwana omtsha ufumana. Okanye mhlawumbi unzima nomntakwabo okhungathekileyo onomona ukuba akakwazi ukwenza konke umzalwana wakhe omkhulu.
Ngayiphi na indlela, kukho iindlela zobuchule onokuziphumeza ukunciphisa ukubetha okubangelwa yi-monster enamehlo eluhlaza.
Thatha amanyathelo okunciphisa umona phakathi kwabazalwana kunye nokukhuthaza ubudlelwane obuhle phakathi kwabo.
Umntwana omtsha
Umntwana wakho wokuqala usetyenziselwa ukuba ngumntwana wendlu, ngoko akufanele afike ukukhwankqiswa xa ebona umona omncinci obonakala eba yonke ingqalelo. Ukugxeka izinto kwintsana ngokuthetha izinto ezinje, "andinakukunceda, ndiyondla umntwana," okanye "Asinakuya elayibrari, yinto yokulala yintsana," iya kubangela ukuba intukuthelo yomntanakho ifumaneke. Esikhundleni sokukhomba umnwe kwintsana, fumana ezinye iindlela zokuthi hayi- "Siya kuhamba emva kwemini" okanye "Ndiza kukunceda ngemizuzu emihlanu."
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukugcina umntwana omdala eziva efunwayo kwaye ebalulekileyo, ngoko unikezele udumo oluninzi xa umbamba ukwenza into enhle , ngokukodwa xa iphathelene nomntwana omtsha. Ukuba unika umntwana umntwana okanye ukhawuleze, hamba udibana nokuba ungumzalwana omhle kangakanani.
Ukuba uyakunceda ngokufumana i-diaper, vuba phezu kwayo.
Yongeza iimbalwa ezimbalwa ezingenabantwana ezinxulumene nomntwana, ezifana nokuthi "Ndiyakuthanda" amaxesha ambalwa okanye ukwenza ixesha ngokuhlwa ukuze ungeze ibali okanye ingoma ngaphambi kokulala.
Ubuntwaneni Ubungqingili
Izinto ziba nzima xa abantwana bakho bekhula-nokuba bubungakanani okanye ngenombolo-njengoko kufuneka ulwa nomona kubo bonke.
Nantsi into ongayenza ukuze unciphise ukuwa:
- Ukwahlula uxanduva ngokulinganayo: Nangona omnye umntwana engase enze njengomxhaphazi kunye nelinye njengexhoba (nangona ixesha elizayo, iindima ziza kutshintsha), musa ukugxeka umntwana omnye. Nangona omnye wabo "Waqalile," cacisa ukuba "ixhoba" alikho kuzo zonke i-spat ayimenywe kuyo.
- Nciphise imvakalelo enomona: Musa ukukrakra xa umntwana omnye ebonisa ukunyamekela umona komnye. Vumbela nje iimvakalelo zabo- "Kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba nomona ngamanye amaxesha" -nje uqhubeke ngokuthi, "Unokwenza izinto ezininzi ezintle, naye. Ngaba ufuna ukuhamba ukuya epakini? "
- Gwema ukufanisa: Omnye umntwana uya kuba ngcono kumatriki kunomnye. Umntwana omdala uya kukwazi ukuqhuba ngokukhawuleza kunomntwana omncinci (ukuya kwinqanaba). Gwema ukuthelekisa malunga nokukwazi okanye ukuziphatha. Mcele nje umntanakho ukuba azithelekise ngokwamakhono akhe angaphambili, afana nokukhangela izakhono zabo zokubhala okanye ukufaka amanqaku amaninzi kumdlalo xa kuthelekiswa nomnyaka odlulileyo.
- Gcina amanxeba angabonakaliyo: Kukhangeleka ukuba kuyinto emnandi kunye nemidlalo yokubiza umnqweno wakho omdala "Ofutshane" kunye nomncinane wakho "klutzy," kodwa ukubethelela iibhokhwe zakho kunokusenza sibe nentukuthelo kwaye, ekugqibeleni, umona phakathi kwabazalwana babo.
- Shedyuli nganye ngeyodwa : Ulaka olukhulu luvela ekucingeni ukuba umzali uyamthanda omnye umntwana ngaphezu komnye. Yenza indawo kwishedyuli yakho ukunika umntwana ngamnye ithuba elithile nje kuphela. Akudingeki ukuba ube yindalo-ungayigulela kwi-sofa kunye nokufunda iincwadi ngelixa umncinci ulele, okanye unokwambamba i-movie kunye nomntwana osemaqeleni xa isikolo sikhulu esikolweni. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana ngamnye uyazi ukuba unendawo ekhethekileyo entliziyweni yakho.