Uphendule isaziso sakho ukuyeka umsebenzi wakho ukuba ube ngumama wokuhlala ekhaya. Yenza utshintsho olusisigxina kumama osebenzayo ukuze uhlale-ekhaya-ekhaya kunye namacebiso athile ukuze ufumane kule mihla yokuqala njengomzali wasekhaya.
1. Yazi Yintoni onokuyilindela
Xa uqala umsebenzi omtsha, ufumana incwadi yomsebenzi. Akunjalo kwihlabathi lomama ekhaya.
Ngoku unabantwana abangama-24/7 kwaye oko kunokuba lulungelelaniso olunzima, ngakumbi xa usetyenziselwa ukuphendula kumphathi, ukuphulaphuza i-buzz epholileyo yamanzi kunye nokusebenza kwindawo eqhutywa yonyaka.
Ngoku umphathi wakho ngumntu ongaphantsi kweemitha ezi-3 ubude, i-buzz yakho epholileyo yamanzi ithathelwe endaweni yintetho encinci kwaye ixesha lakho lokugqibela liquka ukubetha iwashi phambi kokuba i-diaper ivule kwaye iqhube ivenkile ngaphambi kokuba umntanakho ahlawule.
Yazi ukuba ungalindela ngaphambi komhla wokuqala njengomzali wasekhaya. Iimfuno ziya kuba zihluke kwaye kuya kuba njalo uxinzelelo . Awukwazi ukuqikelela ukuba yiyiphi imihla eya kuba ngathi ngoku kodwa uzilungiselele ngaphambi kwexesha ngokubanzi kunokwenzeka kukunceda utshintshile ngakumbi.
2. Musa ukushiya abahlobo abadala
Ukusika izibophelelo zakho kunye nelizwe elisebenzayo akuthethi ukuba kufuneka unqume ubudlelwane nabasebenzi bakho basebenzisana nabo. Yenza iphuzu lokuhlala udibanisa nabantu obenokusebenzisana nabo.
Cwangcisa usuku lokutya kwamalanga onke ngoku. Thumela itekisi nje ukuba uthi hi. Njengezithuba ze-Facebook nje ngokuba abasebenzi bakho basebenzisana nabo bayazi ukuba unomdla. Ezi zixhumo ziya kukugcina ekuzihlukaniseni kwaye akukho nto ephosakeleyo ngokuxhumela inethiwekhi xa unqumle ukubuyela emsebenzini.
3. Yenza abahlobo abatsha
Yenza ubungqina obutsha ngokukhawuleza. Ubuhlobo nabanye abazali basekhaya bangaba ngumsindisi ngaloo mihla unombuzo wakho wokuba ngumama wokuhlala ekhaya. Ziyimithombo ebalulekileyo ukuba uhambele naliphi na ixesha, ngokukodwa ukususela kwirejista efanayo kwaye unako ukuxubana.
Yenza abahlobo bamama kuyo yonke indawo oya kuyo. Umama othetha naye kwi-aisle ye-diaper ingaba yi-BMFF yakho elandelayo (umhlobo omhle kunabo bonke ngonaphakade).
4. Khangela amaqela oNkxaso
Kulula ukucinga ukuba awudingi ukugcinwa kwe-backup. Kodwa iqela lenkxaso lingakunika ukuqinisekiswa kungakhathaliseki ukuba ube ngumama ohlala ekhaya .
Zixhamle kunye nokuba / zenzelwe ukuba omama baqonde yonke into oya kuyo. Akuyiyo yonke into oya kuhlangabezana nayo iya kuba yinto embi, kunjalo, kodwa uya kujamelana nemingeni njengokuba naliphi na umzali kwaye amaqela enkxaso yendawo angakunceda ubhiyozele ukunqoba kwakho ngelixa udibanisa kula maxesha anzima.
5. Hlela ishedyuli
Xa usuka ngomhla we-9 ukuya ku-5, uya kuziva ukhululekile ekuqaleni. Akufanele uqhube umnyango okanye uhlale ixesha elide ukugqiba iiprojekthi. Iintsuku zakho ziya kuziva zihlaziyekile.
Emva koko uza kuphawula yonke into esuka kwiimfuno oza kufuneka usebenze kwimisebenzi yemihla ngemihla. Ngokukhawuleza ukuqala ukuziva kunzima kuba akukho ntsuku ezimbini nje ngokuba ngumama ohlala ekhaya.
Hlela ishedyuli yokuzikhulula ekungabikho komngcipheko ongenakunqunyulwa, ozinzileyo. Ngokuzinikela iintsuku ezithile ukwenza yonke imisebenzi esuka kwindlu ukuya kwindawo yokuthenga, uya kuba nokukwazi ukulawula imihla yakho ngaphandle kwenkqubo evulekileyo eyenza uzive ungenakufumana nantoni na eyenziwe.
6. Thatha ixesha
Xa uxakekile unakekela bonke abantu, kulula ukulibala ukuzinyamekela. Kodwa ngokukhawuleza uya kuhanjiswa kumama ukutshiswa xa ungazithathi ixesha.
Akudingeki ukuba uhambe ngeveki, nangona unako. Nangona ikhefu elincinci, njengendlela yokumisela yokuma kunye nawe ukuba uthathe ibhotile yokubhukuda kanye ngeveki okanye ubusuku ukuyeka ukubeka abantwana ukuba balele ukuze udibanise incwadi yakho oyintandokazi, yenza yonke imohluko kwimibono yakho.
Ungaze uzenzele ixesha. Awufanelanga nje. U yifuna.
7. Fumana Umngane Wakho Umtshato
Wena kunye neqabane lakho mhlawumbi basebenza njengeqela xa usebenza umsebenzi oqhelekileyo.
Oku akufanele kuguqulwe ngoku ukuba ushiye umvuzo.
Gcina iqabane lakho libandakanyeke kwaye uqinisekise ukuba usekwiphepha elifanayo ukuze ungaqali ukuvakalelwa. Kuqhelekile ukuba uzive ngathi utshintshi lwe-diaper yonke, ukulungiswa kokutya kunye nemisebenzi yonke yokuhlamba kufuneka iwele kuwe ngenxa yokuba uhlala ekhaya yonke imini. Kodwa xa iqabane lakho libuya ekhaya ukusuka emini emisebenzini, unokulingwa ukubeka ephedeni kwaye ungaqala ukuziva unetyala ngokucela uncedo. Musa ukuvumela ukuba kwenzeke. Yiba nencoko malunga nendlela iindima zakho eziza kutshintsha ngayo nendlela unokuncedana ngayo ngaphambi kokuba ube ngumama wokuhlala ekhaya, ukuba kunokwenzeka.
8. Khangela Inkathalo yabantwana
Musa ukubanjwa kwisicupho sokucinga ukuba awudingi uncedo lokunakekelwa kwabantwana kuba uhlala ekhaya. Nangona ukuhlala ekhaya kumama kufuna iindlela zokunakekela abantwana.
Unako ubuninzi bezinto ezifumanekayo nazo. Fumana usuku lomama ngaphandle okanye u-co-operative babysitting for carecare and flexible childcare. Akufanele uzifakele kwiintsuku ezithile okanye iiyure ngeveki kunye nale ndlela yokunakekelwa kweso. Zikunika lula ukuba nomntu ubukele abantwana bakho ukuze uhambe wenze okufuneka uyenze malunga needolophu okanye ekhaya.
9. Zinike Into Enonwabo Ukwenza
Kanye njengoko ufuna ixesha, uyafuna into ejabulisayo yokwenza. Khetha i-hobby entsha okanye uthathe iklasi ukukunceda ukugcwalisa i-gap yengqesho kwi-resume yakho.
Ewe, ufuna i-100% yexesha elikhululekile ukuba ungenzi nto nto. Kodwa ufuna kwakhona iphrojekthi kunye nenjongo, ingaba uthunga iipajama zebhulukhwe okanye uququzelele inkqubo yesitifiketi ongayongeza kwi-resume yakho. Ukuba neenjongo kunye nokuzifezekisa kunceda ukugcina isimo sakho sengqondo siphile ngelixa kukukunceda ukuba ugweme umngcipheko womzali ekhaya, konke okwenzayo ngu-24/7 wokufumana umntwana.
10. Khangela imisebenzi eyokugcina wena kunye nabantwana abakhuselekileyo
Ngokuqinisekileyo, ungadlala nabantwana ekhaya. Nangona kunjalo, ngokukhawuleza uya kugubha ubuqhophololo kwaye ngokunjalo baya kubakho abantwana bakho ukuba konke okwenzayo.
Khangela izinto ezonwabileyo ukuze uhlale unomsebenzi onyaka wonke. Fumana i-playgroup kwindawo yakho. Thatha uhambo lweentsuku zokuzonwabisa kwintsimi yokuzonwabisa.
Ukuba ngumzali-ekhaya kuncinci kakhulu ukuhlala ekhaya. Phuma kwiindonga zakho ezine uze udibanise kunye kunye nokunyamezela ukutshintsha kwakho kumama osebenzayo ukuze uhlale-ekhaya-mama.