5 iindlela zokugwema ukuthotywa nokuphelisa ukwesaba
Iiprogram ze-Mother's Day Out zingakunceda ukuba ungeze kwi "ixesha" kwirejista yakho exakekileyo nganye iveki. Baphinda banike abantwana bakho ithuba lokusebenzisana, bahlekise baze bafunde. Khetha iSicwangciso soMama sikhulu soSuku soNyaka ukuze ufumane ukuphuka ngaphandle kokukhathazeka malunga nabantwana bakho ngelixa bengabikho.
Njengomama wokuhlala ekhaya, kulula ukuziva unetyala ngokumisa umntanakho ukuba omnye umntu amnyamekele xa usenza oko ngokwakho.
Nangona kunjalo, uMama woSuku lweNkcazo unokuba yinto enhle kubo bobabini.
Xa uqwalasela inkqubo yoMama ka-Day Out, zikho iindlela ezinhlanu zokwenza isigqibo sakho sibe lula:
1. Thatha ixesha lakho
Ukuba unzima nesigqibo, ngoku ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuthatha isinyathelo emva. Akukho ukukhawuleza ukubandakanyeka kuMhla woMama ngaphandle.
Vumela ixesha elithile lidlule kwaye ubuyele kumba kamva. Ngethuba nje ukuba iseshoni yobudala bomntwana wakho ingagcwele, iinkqubo zoMama zoSuku zivumela ukuba ubhalise naliphi na ixesha lonyaka. Awunagxininiswa ekubhaleni kwe-semester-hlobo njengokuba uza kuba kwisikolo.
Buza amanye amaMama
Awunabo yedwa kwiimvakalelo zakho zecala kunye nokukhathazeka. Njengomama omhle, awukwazi ukunceda kodwa uzibuze ukuba wenza into efanelekileyo kumntwana wakho.
Thetha nabanye abomama kwi-intanethi, ngokusebenzisa i-playgroups okanye uxoxe nabamama bemi emgceni kwivenkile yokutya. Buza ukuba abantwana babo babandakanyeka kwinkqubo yoMama woSuku kunye, ukuba kunjalo, yiyiphi na.
Musa ukuzithiba ngokubuza le mama ukuba benze njani isigqibo sokubeka umntwana wabo kuMhla woMama. Mhlawumbi babenenkxalabo efanayo.
Njengomama, sithanda ukuthetha ngabantwana bethu kunye nemingeni eqhubekayo esibhekene nayo. Amathuba angancinci uya kumcaphukisa umama ngokubuza ngeemvakalelo zakhe.
3. Hlaziya iShedyuli yakho yangoku
Ukuba umdla wakho omkhulu kuMhla woMama ngaphandle kukuba unenkxalabo malunga nentlalo yoluntu lwakho, jonga oko usenjenjalo imihla ngemihla.
Ngaba ubandakanyeka kwiiklasi zomculo ngeveki kubantwana? Amagqabana asekuhlaleni kunye nezingane kwi-age range? Gymnastics encinane?
Yonke into oyenzayo isenokuba yanele. Ukuba awunakulungele ukuhlukana nomntwana wakho, sebenzisa ixesha kwindawo yokudlala, kwi-zoo okanye kwindawo yokudlala yokudlala. Uyakwazi ukuthetha nodokotela wakho wezilwanyana malunga nokuba ixesha elingakanani umntwana wakho ufuna ukuchitha kunye nabanye abantwana bakhe ubudala.
4. Khangela uMama kaMhla ngaphandle kwendawo
Awukwazi ukwenza esi sigqibo ngaphandle kokutyelela indawo yokuqala yoMama kaMaspala. Xa ubiza ukucwangcisa ityelelo, qiniseka ukuba umntu oya kumjonga umntwana wakho uya kuba khona.
Uninzi lwenu loyiko luya kulahla ngexesha lokutyelela. Ngokuqhelekileyo uza kufumana abantwana abakwamagumbi, njengamagumbi okufundela, ngokusekelwe kwiminyaka yabo. Emva kokuba ubone abantwana bepayipi yobugcisa befriji, bedlala ngamathoyi kunye nokuphulaphula amabali, uya kubona ngokucacileyo indlela umntwana wakho oza kuphathwa ngayo.
Ukudibanisa umlawuli weprogram kunye nabani abaya kujonga umntwana wakho rhoqo ngeveki kunokukunceda ukuba unqume ukuba le ndawo apho uya kuziva ukhululekile ukushiya abantwana bakho. Buza imibuzo eninzi. Ziziphi iinkqubo zabo zokhuseleko?
Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba kukho imeko engxamisekileyo? Ngaba basebenzisa isigwebo?
Ungaxhalabi. Awuyena umama wokuqala ukubuza le mibuzo efanayo. Kufuneka ukwazi izimpendulo kwaye baqonde.
5. Qala ngeSuku olunye
Uninzi lwamaxesha omhla ophuma kwiinkqubo likuvumela ukuba ubhalise ukususela ngolunye usuku ngeveki ukuya kwiihlanu malunga neeyure ezine ngosuku. Qala ngokukhawuleza uze uthathe umntwana wakho kanye ngeveki.
Jonga indlela enoba nithanda ngayo ixesha. Unokumangaliswa kukuba ungubani onomngcipheko ongakumbi kunomntwana wakho.
Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba unetyala lomama, khumbula nje, kukho isizathu sokubizwa ngokuba nguMama woSuku ngaphandle koLuku lweMvana ngaphandle.
Ezi ntlobo zeenkqubo ziyaqaphela ukuba umama unzima kwaye ufanelekile ixesha lakho.
Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba, awuyi kwenza isigqibo esingalunganga apha. Nantoni na oya kuthatha isigqibo sokwenza kuya kulungele wena nentsapho yakho.