Ukufezekisa ukulingana njengoMzali wasekhaya oMsebenzi

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Ubuzali kunye nokusebenza ekhaya: Indlela yokulinganisa ezimbini
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Akunakuze kube lula kubazali ukuba bafumane ukulinganisela kweli hlabathi elibucayi, kwaye abazali basekhaya abangekho nto. Ukukhulisa abantwana ngumsebenzi ovuzayo kodwa onzima. Kwaye kunjalo, kungathiwa okufanayo nangomsebenzi wabazali abaninzi. Kungabonakala ukuba ukusebenza ekhaya kungasisombululo kule ngxaki - ukuba kunokudala ukulingana okumnandi phakathi kwepilo yethu yasekhaya kunye nokuzikhangela.

Ngokuqinisekileyo, oko kuyi nyaniso; oko kwenzeka ntoni ngaloo ndlela. Nangona kunjalo, ayenzeki ngaphandle komgudu. Ukusebenza kwikhaya ngokuqhelekileyo kuvumela ixesha elongezelelweyo leentsapho, kodwa lizisa iingxaki zokulinganisela umsebenzi. Xa uphuma waya kwindawo yokusebenzela imihla ngemihla, ukuba ulandele ngokuzenzekelayo umgca phakathi komsebenzi wakho kunye nosapho. Xa usebenza ekhaya, kufuneka udwebe loo mgca ngokwakho.

Ukulinganisa ngokufanelekileyo iimfuno zobomi bomsebenzi kunye nobomi bentsapho endaweni enye, abazali kufuneka benze ukhetho olufanelekileyo ngosuku nosuku. Kufuneka bahlolisise ezinye zeengxaki ezinkulu abajamelana nazo njengabazali basekhaya. Qala ngale mimandla emine yeengxabano ezinokungalingani.

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Ukudala iMigqaliselo engqongileyo
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Xa usebenza ekhaya, ufuna imithetho yomntu wonke. Kufuneka kubekho izikhokelo kubantwana nakwabanye ekhaya kwindlela yokuziphatha xa usebenza. Yintoni efanelekileyo yokuphazamiseka ngexesha lakho lomsebenzi kufuneka licaciswe kubo bonke, kuquka abantu abadala. Abantwana bavame ukulibala imithetho, ngelixa abantu abadala bengacinga ukuba ayisebenzisi kubo.

Nangona kunjalo, musa ukuyeka apho xa uqulunqa loo mithetho yomthetho ekhaya. Mhlawumbi kubaluleke ngakumbi imigaqo oyenzela yona. Kuthatha ukuzimela ukuze uphumelele ekusebenzeni ekhaya. Iintsuku ze-Cranky kunye neenkomfa zee-ncomo zikhona ngoku zihlala kunye kummandla omnye, kwaye kuya kuwe ukugcina ii-worlds zakho zingahambi.

Iikhompyutha zimele zivelise njengoko iofisi yabo ihamba nayo. Abanikazi bezentengiselwano zasekhaya kunye neentlawulo zabanikeli bee-freelancers zixhomekeke ngexesha kunye namandla achithayo kwiimbopheleleko zabo zobugcisa. Ukufunda ukuphepha iziphazamiso - nokuba ngaba iindawo zokuhlamba iimpahla, abantwana abanesidingo somsebenzi wesikolo, okanye iimemedia media memes ufa nje ukuzabelana-uyisitshixo ekuphumeleleni.

Umhlaba wakho ulawula, nangona kunjalo, akufanele nje ukugubungela indlela ochitha ngayo ixesha lakho lomsebenzi, kodwa nokuba ungakanani ixesha ochithayo ukusebenza. Lo usika izibini zombini: Iziphazamiso zinganciphisa ixesha lokusebenza, kodwa kwi-24/7 yobudala bexhulumaniso, iifowuni ziyakwazi ukusebenza nzima kakhulu. Kungenxa yokuba unako ukusebenza nanini na ixesha lomini okanye ubusuku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka ulindeleke ukuba. Beka imigaqo esemiselweyo kunye needyuli ezikunceda ukukhusela ixesha lakho.

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Ixesha leNkcazo: Imilinganiselo yexabiso kunye nexabiso
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Ukuba ngaba abazali bafanele bajolise kwixesha elifanelekileyo okanye ubuninzi bexesha kunye nabantwana babo ingxabano eneminyaka elidala kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zeendlela kunye nezigwebo malunga nokukhetha kwabanye ubomi. Ngoko masingahambi apho!

Esikhundleni saloo masi, sivumele ukuba ngamnye sihlole umgangatho kunye nobungakanani ngokusebenzisa i-lens ebomini bethu kuba le yintengiso eyenziwa ngabantu bonke ngamanye amaxesha. Xa usebenza ekhaya, unokufumana ithuba lokulinganisela kangcono le mibini xa ukhetha ukhetho ngendlela engqondweni.

Njengomzali wendlu-msebenzi, mhlawumbi unelungelo lokuba nomntwana wakho ixesha elide kunye / okanye ngaphezulu kwexesha. Uninzi lwalo xesha kunye, nangona kunjalo, lithethwa ngumqeshi wakho okanye neemfuno zebhizinisi lakho. Ukuqonda ukuba ngokwenene ukubonakala ngokwenyama akufani nokuchitha ixesha kunye. Nangona kunjalo, lo msondelelo kukunika ithuba lokuthatha ikhefu ngexesha lomsebenzi kwaye ugxininise kubantwana bakho, kunokuba usebenzise i-multitasking kwaye ubanike isigxina xa usenza into ethile.

Ukusebenza kwabazali basekhaya (kunye nabo bonke abazali) kufuneka babe ngamaxesha amaninzi, kodwa kufuneka babe neengqiqo ngokukhawulezileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Yenza xa kungekho msebenzi wakho okanye umntanakho angayi kubandezeleka kuyo. Yenza ukhetho olucacileyo malunga nokuba usebenza nini kwaye xa ungekho. Abantwana baya kulinda ixesha elide kunye nangakumbi ngokunyamekela ingqalelo ukuba ngaba bayathemba ukuba baya kukunakekelwa ngokupheleleyo.

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IShedyuli Yentsapho kunye Nemisebenzi Yabantwana
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Xa abantwana bebancinci, abazali banokulawula ngakumbi ixesha elichitha kunye kunye. Abazali bangena kwixesha elithile lomgangatho ngokubhala imizuzu embalwa ukuhla phantsi baze badlale okanye bafunde incwadi ndawonye. Njengoko abantwana bekhula kwaye bangena esikolweni, iingxaki kwixesha losapho zivela kwiinkalo zombini: iishedyuli zabazali kunye nezingane.

Nangona kunjalo umthwalo wale macandelo uxakeke uwela ngakumbi kubazali. Ngokukodwa, umzali osebenza ekhaya unokuba nguye ojongene nokugcina iishedyuli zabantwana kunye nokuhambisa abantu kwimisebenzi yabo eyahlukeneyo. Abazali banokuzitholela ngokulula ukuthatha iifowuni kunye nokuhlola ii-imeyli phakathi kweemoto zokuhamba okanye ukusebenzela ebusuku. Mhlawumbi oku kusebenza kubazali abathile basekhaya, kodwa kwezinye iindlu kuya kubangela ubunzima.

Ngayiphi na indlela, zonke iintsapho kufuneka ziqaphele ukuba ishedyuli yabo yentsapho iya kuba njani kwaye yiyiphi i-trade-offs. I-Telecommuters ezithinjwa yishedyuli yentsapho efuna ukuba baninzi babo banokubeka imisebenzi yabo, okanye ubuncinci bamalungelo, ekungciphekweni. Abanikazi bezentengiselwano zasekhaya banokuthi banciphise inzuzo yabo. Nangona kunjalo, nabo banokukwazi ukulawula iintsapho kunye neemfuno zabo zobugcisa ngexesha labo kufuneka benze ukhetho olufanelekileyo xa ukhetha imisebenzi yezingane. Loo mvo yokulawula uyayifumana ngokukwazi oko ukhetho olukhethileyo lwakho lwentsapho luyenzile kwaye kutheni lunceda ekunciphiseni uxinzelelo lwexesha elipheleleyo.

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Inani elifanelekileyo lokuzithandela kunye neNgxowa-mali
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Xa usebenza ekhaya, abantu balindele izinto kuwe ezingalindelanga kubantu abangena kwiofisi. Mhlawumbi babona ukuba uneshedyuli esingapheliyo okanye akukho nto yokwenza. Abamelwane baya kubiza baze bacele izibonelelo; osebenza nabo baya kucela ukuba usebenze kwiiyure ezingaqhelekanga. Iikhompyutha zimele zifunde ukujongana nezi ntlobo zezicelo.

Ngaphezulu, abazali kufuneka bajongane nezicelo ezininzi zokuzithandela, ukuxhaswa ngemali okanye ukuya kwimimangaliso yemini. Ezi zicelo kunye nokulindela okungenangqiqo malunga nokulungelelaniswa kweeshedyuli zabazali abasebenza ekhaya bangabandakanya ingxaki.

Oko kunjalo, kubaluleke nakakhulu ukuba abazali benze ukhetho oluthe xaxa malunga nokunika ixesha labo. Umzali osebenza ngaphandle kwekhaya unokuhamba umgama omde, kwaye ngoko akunjalo umbuzo malunga nokuba ngaba bayakwazi ukuhamba ngesiganeko ukuya kwimbali yeveki okanye ukunceda eklasini njengendawo yomzali. Umzali wendlu-msebenzi unokuthi uvalelwe kwaye mhlawumbi unokukwazi ukubeka ishedyuli yabo. Oko akuthethi, nangona kunjalo, banakho ixesha lokunika.

Abazali basekhaya basekhaya, njengabo bonke abantu, kufuneka basebenze ngaphakathi kwemida yobomi babo kwaye baqaphele ukuba bangazithobeli. Sekunjalo, ukuzithandela kusetha umzekelo omhle kubantwana kwaye kungaba yinxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuba kutheni umntu angakhetha ukusebenzela ekhaya.

Ukuba uceba ukuzithandela, cinga ngokucophelela ukuzinikela kokuzithandela. Yazi oko ungena ngokubuza imibuzo ngaphambi kokuba uvumelane. Yaye ulungele ukuthetha ngokungahambisani nezicelo kunye nokubeka imida.

Izikolo zemfundo kunye nezemidlalo zenza olunye uhlobo lomngeni kubazali basekhaya. Bambalwa abazali abavuyiswayo ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwi-fundraising yesikolo, kodwa ngaphandle kwenethiwekhi yabalingani beofisi ukuthengisa kuyo (kwaye uthenge kuyo), abazali basekhaya basebenzi banokhetho oluncinane. Nangona amajelo asekuhlaleni angancedisa abazali ukuba basasaze ilizwi malunga nabaxhasi bezimali, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba kungcono ukuba wenze umnikelo kumbutho.

Njengoko ukhetha imisebenzi kwishedyuli yomntwana wakho kubonisa ukukhishwa kwezorhwebo, ngokunjalo ukuzithandela nokuxhaswa ngemali. Qiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba zeziphi iindleko kunye neenzuzo.

Ukuba le miba emine ikunike ezinye izinto ozicingayo malunga nokwenza iinqununu ezifanelekileyo malunga noko unokukwazi kwaye akunako ukwenza xa usebenza ekhaya, ngokulandelayo ukhangele ezi nyathelo zekhonkrithi ukugcina ukulinganisela xa usebenza ekhaya.