Ujikelezwe ngabantu bonke imini. Awunakuze wedwa. Kwaye nangona usubile imizuzwana engama-30, uhlala ubamba umntwana olele okanye ulindele isicelo esilandelayo kubantwana bakho abangaqinisekiyo into ethile xa uhlala phantsi. Ngaba kwenzeka ntoni na? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba unesizungu endlwini ezele abantwana?
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba unabantwana abangaphi, kulula kakhulu kwaye uqhelekile ukuba uzizwe unesizungu, nangona unabantwana endlini.
Nasi isizathu:
Uzihlukanisa
Abazali basekhaya bawela kalula kumgibe wokuzimela. Kulula ukukhusela ukungabikho koluntu lwabantu ngokuhlala nje ekhaya. Kwaye kulula ukuhlala kwiipajama zakho kunokuba ugqoke, upake ipokethi ye-diaper uze ushiye indlu ukuya kwindawo yokudlala .
Ubomi bokuba ngumzali ekhaya, ngokusemthethweni kukuvumela ukuba udibene kunye kwaye akulungile kuwe. Ukuzihlukanisa, okungaphezulu kwezinto ezilula kunokuzimela ngokusuka kwimpucuko, kubangela ukuba unesizungu.
Uthetha nabantwana yonke imini
Uxhalaba malunga nezingane zakho ezaneleyo zentlalo . Kodwa ngaba ufumana i-socialization ngokwaneleyo? Ngokuqinisekileyo, uthetha abantwana bakho yonke imihla kodwa loo ntetho ifaka iingxoxo ezinzulu njengaye, "Ngaba i-diaper yakho ingcolile?" kunye "Nomnye umntu kwaye ufuna i-nap." Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngokuphindaphindiwe kuwe, "Ndiyathanda," kwaye "Mama, mama,".
Hlola kunye neqabane lakho kwikhefu lakhe lesidlo sasemini.
Shayela umama wakho. Xoxa nomntu okhulileyo ubuncinane kathathu kwimihla yakho ukuze uzigcine.
Ucinga I-Social Media igcina Uxhumeke
Imidiya yoluntu iyakhohlisa. Siziva ngathi sichitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo bethu ngenxa yokuba sithande isithuba sabo okanye basithumela impendulo emibili kwisigwebo kuloo mfanekiso omuhle esithumele abantwana bethu.
Kodwa amajelo asekuhlaleni akwenzeki ngokwenhlalo. Akufani nokuphuma apho kwaye ubonane ubuso nobuso kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho. Kufuneka unqume ukudibanisa kunye nabanye.
Uziva Uyenza Yonke Yodwa
Kukulungele ukuvuma ukuba kukho iintsuku ezithile unomona ngomnye wakho obalulekileyo njengoko ekhupha ngaphandle kwindlela yokuhamba kwaye abuyele emsebenzini. Unemini epheleleyo yokukhulisa phambi kwakho kwaye ngamanye amaxesha uya kubonisana ngokuzonwabisa ukuba uhlale kwiintlanganiso ezide ugqoke isitifiketi seshishini kunye nezithende yonke imini.
Ukuze ukwenze uzive unjengewe wedwa wedwa, iqabane lakho libuyela ekhaya ekupheleni kosuku lilungele ukuphumla kwisitulo sakhe esithandayo kwaye ufuna ukuba angene kwixesha kwaye ulandele ukutshintsha kwakho usebenze konke usuku. Nangona kukulungele ukuthetha nomlingane wakho ngaphambi kokuba ube yi-SAHM ukuze ubenokubakho kwiphepha elifanayo kunye nokulindela kwakho, akukaze kwenzeke kakhulu ukuqala ingxoxo ngaphambi kokuba zakho iimvakalelo zikhokelela ekubeni unesizungu kunye nentukuthelo.
Awunakuze Uhambe NgeNdlu Ngaphandle Koonyana Bakho
Ngakuphi ixesha lokugqibela owashiya indlu ngaphandle kokunceda umntu angene kwisihlalo semoto? Kufuneka uphume endlwini kwaye kufuneka uhambe nawe.
Ngeke uhlale unako ukuphuma endlwini ukuze ujonge ixesha elide edolophini kodwa ke uhambo oluya kwivenkile lunokuziva luhlaziya ukuba inqwelo yakho yokuthenga ayigcwalisekanga isiqingatha sezingane ezithungela i-cereal kunye ne-candy iithalafu njengoko uzama ukuthenga izithako zokutya kwesihlwanje.
Amanye amaMama akabonakali ukukufumana
Uziva ngathi uyiyo indlovu egumbini xa uxhoma kunye namanye amama. Kubonakala bekunye kunye kunye novuyo xa konke uvakalelwa ukuthanda ukukwenza ukuxhamla malunga ne- diaper ukukhwabanisa iikratshi zakho iintsapho zifakwe kwiifoto zakho zomtshato. Kungenxa yokuba ulwabelana ngamama kunye nabanye akuthethi ngokuthe ngqo ukuba uhambelana njengabahlobo.
Ubuhlobo bubaluleke kakhulu kumama kwaye lunokunceda ukulwa nalawo mava. Njengokuthandana, kufuneka ufumane umntu onelungelo. Khangela amaqela omncedi omama ofanayo. Fumana inombolo yefowuni yomama owawuxoxa naye kwindawo yokudlala.
Misa umhla wokudlala ukhuthaze ngamnye umhlobo ukuba ulethe umntu omtsha ukuze unyuse isangqa sakho sobuhlobo. Ukwenza olo buhlobo obuqinileyo luya kukunceda ubone ukuba awunabo kunye kwaye sonke sinaloo mihla emihle.
Ukuzaliswa kwabazali kwikhaya kukuzibopheleleko kwe-24/7/365
Akunjalo ukuba oomama abasebenzayo abazali abazali 24/7/365. Kodwa baya kuphuma endlwini ngexesha lexesha elimisiweyo. Wena, ngakwelinye icala, usekhaya kunye nezingane zonke imini, yonke imihla. Ukhona kuyo yonke into ebalulekileyo, kodwa yonke idiaper iyatshintsha kwakhona. Ufumana uvuyo lokuba khona kubo kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni, kodwa kufuneka ujongane nemisipha rhoqo uhlambulule yonke imihla ngenxa yokuba nonke nihlala ekhaya.
Awusifaki usuku. Awunakho ukubiza umnxeba. Uhlala usemsebenzini, ngoko uthetha, kwaye awukwazi ukuya kwindlu yokuhlamba yedwa. Kuthatha ixesha ukuba usebenzise ukulungiswa kwaye kukho intsuku ongenakuvakalelwa ngathi. Ukuzibophezela okwenzileyo kunokuziva ngathi uyintsikelelo nesiqalekiso, kuxhomekeke kwimini. Zizenzele ngeenkqubo zenkxaso, zenzele ixesha kwaye ungalibali ukuzonwabisa nobusuku bakho nomlingane wakho. Uya kuba ngumama ongcono, onwabileyo olahlekelwa yinto enesizungu.