Kukho amanye amagama kwisigama sethu esiya kuthi, ngokubanzi, sinxulumane nabafundi besikolo. "Hayi." "Yam." "Gimme." La mazwi aqhelekileyo ahamba kunye ne-pull, iqonga okanye ukunyakaza kwesifuba-kuzo zonke iimeko, i-early schooler ibambe into exabisekileyo (okanye engeyona-eyigugu), into engayifuni umntu ukuba unayo.
Ukufundisa abantwana ukuba bahlanganyele into abangafuni ukuyiyeka kunokuba ngumsebenzi onzima, kodwa unokuyenza. Nantsi indlela.
Ubunzima: Umyinge
Ixesha elifunekayo: Uhluleke kumntwana
Nantsi indlela:
- Beka umzekelo omhle . Ukuba ufuna isikolo sakho sokufundela ukufunda ukufunda, kufuneka uhlanganyele naye. Ukuba u-snack kwi-apple tincetu, mnike enye. Ngaba uyakuthanda umbala kunye nabamakishi bakho? Myeke udwebe umfanekiso kunye nabo. Beka inxaxheba kwisenzo ngokumisela ukuziphatha okuhle. Yabelana ngezinto kunye neqabane lakho okanye iqabane kunye nokuqwalasela isenzo. "Siyabonga ubaba ngokuxelela i-popcorn yakho kunye nam. Ndiyayithanda xa sinokubelana ngokutya."
- Khumbula ukuba izikolo zakho zokufundela izinto kunye nezinto zokudlala ihlabathi lakhe. Ba hlonele. Ngenxa yokuba uncinci kwaye akazange athenge izinto ezibhekiselwe kuyo, basenabo. Ukuba ufuna ukuboleka into ethile, qi niqiniseke ukuba ubuze kwaye uthi ubongwe xa usugqibile. Qiniseka ukuba abantakwabo ba landela. Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, qiniseka ukuba into enombuzo iimeko ezilungileyo xa uyibuyisela.
- Qinisekisa ukuba isikolo sakho sokufunda esikolweni siyazi ukuba yeyiphi inxaxheba kwaye ukuba xa ubelana nomdlalo wokudlala kunye nomntu, abakwazi ukuwugcina ngonaphakade. Ukuba akafuni ukwabelana ngesidonsa sakhe, setha i-timer kwaye uchaze xa i-timer ihamba, sekuyisikhathi sokuvumela omnye umntwana ukuba aphendule. Xa ebona ukuba uya kufumana idoli yakhe emva koko, unokufumana ithuba lokunika ixesha elizayo.
- Fumana ukuba kutheni umfundi wakho wesikolo angasifuni ukwabelana ngento ethile. Ngaba kwakuyisipho esikhethekileyo esivela kumntu? Ingaba itsha elitsha? Ngaphambi kokuba uqeqeze umntwana wakho ukuba angabambisani, funani isizathu sokuba uziphatha ngale ndlela.
- Ngamanye amaxesha unako ukubetha isikhubekiso xa omnye umntwana engayi kubelana kunye nomncinci wakho, kodwa kusekhona ithuba lokufundisa. Yenza umntwana wakho azibeke ezicathulweni zomhlobo wakhe ukuba azi ukuba kutheni umhlobo wakhe engafuni ukwabelana naye. Yithi into enje, "Ndicinga ukuba ithoyizi ikhethekileyo kumhlobo wakho. Kutheni ungafumani enye into oyidlala nayo?"
- Mbonise ukuba ukwabelana kuyinto emnandi. Yenza imisebenzi kunye nemidlalo enokubakho iimbini okanye ngaphezulu - sebenze kwi-puzzle, udlale umdlalo webhodi okanye ubhake ii-cookies kunye. Xa iinjongo zifezekisiweyo - iphazili iphelile okanye i-cookies isilungele ukuthetha-thetha malunga nokuba kwakukhulu kangakanani ukwabelana nalo msebenzi kunye naye.
- Qaphela xa kulungile ukuba ungabelane. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho izinto onokufundela esikolweni akulungele ukuyeka. Kwaye kulungile. Ukuba uyamnyanzela ukuba ahlanganyele into engakulungele ukuyeka, ingaba yenzeke, iyenze ibe nomsindo kunokuba ibe nesisa. Ngaphambi kokuqala umdlalo wokudlala , ngena endlwini uze unyuse izinto ezinokuthi angabikho umntu odlala naye. Beka endaweni ekhethekileyo. Emva koko ungene kwaye ukhethe izinto ezintle zokwabelana - ubugcisa, iipuzzle , imidlalo yebhodi. Oku kuya kubeka itoni efanelekileyo.
Iingcebiso:
- Sebenzisa ukuqiniswa okulungileyo. Mnike izinto zokwabelana kunye nabahlobo kwibala lokudlala okanye esikolweni njengamacwecwe, i-snack yeklasi okanye amathoyizi amancinci. Xa ebona ukuba ukwabelana okunokubangela ukuba kumnandi, uya kuba nokwenza ngokwakho.
- Xa umhlobo efika ngenxa yokudlala, buza abazali bomntwana ukuba bayakwazi ukuzisa ithoyizi okanye ezimbini ukuba babelane ngazo. Ukuba umfundi wakho wokufunda esikolweni ubona ukuba umhlobo wakhe wabelana ngezinto zakhe, umntwana wakho unokulandela.
- Linda. Ixesha lilingana kakhulu. Njengoko umncinane wakho ukhulisa izakhono zentlalo kwaye wenza abahlobo bokwenene, ngokukhawuleza uya kuqonda ukuba ukwabelana kuyamnandi kwaye ukudlala nodonsa wakhe ozithandayo nomhlobo kungcono kunokudlala kuphela.
- Khumbula ukuba ukwabelana akuhlali kubandakanya izinto ezibonakalayo. Hlala phantsi kwaye wabelane ngebali okanye umcimbi. Futhi sebenzisa igama elithi "isabelo" rhoqo kwisigama sakho. Ingakumbi xa unesikolo sakho sokufunda esikolweni uva isabelo segama, oko kuya kuba yinto eqhelekileyo kunye nesibini.
- Ukubonisa ukwabelana okuhle xa ubona. Ngaba ufumene isikhwama esihle kwixesha lokuzalwa? Yithi indlela enhle ngayo yenkwenkwe yokuzalwa ukuba yabelane nabangani bakhe ngosuku olukhethekileyo. Ingaba umhlobo wabelana nge-snack kwindawo yokudlala? Qiniseka ukuba bobabini kunye nomncinci wenu niyabonga . Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, xa isabelo sakho sokufunda esikolweni, qiniseka ukuba uqaphele.
Ingaba ufuna ntoni:
- Umonde
- Ukuqinisekiswa okulungileyo
- Omhle mzekelo
- Amathoyizi ayenzelwe ukwabelwana - i-walkie talkies, imidlalo yebhodi, iimpahla zobugcisa
- Indawo yokubeka amathoyizi umntwana wakho akalungele ukwabelana ngoku
- Into ekhethekileyo unokwabelana nomncinci wakho