Nento enokuyenza Ukuba umntwana wakho nguye owenza ukulinganisa
Ekubeni ubuso babo, ukukloloda kubonakala njengentando yobuntwana. Kwenzeka imihla ngemihla kwindawo yokudlala kwiidlali kunye nasezikolweni - abantwana behlekisayo, bedlala ngokubizana amagama . Amalungu omndeni athatana rhoqo ngexesha, akunjalo? Kungumnandi nje omnandi.
Into enokuklolokra, nangona kunjalo, kukuba inokukhawuleza ibe yintlonelo , ngokukodwa nabantwana abancinci abangaboniyo ukuba bangayimisa njani imeko yokuphuma ngaphandle kokulawula.
Nantsi inkcazo yeso sizathu sokuba abantwana badibanise kunye nezinye iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokunceda umntwana wakho ukuba asebenze njani kwaye kufuneka wenze ntoni ukuba umntwana wakho ungumculi we-teaser.
Kutheni abantwana beTekisi
Iminyaka yokufundela yile minyaka yokukhula nokuphuhlisa okukhulu, ngokukodwa kwimihlaba yolwimi . Njengoko umntwana wakho enezela amagama amatsha kwi-repertoire yakhe kwaye akhulise ukusebenzisana nabanye, uyaqala ukuqonda ukuba ezinye iibinzana zithwala ubunzima obuninzi kwaye zenze ezinye izimpendulo (ezilungileyo okanye ezimbi) kunabanye.
Esi sifundo esibalulekileyo ukuze sifunde, kodwa esinye esisoloko sikhokelela ekuhlekeleni. Ukuba ilizwi elithile, "Uyingane!" Ngokomzekelo, kubangela ukuba omnye umntu athukuthele, umfundi wakho wesikolo (okanye omnye) unokuyifumanisa ingqalelo engakumbi.
Abantwana nabo bahlekisa ngenxa yokuba bahlala besetyenziselwa. Ukuba umntwana uvela kwikhaya apho ukukrakra nokukrakra kuyinto evamile okanye, xa bebukele ezininzi iinkqubo zethelevishini apho abalinganiswa banalo ulwimi, mhlawumbi umntwana uya kubonisa indlela yokuziphatha aze athathe ngayo njengeyakhe.
Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana wakho ekhutshwe
Umfutshane wokulandela isikolo sakho sokufunda esikolweni kunye nokulawula zonke iintsebenziswano zakhe zentlalo, awukwazi ukummisa ukuba angamnquli. Kodwa unokumnceda. Nantsi indlela:
Makhe Akwazi Ukuba Uyaqonda
- Ngamanye amaxesha, ngomntwana, nje ukuva kumzali ukuba banokuqonda malunga noko kwenzekayo kwaye uya kubanceda baqaphele indlela yokusombulula le ngxaki kukukhululeka okukhulu.
- Thetha oko kwenzekile. Nangona ubonile ukukhwabanisa kwenzo okanye ukuva uguqulelo lwebali ukusuka kwititshala okanye umkhathaleli, fumana indlela yomntwana wakho ngayo.
- Ukwazi ukuba umntwana wakho ubona ntoni okwenzekayo kuya kukunceda wenze isigqibo sokuba ungene njani imeko kwaye uze nesisombululo esifanelekileyo .
Ukuxhobisa Umntwana Wakho
- Nangona kuya kuba lula ngokulula (kwaye makhe sijamelane nayo, ukukhulula) ukuba uhambe phezu komntwana okanye abantwana abahlekisa umntwana wakho kwaye bavumele ukuba babe nayo, mhlawumbi asiyiyo ingcamango engcono.
- Kunoko, xhobisa i-early schooler kunye nezixhobo azakuzifuna ukuzimela . Mfundise ukuba athethe into enje, "Andiyithandi xa uthetha!" okanye "Nceda uyeke ukundikhahla ngoku."
- Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana okhuphayo akalindeli umntu abaye bahlekisa ngaye, ngoko ke impendulo elula, enamandla ihlala isebenza ezimangalisayo.
- Ngoko uhamba ngokuhamba, enye inqubo ephumelela kakhulu ekukhutsheni i-teasers ekhulile.
Mfundise Ukuhle Ukucela Uncedo (kwaye Kukulungele Ukuba Uyenze Ngoko, Njalo)
- Nangona abanye abantwana bengenayo ingxaki yokuthetha nokuvumela wonke umntu ngaphakathi kwinqanaba lokuva bayazi ukuba baye baphoswa, abanye badana, besaba ukuba babhalwe nge- tattletale .
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uhlala ecatshulwa ngumnye umntu, xelela ukuba kulungile ukucela umntu omdala ukuba ancede.
- Ukuba uqinisekisile okanye ukhumbule ukuba umntwana wakho unemiba ekhuselekileyo okanye ukunakekelwa kwamasango, ke yinto efanelekileyo ukuba ucele uncedo kunye nendlela yokuthetha notitshala. Zama ukufumana isibambiso kwizinto ezenzekayo kwaye ufumane oko ungakwenza ekupheleni kwakho ukukunceda umntwana wakho.
Qinisekisa ukuba akukho nto ihlaziya ekhaya
- Umntwana otyhonywa esikolweni okanye kwondlo lwemini mhlawumbi akayi kuthatha ngomusa into efanayo eqhubekayo ekhaya, nokuba nguwe okanye umntakwenu owenza ukuklolodela. Okwangoku wakho umncinci ufuna iimeko ezixhasayo kunye naluphi na ukugubungela - nokuba yinto enhle-ingadibana nokuqhambuka kwemvakalelo kunye / okanye kubangele umntwana wakho uxinzelelo.
Into enokuyenza xa Umntwana Wakho Uthanda Ukuyihlaziya
Eyona nto yinto enomdla, akunjalo? Usuke umbukele umncinci wakho emnye umntu, okanye uxelelwe kuwe ukuba umntwana wakho ugxeka umlingana naye. Ngoku kuthweni?
Okokuqala, phumula. Uninzi lwabafundi abasebancinci abaqhawulayo abajongi ukuba bahlasele ngenkohlakalo. Kukho isizathu esivakalayo esilandelayo kwisenzo sabo. Nantsi indlela yokufumanisa ukuba yintoni.
Khangela ukuziphatha kwakho kunye nezinye iziphumo zeKhaya
- Unxibelelana njani nomntwana wakho? Ngaba uyazihlaziya? Akukho mntu uthi ukukrokraza okungenabungozi phakathi komzali nomntwana kunzima, kodwa qiniseka ukuba awuthathi kude.
- Ingaba i-schooling school yakho iyaxutywa ngumntakwabo osekudala okanye isihlobo kunye nokuziphatha kwayo komnye umntu? Luhlobo luni lweenkqubo zethelevishini ezibukeleyo?
Zama ukuKraza ngaphandle Kutheni
- Kukho iziganeko ezininzi malunga nokuba yintoni eyenza umntwana ahlekise omnye. Zama ukufikelela kwingcambu yomcimbi. Ngaba umntwana wakho unomona ngomnye umntwana?
- Ukuba ngaba ngumntakweno , ngaba abantwana bayabambana?
- Unokuzama nokubuza umntwana wakho oko kwenza ukuba enze ngale ndlela. Qonda kwakhona ukuba ubomi obunzulu buguquka njengokuzalwa komntakwabo omtsha okanye abazali abaye baqhawula umtshato, kunokubangela ukuba umntwana wakho asebenze.
Chaza ukuba Kutheni ukuhlaziya kuyingozi
- Kungakhathaliseki isizathu sokuba umntwana wakho aklolodeze omnye umntu, into enyanisekileyo kukuba le yindlela yokuziphatha efuna ukuyeka.
- Yiba nencokola nomfundi wakho wokufundela ngendlela ukukrakra kungalimaza. Buza ukuba azibeke ezicathulweni zomntu otyhonyelwayo - uya kuziva njani ukuba umntu uthetha amazwi athetha naye?
- Thetha malunga nendlela abantu abahluke ngayo - indlela esigqoke ngayo, jonga, kuthetha, njl. - kwaye ngenxa yokuba umntu ahluke ngathi ngandlela-thile, akuthethi ukuba bafanele bahlekise.