Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana angene kwintsapho yakho, umntwana wakho wamtshela ukuba uya kuba nomzalwana omncinci omhle okudlala naye, kwaye kuya kuba mnandi kangakanani. Emva koko umzalwana omncinci uyazalwa kwaye umntwana wakho ucinga, "Ngaba undibamba? Ingane ebomvu, ebomvu ejongene nexesha lakho kunye nengqwalasela kufuneka ibe yi-FUN? "Emva koko" udlala "nomntwana kwiindlela ezizodwa azi ngayo.
Udlala ukudlala. Uyamemeza ngenxa yokuphosa amathoyizi kwintsana. Udlala ngokufihla nokufuna. Uyamemeza ukuba ufumane ingubo ebusweni. Unika inkunzi yenkomo, kwaye uyamcebisa ukuba alumke. Ngaba kuyamangalisa ukuba umntwana wakho odidekile udidekile?
Fundisa
Injongo yakho yokuqala kukukhusela umntwana. Okwesibini, ukufundisa umntwana wakho omdala indlela yokusebenzisana nomntakwabo omtsha ngendlela efanelekileyo. Unokufundisa umntanakho indlela yokudlala nomntwana ngendlela efanayo ufundisa naye enye into. Thetha naye, ubonise, ukhokele kwaye ukhuthaze. Ukuze uqiniseke ukuba ufezekise umnqweno wesibini, kunjalo, musa ukushiya abantwana bodwa kunye. Akulungele. Kodwa kuyimfuneko, mhlawumbi kubaluleke nakakhulu.
Hover
Nanini na xa abantwana bebonke, "hamba" kufuphi. Ukuba ubona umntwana wakho malunga nobutha, thatha umntwana kwaye uphazamise umntakwabo omdala ngengoma, into yokudlala, umsebenzi, okanye intlanzi.
Eli nyathelo likhusela umntwana ngelixa likunceda ukuba ugweme umtya oqhubekayo we "Nos," onokuthi ukhuthaze ukuziphatha okubi .
Fundisa i-Soft Touches
Fundisa umntakwabo omdala ukuba anike njani umntwana umntwana onomhlaza. Xelela ukuba lolu hlobo lokuthintela ulunyame kangakanani umntwana, kwaye udumise umntwana omdala ngomsebenzi owenziwe kakuhle.
Esi sifundo sifundisa umntwana ukuba abe ngumzimba nomntwana ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Mthetho ngokukhawuleza
Njalo xa ubona umntwana wakho ewa, okanye enze ngokukhawuleza kunye nosana, yenza ngokukhawuleza. Unokumemezela ngokuqinileyo, "Musa ukubetha, ixesha lokuphuma." Faka umntwana kwisitulo sithuba kunye nesitatimende esithi, "Unokuvuka xa ungasebenzisa izandla zakho ngendlela efanelekileyo." Mvumele ukuba angene ngqo ukuba Ufuna ukuba nje unononophelo kunye nomntwana. Oku akusijeziso, emva koko. Kukumnceda nje ukuba afunde ukuba izenzo ezinzima aziyi kuvunyelwa.
Bonisa
Abantwana bafunda oko bahlala khona. Umntwana wakho omdala uya kujonga njengoko uphatha umntwana kwaye ufunde kwizenzo zakho. Wena ungumfundisi wakho obaluleke kakhulu. Ubonakalisa kuyo yonke into oyenzayo, kwaye umntwana wakho uya kufunda kakhulu ngokukujonga.
Dumisani
Nanini na xa ubona umntwana omdala ethinta umntwana ngokunyanisekileyo, yenza amazwana aphilileyo. Yenza ingxabano enkulu ngokuphathelele "obalulekileyo umzalwana." Huganisa uphinde umanga umntwana wakho omdala uze umxelele ukuba uziqhenya kangakanani.
Jonga Amazwi Akho
Musa ukugxeka yonke into emntwaneni. "Asikwazi ukuya epakini; umntwana ulele. "" Thula, uya kuvusa umntwana. "" Emva kokuba ndiyitshintshe umntwana ndiya kukunceda. "Ngeli xesha, umntwana wakho uya kuthengisa ngokukhawuleza umntwana.
Kunoko, sebenzisa ezinye izizathu. "Izandla zam zixakeke ngoku." "Siza kuhamba emva kwemini." "Ndiza kukunceda ngemizuzu emithathu."
Nika inkxaso
Yazisa imvakalelo yengane yakho, engathi "Izinto eziqinisekileyo zitshintshile kunye nosana olutsha apha. Kuya kusithatha sonke ixesha ukuba sisetyenziswe kule nto. "Gcina izimvo zakho zilula kwaye ziqhele. Ungatsho ukuthi, "Ndiyathengela ukuba uyamthiya umntwana omtsha." Endaweni, tshela, "Kumele kube nzima ukuba uMama achithe ixesha elininzi kunye nosana." Okanye "Ndibetha ukuba ufuna ukuba siye epakini ngoku kwaye kufuneka ungalindelanga umntwana ukuba avuke. "Xa umntwana wakho eyazi ukuba uyaziqonda iimvakalelo zakhe, uya kuba nesidingo esincinci sokwenza ingqalelo.
Nika Uthando Olongezelelweyo
Ukwandisa imiboniso yakho encinane yothando ngomntwana wakho. Yisho okunye ndikuthandayo, ukwandisa umthamo wakho wemihla ngemihla, uze ufumane ixesha lokufunda incwadi okanye ukudlala umdlalo. Ukulungiswa kwexesha eliqhelekileyo okanye iingxaki zokuziphatha ziqhelekileyo kwaye zinokunciphisa ngeqondo elithile lexesha kunye nokuqwalaselwa.
Zibandakanyeke
Fundisa umntakwabo omdala ukuba unokunceda njani umntwana okanye indlela yokuzonwabisa umntwana. Vumela umntakwabo omdala avule izipho zomntwana aze asebenzise ikhamera ukuze athathe imifanekiso yomntwana. Mfundise indlela yokubeka iisokisi zentsana. Masifefe i powder. Ukudumisa nokukhuthaza xa kunokwenzeka.
Ukwenza ngamnye Uvelele
Gwema ukuthelekisa abantakwabo, nangakumbi ngezihloko ezinjengobunzima bokuzalwa, xa ngamnye eqala ukukhwela okanye ehamba, okanye obeneenwele ezininzi. Abantwana banokuyichaza ezi mpendulo njengento yokugxeka.
Thatha umoya ophelileyo uze uzinzileyo. Eli lixesha lolungiso kumntu wonke osapho. Ukunciphisa imisebenzi engaphandle, ukhulule izindinganiso zokugcina indlu, kwaye ugxininise kwizinto eziphambili, ulungelelanise ubungakanani bentsapho yakho entsha.