Kukho zonke izizathu zokubangela ukuba abantwana bangabikho esikolweni. Ngethuba ixesha umfundi ephendulela ngobundlobongela, kuphelile ukuba uqalise ukulungiswa ngokukhawuleza. Amaphephandaba amaphepha malunga nabantwana abaneengxaki zokuziphatha abaye bahlala bebuhlungu bahlala bethetha ngamathuba alahlekileyo kwaye kutheni kungekho mntu uncede. Nazi iindlela ezintlanu zokuqala ukujongana neengxaki okanye iingxaki ezinokuqala, xa kusekho ixesha lokusebenza kunye nootitshala nabalawuli ukwenza isikolo indawo enokunyamezela umntwana wakho.
Ivolontiya kwiSikolo Sezingane Zakho
Ukuba ubukho esikolweni somntwana wakho - nokuba uyazivolontiya kwilayibrari okanye uncedo kwisinkwa sasemini, ukhonza njengomzali weklasi okanye izithuba ezikhethekileyo-uhlawula iintlawulo ezininzi. Ikwazisa ngokulawulwa kwiimeko ezingenanto. Ivumela umntwana wakho ukuba isikolo sibalulekile kuwe kunye nendawo ofuna ukuba kuyo. Ikunika ithuba lokujonga okokuqhubekayo kwisakhiwo, ukusuka ekuqhubekeni kwabafundi kwiinkalo zootitshala. Ukuba awukwazi ukulondoloza ixesha lokuzivolontiya ngexesha lemihla yesikolo, yiya kwiintlanganiso nganye zeKhaya kunye neSikolo onokukwazi, kwaye qi niqiniseke ukuba ubonisa ukubuyela kobusuku beSikolo kunye neenkomfa zothisha . Xa abasebenzi besikolo beza kubazi njengomzali onomdla kunye nomdla, banokuthi babe ngabahlobo bakho xa iingxaki zivela.
Mamela xa Umntwana Wakho Uthetha
Kwi -Child Press , umbhali uMichael Thompson ucebisa ukuba abantwana abaphenduli umbuzo othi "Isikolo njani?" kuba bayazi ukuba abazali bafuna ukuva iindaba ezilungileyo.
Ucebisa abazali ukuba baxhamle kunye neyona nto ifuna ukuyenza esikolweni - ii-desks ezingenakulungeleka, ii-classrooms ezizikhuselekileyo, ootitshala abadityanisiweyo, umsebenzi olula okanye obunzima kakhulu. Cinga ngeyona nto ifuna ukuba ngumntwana wakho esikolweni. Buza imibuzo malunga neemvakalelo, kwaye uphulaphule ngokwenene into ayithethayo.
Musa ukukhawuleza ngeentetho ze-pep kunye ne-pat ngasemva. Ukuba nomntu onokuphulaphula, ngaphandle kokugweba, kunokukunceda ukuphazamisa ezinye iintsizi ezinokuthi zenzeke ngokukhawuleza ekusebenzeni okuyingozi. Yaye ukuba uphulaphula ngokukhawuleza, unokukwazi ukufumana ezinye iindlela zokunciphisa umthwalo wemvakalelo yomntwana wakho.
Yiba Nengqiqo Ngezakhono Zomntwana Wakho
Ukuxhaswa nokukhuthaza nokulindela okuphezulu kunako ukuqhuba abanye abantwana ukuba babe nakho konke, kodwa kunokubangela abanye ukuba baxhomeke kwixhala kunye nokuxinezeleka. Ngaba ufuna ukusebenzela umsebenzi, imini kunye nemini, apho uhlala ufanele ufikelele phezulu kwamakhono akho, ukuphatha izinto ongeyena phezulu kwaye uthemba ukuba izinto zihamba kakuhle? Abantwana abakwazi ukuyeka, kwaye banomsebenzi omncinci ngokubhekiselele kwimiqathango yokusebenza engcono, kodwa banokufumana zonke iindlela zokwenza umsindo nokuphelelwa lithemba. Yinyaniseka kwaye unovelwano xa ucinga uhlobo luni lokufundela umntwana wakho oza kufunda ngokusemgangathweni kwaye yiziphi iintlobo zezibonelelo azakuzifuna. Izifundo zibalulekile, kwaye akuphosakeleyo ukuba zenze inkxalabo yakho enkulu, kodwa inkxaso yeemvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zokuphatha zibalulekile, nazo.
Zihloniphe iGunya
Sonke siyazi ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani ukulwa nabantwana bethu kwaye sibe namandla, abameli abaphumelelayo.
Lo mzabalazo unokusenza sicinge ukuba abanye ootitshala nabanye abalawuli abafanelanga ukuhlonipha, kwaye isigwebo sabo singathandabuzeki. Kodwa yibani kakhulu, qaphela ukuba unxibelelana njani nomntwana wakho. Unokucinga ukuba isigidimi osinikezayo kukuba i-grown-ups inokuphosakela, kwaye uya kuhlala unamathela kuye, kwaye kufuneka azixabise nangona abanye begxeka. Umyalezo wakho umntwana uwamkela, nangona kunjalo, nokuba kukulungile ukungahloneli ootitshala, imigaqo ayisebenzi kuye, kwaye uya kuhlambulula yonke into eyenzayo. Yiyo isimo sengqondo esiqinisekileyo sokubangela iingxaki ezinkulu esikolweni, nangaphezulu - ukuba ufundisa umntwana ukuba aphendule igunya, kungekudala okanye kamva uya kubuza yakho.
Cela iFBA
Ukuba isikolo sithumela izikhalazo zasekhaya malunga nokuziphatha komntwana wakho - kwaye silindele ukuba wenze okuthile malunga naloo nto - ukubeka ibhola enkundleni yabo ngokucela ukuVavanywa koVavanyo lweNtsebenzo (FBA). Oku kuya kunyanzela abasebenzi basezikolweni ukuba bacingisise ngokuziphatha komntwana wakho, kungekhona nje ukuphendula ngayo. I-FBA ihlola oko kuza phambi kokuziphatha kakubi kunye nemiphumo yintoni kuyo; yintoni eyenzekayo indlela yokuziphatha engayisebenzela ngayo umntwana; kwaye zeziphi izinto zezinto ezinokummisela. Ukuba umntwana ufumana iklasi yokusebenza kanzima okanye igumbi lokufundela lixinzezelekileyo, umzekelo, ukuthunyelwa kwindlovu okanye inqununu okanye ikhaya liba ngumvuzo, kungekhona isigwebo. Ukuqhuba i-FBA nokubhala isicwangciso sokuziphatha esisekelwe kuyo mhlawumbi yindlela efanelekileyo yokukhupha iingxaki zokuziphatha. Ukuba ootitshala nabalawuli bayenqaba ukuhamba kunye naloo nto, unokufuna ukwenza uhlalutyo oluncinane kubo.