Wonke umntu uyaphumelela xa abazali kunye nezobuchule behlangene
Isiphumo esihle kakhulu sokuphumelela kwesikolo kukuqinisekisa ukuba abazali nabafundisi basebenzisana kunye njengabalingani. Ngamanye amaxesha, kunoko, kubonakala sengathi kukho umgca wokulinganisa ogqitywe phakathi komntwana wakho.
Kwiphepha lasekhaya lomgca, kukho zonke izinto owaziyo ngomntwana wakho, uncedo owamnika ngomsebenzi wesikolo kunye nentuthuko yakhe yentlalo kunye nabantakwabo kunye noontanga.
Kwinqanaba lesikolo lomgca, kukho zonke izinto ootitshala bakho owaziyo ngaye, uncedo afumana nalo msebenzi wesikolo kunye nophuhliso lwentlalo kunye noontanga.
Ingcaciso kumacala omabini angabandakanywa ukudala ukuqonda okupheleleyo komntwana wakho. Oku akusiyo kuphela inzuzo kuye kodwa nakwabafundisi bakhe.
Ukuthetha, Ukuthetha, Ukuthetha!
Yinto into abazali abava ngayo yonke ixesha, kodwa ivelisa kwakhona. Esinye sezihluthulelo kubazali kunye nootitshala abasebenza ngokubambisana kukunxibelelana kakuhle. Into engenakucaca kukuba ukunxibelelana isebenza ngeendlela zombini.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, kukho ubuninzi bezinto omele uxelele ngutitshala wakho ngomntwana ukuba ancede ukuqala unyaka ngokufanelekileyo, kodwa uxanduva lokugcina uxhulumaniso olufanelekileyo lomzali-notitshala aluxhomeli kuphela kumzali.
Ulwalamano lwabazali-titshala lusebenza kakuhle ukuba utitshala akayi kuyenza kuphela umzamo wokuphendula iimfuno zakho kunye nemibuzo kodwa ufikelela ekuboniseni iinkxalabo kunye nokuncoma nawe.
Kodwa unokwenza ntoni xa ucinga ukuba utitshala akaphili nxalenye yakhe?
Imiba yeeNhloko zeNtloko
Ukujongana nootitshala abanzima kunzima kodwa akuqhelekanga njengoko ungacinga. Ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba utitshala womntwana wakho unobulungisa okanye ahlulelani nolwazi oluninzi njengoko kufuneka, lixesha lokuba inkomfa yabazali-titshala ukuba ibuze imibuzo malunga nokuba kwenzekani.
Qhubeka ukhumbula engqondweni ukuba ukuze ufumane ixesha elininzi kwixesha lakho, kubalulekile ukucwangcisa intlanganiso ngaphambi kwexesha. Kanye njengoko utitshala ekubamba kwindawo yokudlala ayifanelekanga, akukho nto uyimdonsa ngasecaleni komsebenzi wesikolo. Kukho umahluko omkhulu phakathi kwendlu evulekile kunye nenkomfa yabazali-titshala !
Ukusebenzisana Neziqhamo Zomququ
Akunabo bonke abantwana abanokuguquka okulula esikolweni okanye banandipha esikolweni. Enyanisweni, kuqikelelwa ukuba ukuya kuma-20 ekhulwini kweezingane zibonisa iimpawu zokuziphatha ukwenqaba esikolweni ngexesha elithile kwisikolo sabo. Kwaye imihla ngemihla abantwana abangenakubalwa bayakhalaza ngenxa yokukhathazeka esikolweni .
Abanye abazali baxanduva lokugxeka kunye noxanduva lweengxaki zomntwana, bengathethi kunye nesikolo kuba baziva ngathi ingxaki yabo yodwa ekujonganeni nayo. Abanye abazali bavakalelwa kukuba isikolo sidlulisela isigwebo ngokubeletha kwabo xa befumana umnxeba becela ukuba bahlale phantsi baxoxe ngomntwana wabo.
Akunjalo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukuhlala phantsi ukwenza izicombululo kunye yindlela efanelekileyo yokulungisa okanye ukujongana nezinto ezinzima. Ukujongana nokukhanyela esikolweni kudinga ukuba wena kunye nesikolo uxoxe ngezinto owaziyo ngomntwana wakho kwaye usebenzisa le nkcazelo ukuza nesicwangciso sokumbuyisela eklasini.
Ngokufanayo, ukuhlolisisa izizathu ezingabangela ukuba umntwana azinyuke esikolweni kulunge ngokufanelekileyo kunye. Ukuva oko umntwana wakho akuthethayo ekhaya kukunceda esikolweni, kwaye ukwazi oko kubonwayo kwaye kuthiwe eklasini kukunika umxholo othile wokusebenzisa xa uva izikhalazo zomntwana wakho.
Cinga ngezinye izinto
Ukwakha intsebenziswano phakathi kwabazali nootitshala bathembela kootitshala abaphulaphule abazali nabazali bethatha ixesha lokuqonda apho ootitshala bevela khona. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali nabafundisi bobabili banetyala lokugxotha enye imbono.
Njengomzali, xa uchithekile ukuba uzive, unganamathuba okuthatha inxaxheba kwimfundo yomntwana wakho.
Njengoko utitshala, ubuncinane unomuva wokuva uvalelwa, unako ukuyeka ukuthetha nomzali.
Izinto ezinokubonakala zijongene neengxaki, njengoluhlu lwemisebenzi enjani eyenza umfundisi ufuna umzali okanye umzali echaza ukuba isikolo sifanele senzeni ukufumana umntwana onobuhlungu obuncwane, akusoloko efuna ukuba ayenze. Injongo yokuphela ifanayo kumzali kunye nesikolo: kuncedisa abantwana ukuba banembopheleleko, bekhuselekile kwaye baphumelele.