Abantwana abakwiSikole
Abantwana abaninzi banomdla wokuya esikolweni. Basenokungonwabi rhoqo nxalenye nganye yosuku lwesikolo. Kodwa ngokubanzi, bathanda ukuchitha ixesha kunye nabahlobo babo esikolweni, ukufunda izinto ezintsha, kunye nobunzima.
Ezinye ezinye izingane ziyakwesaba ukuya esikolweni. Kwala bantwana, ukuya esikolweni kunokubangela uxinzelelo kangangokuthi badibana nomsindo ngenxa yokuya esikolweni okanye ukukhalaza iimpawu ezinjengeentloko, isisu esiswini okanye intlungu yesifuba.
Isizathu sokuba abantwana baKhuphe iSikole
Kwabantwana abathile, kukho ukuqala ukukhanyela esikolweni, njengokuxhatshazwa, ukuhlaselwa kwintsapho okanye ukufudukela kwindawo entsha. Ukulandela enye yeziganeko, ingakumbi ukuba zidibene nomntwana ehlala ekhaya nawe ixesha elithile, umntwana wakho akasenakufuna ukuya esikolweni kwakhona.
Nangona ukukhanyela kwesikolo kuye kwadibaniswa kunye nokukhathazeka kokukhathazeka kokuhlukana kunye ne-social phobia, indlela elula kakhulu yokucinga ngayo kukuba ukukhanyela isikolo kukubambisana nomntwana wakho wesikolo kunye neengcamango okanye amava anokubangela ukungaqiniseki okanye ukwesaba.
Iimpawu zoKwala kweSikolo
Ukunqatshelwa kweSikolo kuqhelekileyo kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-5 okanye engama-6 ubudala-xa baqala ukufundela inkulisa. Kuqhelekile kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-10 ukuya kwe-11 ubudala, ekupheleni kweminyaka yokugqibela yesikolo sokuqala.
Ukongeza kokubandezela nokulila xa ixesha lokuya esikolweni, iimpawu ezingabhekiswa ngabantwana xa bengathandi ukuya esikolweni zingabandakanya izikhalazo ezingacacanga ezifana:
- Isisu somzimba
- Intloko
- I sizathu
- Utywala
- Iintlungu zesifuba
- Intlungu ehlangeneyo
Nangona ezi zibonakaliso ziyafumaneka nakumanye abantwana abanezinye iingxaki zezokwelapha, esinye isibonakaliso esihle sokuba zibangelwa ukukhanyela esikolweni kukuba zihamba ngcono kamva emva kokuba umntwana wakho eqonda ukuba unokuhlala ekhaya.
Ezinye iimpawu ukuba iimpawu zomntwana zingabangelwa ukulahlwa kwesikolo, endaweni yezinye izimo zonyango, zibandakanya:
- Ukufumana ubunzima obufanelekileyo
- Ukungabi nomkhuhlane, ukuhlanza okanye uhudo
- Akukho mpawu ebonakalayo xa engekho esikolweni, kuquka neveki neeeholide
- Akukho zibonakaliso ezibonakalayo zokugula xa u tyelela udokotela wezilwanyana-ngokomzekelo, unokukhalaza ngentlungu edibeneyo, kodwa ugqirha akafumani ukunyakaza okuhlangeneyo okanye ukukhawulelana okuthe ngqo
- Ukubonakalisa kolunye uloyiko, i-phobias, okanye iimpawu zokuxhalaba, ezifana nokuziphatha okunyanisekileyo, ukukhathazeka ngokweqile,
UkuLawula Ukwenqaba KweSikolo
Injongo ephambili ekulawuleni ukulahlwa kwesikolo kukufumana abantwana esikolweni. Xa abantwana bebonakala begula kwaye bezama ukuhlala ekhaya ngemini, akusoloko kulula ukuqonda ukuba bayaziphepha esikolweni.
Ukutyelela kwinqanaba lakho lezilwanyana ngokuqhelekileyo kuyisinyathelo sokuqala esihle xa abantwana bakho bengathandi ukuya esikolweni. Olu tshekishelo luqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho akanaso isimo somzimba esibangela iimpawu zakhe. Ngelishwa, ngelixa iimeko zomzimba zihlala zikhutshwa emva kokuba udokotela wengane yakho uthetha nawe nomntwana wakho kwaye uvavanya umzimba, abanye abantwana abanqatshelwe esikolweni baphela bebona iingcali ezininzi kwaye banemivavanyo emininzi ngaphambi kokuxilongwa.
Emva kokuxilongwa kokukhanyela esikolweni, kunokukunceda:
- Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uya esikolweni imihla ngemihla, ekubeni uhlala ngakumbi ekhaya, kuya kuba nzima ukuba abuyele esikolweni.
- Qonda ukuba nangona umntwana wakho engenakho ingxaki engokwenyama ebangela iimpawu zakhe, oko akuthethi ukuba loo mpawu ayiyinyani. Ngoko umntwana wakho akayi kuyenza iimpawu, ezinjengesifo esiswini okanye iintloko-zinokubangelwa ukuxhalaba kwakhe ngokuya esikolweni.
- Xoxa nabasebenzi bakho nabantwana besikolo ukuba ubone ukuba ngaba uyayibona into eyenza ukuziphatha komntwana wakho ukuphepha ukuziphatha, njengokuxhatshazwa, iingxaki zokusebenza zesikolo, okanye inkathazo yokwenza abahlobo .
- Fumana ukudluliselwa kwengqondo yomntwana okanye yengqondo yengqondo yengane, ngaphezu kwesazi sakho sezingane, ngakumbi ukuba ucinga ukuba unyanzele umntwana wakho ukuya esikolweni imihla ngemihla.
- Ukuphuhlisa isicwangciso xa umntwana wakho eneempawu esikolweni, ezifana nokuchitha iminyaka emi-10 ukuya kwe-15 kwiofisi yomhlengikazi aze abuyele eklasini.
- Gcina idayari yesifo uze ubone isazi sezingane zakho iintsuku apho umntwana wakho evakalelwa ukuba akanako ukuya esikolweni.
- Cinga ngonyango lwentsapho ukuba kukho naziphi na iingcinezelo ekhaya, njengokuqhawula umtshato, ukuhlukana, iingxaki zokuziphatha, ukufa kwintsapho, umntakwabo omtsha, okanye ukufuduka kwangoko.
Enye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu kubazali kukuba zivulekele ingcamango yokuba iimpawu zomntwana zingabangelwa ukukhanyela isikolo kwaye kungekhona ingxaki yomzimba. Olu lwazi luya kunceda ukubuyisela umntwana wakho esikolweni ngokukhawuleza kwaye ugweme iimvavanyo zonyango ezingadingekile. Nangona ungaqinisekanga ukuba umntwana wakho unqatshelwe esikolweni emva kokubona udokotela wezilwanyana, unako ukugcina umntwana wakho esikolweni njengoko uqhubeka nesigqibo sesibini okanye ukuvavanya kwakhona ingxaki yomzimba.
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