Abazali kubonakala beya kwiindawo ezininzi ezigqithisileyo xa bekhetha ootitshala bezingane.
Abanye abakwenzi nto nantoni kwaye bakhethe oogqirha besifo esibhedlele xa umntwana wabo ezalwa okanye ukhethe ugqirha ngokungaqhelekanga kwiluhlu kwincwadi yefowuni okanye kwi-inshurensi yabo.
Abanye benze uphando olunzulu kwaye baqhube udliwano-ndlebe babuza umntwana wabo omtsha kwintsapho yonke ukusuka apho baya esikolweni sezokwelapha ukuya kwinqanaba labo kwiibhodi zabo zonyango.
Xa ukhetha udokotela wezilwanyana, kufuneka uphephe ukugqithisa oku, qiniseka ukuba uthanda ugqirha wakho omtsha, kwaye ubone ukuba uyavumelana yini kwizihloko ezibalulekileyo zomzali, ezinjengokuncelisa, ukuqeqesha, nokungaxilisi amaninzi ngamayeza, njl.
Kubaluleka kokukhetha isidumbu sezingane
Ukukhetha ootitshala bezilwanyana ezifanelekileyo kubaluleke kakhulu kunokuba abazali abaninzi bacinga. Nangona ungatshintsha nje oogqirha ukuba ungathandi umntwanakho wokuqala, ukuba umntwana wakho osanda kuzalwa okanye ogulayo agule ngokwenene, ugqirha wokuqala owubonayo unokukwenza izigqibo ezitshintsha ubomi ngomntwana wakho. Okanye abalahlekelwa yinkinga yokubeka ubomi engozini.
Ngoko nangona unesifo esitsha esilula okanye umntwana omdala ngokusuleleka kwintsholongwane ebandayo okanye indlebe, umele ucinge ukuba ngubani owamkhathalelayo, nje ukuba iingxaki zakhe zonyango zinzima kunokuba ucinge.
Iingcebiso zezilwanyana
Indlela eqhelekileyo yokuba abazali bakhethe ootitshala bezilwanyana kukufumana isincomo esivela kubahlobo okanye entsapho yabo.
Oku kungenye yeendlela ezilungileyo, kodwa xa umntu ekutshela ukuba bathanda ukuya kwinqanaba labo, qiniseka ukuba ubuze isizathu sokuba ungabalandeli ngokungahambi kakuhle kwiofisi efanayo.
Abazali abaninzi banemfuno ezahlukileyo kwaye unokuba ucima ngokwenene isizathu sokuba bathande ugqirha wabo. Ngokomzekelo, banokuthanda ukuba ootitshala bezingane zabo baziva ngokukhawuleza kwaye bangaphakathi kwaye baphuma eofisini ngokukhawuleza, ngelixa ungathanda umntu ohamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye achithe ixesha elithile ngexesha lokutyelela, nokuba uthetha ukuba ufanele ulinde ixesha elide lokuqeshwa kwakho.
Okanye umhlobo wakho unokuthanda ukuba udokotela wabo wezingane ubeka i-antibiotics rhoqo xa beya eofisini, nokuba ngaba abayiyidinga.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unokufumana ingxelo engalunganga kwinqanaba lezingane kuphela ukuba ufumene ukuba abayithandi ugqirha kuba akapheli ngaphezu kwe-antibiotikiti, egcina egcina izikhokelo ze-American Academy of Pediatrics.
Ngoko soloko uzama ukufumana isizathu okanye inkcazo emva kwesinconywa ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyaqonda isizathu sokuba umntu athande okanye angathandi ugqirha wezingane.
Ugqirha wakho unokuba ngumthombo oncomekayo wokucebisa udokotela wezingane, ngakumbi ukuba unesana olutsha.
Ukukhetha isidumbu sezingane
Nangona sifuna ukucinga ukuba izinto ezifana neendleko kunye nokulula kufuneka zibe sesibini xa zisenza isigqibo esibalulekileyo, sinokubaluleka kakhulu xa ukhetha udokotela wezingane. Ukuba udokotela wezilwanyana onqwenela ukuwubona akusikho kwisicwangciso sakho se-inshorensi okanye ihora elide, kusenokuba luncedo ukuya eofisini yakhe.
Imiba ebalulekileyo yokuqwalasela xa ukhetha udokotela wezilwanyana, ininzi apho unokubuza abasebenzi baseofisi, ba ndakanya:
- Ingaba udokotela wezingane kwicebo lakho le-inshorensi? Ukuba awunayo i-inshorensi okanye unokwakheka okuphezulu, ke qiniseka ukuba ubuza ubuninzi beendwendwe kunye nokuthelekisa nakwezinye iiofisi zezilwanyana kule ndawo.
- Uphi na kwaye unayo i-ofisi ye-satellite?
- Ingaba unika usuku olufanayo lokunyulwa kwabagulayo?
- Ngaba unayo na ixesha lokugqibela okanye ngeveki?
- Yintoni eyenzekayo xa ndifuna iingcebiso emva kweeyure? Ingaba ngumongikazi okanye ugqirha okhoyo kwi-call ukuthetha nam? Ngaba ndiya kuhlawuliswa kule fowuni?
- Ziziphi izibhedlele ngabadokotela bezingane ezibandakanyekayo? Oku kubaluleke ngakumbi ukuba unesiBhedlele sezingane endaweni yakho kwaye ungathanda ugqirha ozakukubona ukuba kufuneka uhambe apho.
- Ngaba kukho iindleko ezongezelelweyo ngeengcebiso ngeengcingo ngexesha lomhla, emva kweeyure zokucebisa iingcebiso, ukuzalisa amayeza, okanye izicelo zokuzalisa ifomu, njl.
- Bangaphi oogqirha abaseofisi? Ngaba ndihlala ndibona ugqirha?
- Ngaba oogqirha yonke ibhodi iqinisekisile?
- Kuze kube nini ukuqeshwa okuqhelekileyo?
- Ngaba zikhona amagumbi ahlukileyo kunye nokulinda kakuhle?
Enye into ebalulekileyo yokuqwalasela ukuba ingaba ufuna ukuhamba kunye neqela elithile okanye oyingcali. Inzuzo yecandelo le-solo okanye udokotela wezingane ohlala eofisini nguye ngokwakhe ukuba unokuqiniseka ukuba uya kuhlala ubona ugqirha wakho. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ukuba ugqirha wezilwanyana uthatha ixesha elide, mhlawumbi ngekhefu okanye ukuba uthathe imini emva koko, kufuneka ukuba ulinde ukuqeshwa okanye uye kwenye iofisi.
Kwiqela eliqhelekileyo, uvame ukubona oonyana bakho xa beseseofisini kwaye banenzuzo yokubona omnye ugqirha ukuba baphuma. Iiofisi ezinkulu zihlala zifumana iindleko zokwabelana kunye kwaye zinokuba nezixhobo ezininzi eofisini, njengebhabyibhile, ukuze ungahambi kwenye indawo ukuze usebenze ngegazi.
Emva kokuba ufumene udokotela wezingane ocinga ukuba ungathanda, cinga ukuhlela "umama omtsha" ubonisane nodliwano-ndlebe nabo. Ezi zikhundla zisebenza kubantwana abatsha, nabo.
Udliwano-ndlebe noBantwana
Nangona unokunciphisa ukhetho lwakho lwezilwanyana ngokucinga ukuba ngubani osesikweni sakho se-inshorensi nakwindawo yakho, ngubani owamkela izigulane ezintsha kunye nokufumana iziphakamiso ezivela kubahlobo kunye nentsapho, indlela efanelekileyo yokufumana isifundo sezingane esilungileyo kukuba ukutyunjwa kunye nokudibana nabambalwa.
Khumbula ukuba ngelixa abazali abaninzi benqwenela ukucinga ukuba bafuna isifo sezingane esincinci, ukhangele inkcenkceshe yabantwana ekulungele wena nentsapho yakho. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo kuya kwehla ukuba ubuqu bakho buvumelana njani.
Imibuzo emibini emihle ekufuneka uyibuze ngexesha lo dliwano-ndlebe ukuze uncede ukuba ufumane ukuba ufumene olufanelekileyo luquka:
- Ziziphi izizathu ezifanelekileyo zokufumana umbono wesibini kwizodwa? (Impendulo enhle kukuba kuba umzali wezingane okanye umzali ufuna enye. Umzali kufanele akwazi ukufumana umbono wesibini ukuba bacinga ukuba kubalulekile.)
- Ndifanele ndibe ngumntwana ixesha elingakanani ?
- Yiyiphi ifilosofi eyisiseko ekuqeqesheni, ukuqeqeshwa ngamanzi , ukugonywa, ukuchaza i-antibiotics, njl.
- Ucinga ntoni ngeyeza elithile, ukuncedisa abazali, ukulala, njl.
Kwakhona, ukumisela ukuqeshwaniswa nodliwano lwezingane akuyona into ongayenza xa ukhulelwe. Ukuba sele usenabantwana kwaye usukele endaweni entsha okanye utshintsha nje oogqirha, kusenokuba yinto efanelekileyo yokudibana noogqirha abambalwa ngaphambi kokukhetha isazi sezingane esitsha.
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, khumbula ukuba akuyinto enzima ukuba ngaba okanye ungeyena ootitshala bezilwanyana baye kwisikolo esiphezulu sezonyango okanye baqedile kuqala eklasini yakhe, ngoko ke ezo zinto azibalulekanga kakhulu izinto zokuzibuza. Ukhangelele umntu oza kumkhathalela ngomntwana wakho, uphulaphule aze aphendule iimfuno zakho, kwaye ufumaneke xa ufuna. Kwaye ngelixa ufanele uqale ukuthembela kwiimvelo zakho ozifumene ootitshala bezilwanyana ezifanelekileyo, kungathatha iindwendwe eziliqela okanye kwiminyaka emininzi ukuba wazi ngokuqinisekileyo.