Ukumisa abantwana bebanga lesikolo esikolweni kunemiqobo kunye nembuyekezo. Nangona abantwana beli minyaka bekwazi ukuchaza iimvakalelo zabo baze babonise ukuzithiba, ukuqeqesha abantwana abadala banokufuna ukuphathwa kweentlungu kunye neenyembezi.
Xa inkunzi encinci ixakeka, zama ukukhumbula ukubaluleka kokufundisa intlonipho xa uyala abantwana.
Nangona umntwana wakho ephosa amaqhosha akho, zama ukukhumbula ukuthetha naye ngendlela onokufuna ukuthetha ngayo.
Kwakhona kunceda ukugcina engqondweni ukuba ukuqeqesha abantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni kungaba yindlela yokubeka iziseko zokuziphatha kakuhle kwiminyaka ezayo. Abanye abazali banokucinga ngoqeqesho lwabantwana njengento oyenzayo xa umntwana ephosakeleyo. Kodwa ezininzi iingcali zithi ukuqeqesha abantwana kufuneka kube ngakumbi malunga nokusebenza nomntwana wakho ukuze amkhokele ekuziphatheni kakuhle ukuze enze ukhetho olulungileyo lwakhe. Nazi ezinye iindlela onokukukhokela ngayo umntwana wakho wesikolo esikolweni-bakala njengoko ekhula kumntu onokuzikhusela ngokwengeziwe.
Lindela ezinye iiNyathelo eziPhambili ... kunye nabanye ababuya
Njengoko abantwana bekhulile baze bafake isikolo sontanga kunye nabangaqalayo, baqala ukuhlakulela ukuzithiba okungcono ukujongana noxinzelelo kunye nokudumala. Kananjalo banokukwazi ngakumbi ukuthetha ngeemvakalelo zabo kwaye bayakwazi ukuqonda nokulandela imithetho.
Oko kwathiwa, baselula, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha banokuphinda baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baziphathe ngokungahambi kakuhle.
Yenza Umntwana Wakho Ubandakanyeke Ekumiseni Imida kunye neMithetho
Ngoku ukuba umntwana wakho usezikolweni okanye ebangeni lesikolo , uya kukwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni imigaqo ethile imfuneko (kwimpilo yakhe, ukhuseleko, njl.).
Chaza indawo yakho, phulaphula uluvo lwakhe, uze udibanise apho unakho khona. Ukuba umhlobo wakhe uya kulala ku-9, kodwa unokuba ulungele ukuba ixesha lokulala lomntwana lalingu-8, mxelele uzakuzama u-8:30 ngaphandle kokuba engabonakali ukhathele emini.
Qiniseka malunga ne-RESPECT
Mxelele ukuba ukhuselekile ukubonakalisa iimvakalelo zakhe - nje kuphela xa enenhlonipho. Ukuba wenza i-cranky nawe (hey, sonke sinemihla embi, i-grown-up ifakiwe), mxelele ukuba athethe nawe ngendlela enhle. Emva koko, xa enokuthula ngakumbi, khuluma naye malunga noko kwakungenakuvuyisa. Ukuhlonipha kuya kuhamba zombini, ngoko kuthetha nomntwana wakho ngendlela ofuna ukuba athethe ngayo nawe. Musa ukumemeza, yintoni okufunekayo ngoxolo, kwaye khumbula ukuba "nceda" kwaye "siyabonga."
Nika "Yenza" Endaweni ye "Musa"
Gxininisa ekuziphatheni ofuna ukukubona, kungekhona oko akwenzayo kakubi. Esikhundleni sokuthi, "Musa ukuphosa ibhola ejikeleze indlu" ithi "Ukwenza oko kungaphula into ethile. Masihambe ngaphandle kwaye sidlale. "
Fumana i-Out of the behavior
Mhlawumbi wayenomdla kumdlali odlala naye kuba wayenemisebenzi emininzi ngaloo mini. Phindela emuva, kwaye uqwalasele oko kukubangela ukuba alahleke. Kamva, emva kokuhlambalaza, mbuze into awayecinga ngayo.
Gcina Uqeqesho Lomntwana Olutshane kunye Olulula
Nangona umfundi wesikolo sakho ekwazi ukuqonda imithetho, gwebela ukuya kwiinkcukacha ezininzi. Ukungena kwingcaciso ende malunga nento ofuna ukuba ayenze inokudideka. Inokunika umntwana wakho umyalezo ongaqinisekanga malunga noko utshoyo.
Qinisekisa kwaye uqine
Ukulala ngexesha lokulala. Enye enye (gcwalisa i-blank blank) ayithethi. Ukuba uyaqhaqhawula, uyazi ukuba unokushenxisa imida kwakhona ngexesha elizayo.