Iingxaki eziqhelekileyo zokuziphatha kwiBantwana abakwiSikole

Iingxaki zengqeqesho zengane ezinokuvela kwizingane ezineminyaka emi-5 ukuya kwe-10 ubudala

Ngokubambisana neendlela ezimangalisayo, unokulindela ukubona phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni ezifana nokuzimela ngokwengeziwe kunye nokukwazi ukuphatha uxanduva oluninzi, kukho ukuveliswa okuncinane kweengxaki zokuziphatha eziqhelekileyo kweli qela leminyaka.

Nangona iimeko zokuziphatha komntwana ezinjengokungcikiva kunye nentetho yokubuyisela inokuthi ikhulile kwiminyaka engaphambili kumntwana, ukuziphatha okunjalo kunokuthatha umbandela onzima kakhulu njengoko abantwana bebadala, banamazwi kwaye bazimeleyo.

Funda ukufunda malunga neengxaki ezithile zokuziphatha ongalindela ukuzibona kubantwana kule minyaka-kwaye izixazululo ezifanelekileyo malunga nendlela yokusingatha le miba yokuziphatha. Ngoxa kungekho nto yokuqeqeshwa kwabafundi abangabantwana abasebenzela bonke abantwana, zikho izicwangciso abazali abangakwazi ukuzizama, ezifana nexesha lokuhamba kunye neetshathi zokuziphatha . Kodwa ngokugqithiseleyo, inqakrazo yokuqeqeshwa komntwana ngokuphumelelayo iqala ngokuqonda umahluko phakathi kokuqeqeshwa kunye nokujeziswa , ukuseka umtshato onamandla kunye nomntwana wakho, nokuthetha nomntwana wakho nsuku zonke.

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Ukholo kunye noKhika

Ukuba uvalele yonke into "engekho" evela kumntanakho okanye ngokubona ukuziphatha okungcolileyo njengokwenqaba ukwenza into oyicelile umntwana wakho ukuba ayenze, awuyedwa. Ukuziphatha okukhohlakeleyo yingxaki eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana abaneminyaka esikolweni. Kodwa ngeendlela ezifanelekileyo, unokufikelela kwingcambu yokuziphatha komntwana wakho kwaye ubuyisele umntwana wakho kwiqela lakho.

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Ukuthetha

Ukuthetha emva kungase kube yinto eqhelekileyo yokuphuhliswa kwabantwana, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo enye yeyona nto ibangelwayo. Nazi ezinye iindlela zokuzama-kunye-zinyaniso zokwenza le ngxaki yokuziphatha kwi-bud kunye nokunceda umntwana wakho azivakalise ngendlela efanelekileyo nangenhlonipho.

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Ukungalaleli

Ukuba uke ufanele uphinde uziphindaphindiwe ngamaxesha amaninzi ukuze umntanakho alandele into ethile oyicelile ukuba ayenze okanye ukuphulaphula ulwalathiso, uyazi indlela ekukhathazeka ngayo xa umntwana engaliphulaphuli. Kutheni kwenzeka, kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi, unokwenza ntoni ukulungisa lo mandla? Funda ngezinye iingcebiso kunye nezimpendulo.

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Ukukhohlisa

Ukuba umntwana wakho athembele kuwe kunokukhubaza. Kodwa inyaniso kukuba ukuxoka kuziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana okungaqwalaselwa ngothando kunye nokuqinisekiswa ngokulinganayo nemiphumo.

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Ukukhwabanisa kunye nokulwa

Njengokuba abantwana bakho banokuthandana, ukulwa nomntakwabo kunye nokulwa yinto eqhelekileyo yobuninzi bobuhlobo babo. Nazi ezinye iingcamango ezintle zokwakha uthando lomntakwabo kunye nokunciphisa ukuxabana okungakhokelela ekuxabaneni kwabantwana kunye noodade.

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Ukuxuba abanye

Ukuxubha kuyinkxwaleko esicasulayo kodwa eqhelekileyo phakathi kwabantwana beziko lesikolo esikolweni. Abantwana kule minyaka bacinga ngokuthe tye kwizinto ezingalunganga, ukufunda ngemithetho kunye nemiphumo, nokubeka ixabiso eliphezulu kwizinto ezilungileyo. Yonke into yindlela yokukhwaza, kodwa abazali banokukunceda abantwana ukuba baqonde ukuziphatha okulungileyo kwaye bafundise abantwana ukuba baxelele njani umahluko phakathi kokukhwaza kunye nokuxelela ukuba uncede umntu.

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Ukukhangela

Ingaba umntwana wakho uthatha imizuzu eyi-10 ukubeka enye iteksi ekuseni? Ingaba uyadla ngokukhawuleza othabatha i-iriyure ukutya ukutya okumbalwa kokutya kwakhe? Ukuziphatha okuphazamisayo kungaphathwa ngezinye izisombululo ezonwabisayo kunye nezicwangciso.

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Whining

Ukumhlophe kungomnye wemisindo engathandekiyo eyaziwayo kumntu. Kwaye phantse ukuba umzali ngamnye unokufakazela, abantwana bazalwa benakho ukuvelisa esi sandi, phantse ukuba kukho into ebhalwe kwiDNA yabo. Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba ngeendlela ezimbalwa ezilula, abazali bafumana abantwana babo ukuba bayeke ukugcoba - kwaye bagcine ukucoceka kwabo kwinkqubo.

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Andiyi kulala

Ngaba ixesha lokulala lidla ngokuphindaphindiweyo imfazwe yentando endlwini yakho? Ukuba umntwana wakho akayi kulala okanye unenkathazo yokulala okanye ukulala, zama ezi ngcebiso ukuze ufumene oko kunokubangela iingxaki zokulala kunye nokufunda indlela yokumnceda aphumle ebusuku - into ebaluleke kakhulu abantwana abasesikolweni.

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Ihlazo

ngelixa abanye abazali besenokukhathazeka ukuba ukunyaniseka kumntwana kunokuba yinto enokuba yinto engaphambukiyo, uphando lubonisa ukuba kukho imiba emihle kunye neenzuzo zokuba ungenise.