Amanqanaba okuPhuhlisa abantwana 5 ukuya ku-10

Iziganeko eziphuhlisayo onokuzilindela ukuzibona ukususela kwiminyaka emihlanu ukuya kwi-10

Abantwana batshintsha ngokukhawuleza phakathi kweminyaka emihlanu ukuya kweyishumi. Bavuthiwe ngokomzimba, ngokomoya, ngokuziqonda, nangentlalo, ukutshintsha ukusuka kubantwana bezilwanyana ezintshontsho ukuya kwi-lanky ngaphambi kokutshatyalaliswa kwentsha . Abasebenzi basebenzisa isethi yamaphulo ephambili ekuphuhliseni ukukhula komntwana. Nantsi ingqwalasela yezinto ezibalulekileyo zokuphuhlisa abantwana ongalindela ukuba umntwana wakho afinyelele phakathi kweminyaka emihlanu ukuya kweyishumi.

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Umntwana wakho oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala

Abantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu ubudala bafumana utshintsho olukhulu. Abaninzi baqala inkulisa, kwaye bafumana umsebenzi wesikolo kunye nomsebenzi wesikolo okokuqala ngqa. Benza abahlobo abatsha, ukufunda kabanzi ngehlabathi, nokufunda ukufunda. Ngoxa bekhulile bebuntwaneni, banokuba nexesha xa beziphatha njengabantwana abaselula (ngakumbi xa bekhathele, balambile, okanye badidekile!). Eli lixesha elinomdla kwaye linomdla kubantwana abaneminyaka emihlanu kunye nabazali babo ngokufanayo.

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Umntwana wakho oneminyaka emithandathu ubudala

Kwiminyaka emithandathu ubudala, abaninzi abantwana baqala ukuphucula ubuchule bokufunda nokubala ezikolweni kwaye basebenzise imizila ekulindelwe kubo eklasini. Baqhakaza uluntu kwaye baqala ukugxininisa ngakumbi kubahlobo. Ekhaya, baya kuziqhenya ngokufezekisa imisebenzi kwaye baqale ukuthatha uxanduva oluninzi. Abanye abaneminyaka emithandathu ubudala banokufumana utshintsho kwibanga lokuqala lulukhuni, njengoko kudinga ukukhupha okubalulekileyo ekugqibeleni, ukulawula okulandelayo, nezakhono zolwimi.

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Umntwana wakho oneminyaka elixhenxe ubudala

Bambalwa abaneminyaka engama-7 ubudala bafuna ukunyamekwa kwimihla ngemihla njengendlela yokuxubha amazinyo nokugqoka. Kodwa ayikazimeleyo ubudala abaneminyaka eli-10 abanokucinga ngaphambili, baceba ixesha labo, kwaye baphathe iimbopheleleko zabo. Kubazali, abaneminyaka esixhenxe ubudala lixesha eliqatha. Kubalulekile ukufumana ibhalansi phakathi kokunika ukuzimela ngakumbi kwaye nokho ugcine iliso elifutshane kwizinto.

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Umntwana wakho oneminyaka elinesibhozo ubudala

Abantwana abalishumi elinesibhozo bafika bebodwa. Bakha ukuzithemba ngokwabo kwaye baqale ukwenza iimbono kunye neengcamango malunga nezinto kwihlabathi labo. Izinto zokuzilibazisa, izinto ezithandayo (kunye nokunyanzelisa), kunye nobuhlobo buza kuhlakulela abahlobo ngokuthanda kwabo nokuthanda kwabo. Kule nqanaba, kunokukhathazeka ngokutsha. Ii-clique, ukuxhatshazwa, kunye nokulindela uluntu kuphakama, kwaye, kwabanye abantwana, le mingeni ingaba yingxaki. Kubalulekile ukugcina ukuziphatha komntwana wakho: ukulahlwa kwesikolo, ukuxhalabisa, kunye neendlobongela kungabonakalisa ukuba into "ishiyiwe" kwisimo sesikolo.

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Umntwana wakho oneminyaka eli-9 ubudala

Abantwana abaneminyaka elithoba ubudala benza izigqibo ezininzi ngokwabo okanye ngegalelo kubazali. Bathi bathathe uxanduva olunzulu ekhaya kunye nokujonga okungancinci. Kwaye esikolweni, baqhuba umsebenzi ocelomngeni kwizifundo ezininzi, kwaye kulindeleke ukuba bagqibe imisebenzi ngokuzimeleyo. Iimviwo eziqhelekileyo kunye nokulindela okusemgangathweni kwengqondo kungakhanyisa ukukhanya kwamandla okanye imingeni yomntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana wakho ube nexesha elinzima kunye nabanye okanye abafundi bakhe, ngoku lixesha elifanelekileyo lokujongana neengxaki zeentloko kunye nokufundiswa kunye nezinye iinkxaso zenkxaso.

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Umntwana wakho oneminyaka elishumi ubudala

Abantwana abaneminyaka eli-10 bemi kwi-cusp yobushushu, kwaye baninzi utshintsho olukhulu ngokomzimba, ngokwasemoyeni, ngokuqonda, nangenye indlela. Ziba zimeleyo ngakumbi kunanini ngaphambili, kwaye ziyanda ngokuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo nokwenza imisebenzi engakumbi ngaphandle kwentsapho. Ngethuba elifanayo, basesekwisigaba sokuqala senkqubela yentuthuko, kwaye baya kufuna kwaye bafune ukukhokelwa kunye nokulawulwa kwabazali ngezikhathi ezithile.

> Imithombo

• > CDC. Uphuhliso lwabantwana: ubuncinane obuphakathi kweminyaka yobudala engama-6-8. KwiWebhu. 2017.
• > CDC. Uphuhliso lwabantwana: ubuntwana obuphakathi kweminyaka eyi-9-11 ubudala. KwiWebhu. 2017.

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