Ukuzali akuyona i-wimps, ngakumbi xa abantwana bebetha iminyaka elishumi elinanye. Ukuba unomntwana osondelayo (okanye phakathi) kwiminyaka emibini (iminyaka eyi-9 ukuya kwe-12) unokufuna uncedo oluncinci. Ngezantsi zikhona iingcebiso eziza kukunceda ngenkathi unabantwana abanomzali ngokugqithiseleyo phakathi kweminyaka.
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Lungiselela Umntwana Wakho Ngezikolo EziphakathiUkuzala abantwana ngexesha leminyaka elishumi elinesibini kuthetha ukuqiniseka ukuba zilungele imingeni yesikolo esiphakathi. Isikolo esiphakathi kaninzi sithetha ukwanda komsebenzi wesikolo , kunye nemingeni yomphakathi, njengokwenza abahlobo kunye nokujongana nabaxhasi . Xoxa nomntwana wakho malunga nesikolo esiphakamileyo nesikolo esiphakathi siya kuzisa, kwaye qiniseka ukuba umntwana uyazi indlela yokuphucula ubuhlobo obuqinileyo kunye nobunempilo.
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Ukuzali kwabazali: Uncedo loPhuloInokwenzeka ukuba, umntwana wakho uya kujongana nokutshatyalaliswa kwithuba lokugqibela. Ukwazi ukuba ulindele ntoni kuya kunceda umntwana wakho aqonde utshintsho kwaye ahlangabezane nawo.
Okunye ngoBuster and Tweens
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Gcina i-Bond / Child Bond StrongUbuhlobo bomzali / bomntwana bunokutshintsha ixesha elithile phakathi neminyaka emibini njengoko umntwana wakho ekhangele ukwamkela ngaphandle kwentsapho. Qiniseka ukuba uvumele umntwana wakho ukuba akhe ubuhlobo obuqinileyo kunye nokuzimela kwakhe, kodwa gcina unxibelelwano lomzali / umntwana ngexesha elinye. Beka eceleni ixesha kunye, kwaye uthathe ixesha lokufunda ngeminqweno yomntwana kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa . Abantwana abazali banemiqobo yabo, kodwa kuya kufuneka kube mnandi.
Kaninzi
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Nceda Unxibelelanise Funda Iikhono EzintshaIminyaka ephakathi ixesha elifanelekileyo lokunceda umntwana wakho afunde izakhono ezintsha, kwaye ahlakulele ngakumbi ukuzimela. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uncedisa ukujikeleza indlu kunye nemisebenzi yasekhaya . Kusenokuba nexesha lokuba umntwana wakho athole umsebenzi wakhe wokuqala. Ukuzala abantwana nge minyaka ephakathi kuthetha ukubanceda bakhule kwaye banandipha ukuthatha uxanduva.
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Gxobhoza kwiMigaqo yoLulekoI-Tweens ayigqibekanga rhoqo, kwaye ingaziwa ngezihlandlo ezimbi. Ukuba umntwana wakho uthetha, uhlala ecaphukile, okanye akakuphulaphuli, uya kufuneka uthathe isenzo. Uqeqesho kufuneka umncede umntwana wakho abe ngumntwana osemtsha, kwaye ekugqibeleni, abe ngumntu omdala onoxanduva.
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Indlela Yokuxhasa Umntwana OkhulayoIsitshixo ekuncedeni umntwana wakho kwiminyaka ephakathi kukumxhasa. Enye yezona ndlela ezintle onokumxhasa umntwana wakho ngokumvumela ukuba akhulise ingqondo, kunye nokuzithemba. Melana nomnqweno wokulawula iminqweno yomntwana wakho, okanye izinto zokuzilibazisa. Ukuxhasa umntwana wakho kuthetha ukuba uza kuthatha ixesha elingakanani, ukuze i-kati yakho ikwazi ukukhanya.