Ngesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, ubuntwaba akufanelekike
Abaninzi abaneminyaka engama-9 ukuya kwimi-12 banomdla wokuba behlala , kwaye akufuneki ukuba bahlale bekhula ngokukhawuleza - kodwa ubusuku buguqula izinto, kwaye akukho nto yokuyeka. I-Tween ayifanele iloyike ukutshatshaza kunye nayo yonke inguqu ezayo nayo. Kukho iingenelo zokukhula, kwaye nokuba ubushushu ngokwayo kunokuzisa utshintsho oluphakathi kwakho oluphakathi.
Indlela Yokuhambisa Ubuncinane Njengendlela Efanelekileyo
Ukuba i-pakati yakho iyayesaba ingcamango yokubanjwa kwintsholongwane, kukho imiba emininzi ongayichazela ukuba yenza ukuba ukhule kwaye ukhulile.
Awudingi intliziyo ngentliziyo - ukuba yiloo nto wena okanye umntwana wakho oyikayo-kodwa kunye neengxoxo ezintle ezingaphezu kwexesha unokunceda. Ukucacisa onke amava omtsha oza kuhlangana naye kwiminyaka ezayo ingakuqinisekisa ukuba phakathi kwakho. Ingcamango apha kukuba ukuba ukuba bayayazi malunga nokugqithiswa kokubaluleka, ngoko utshintsho alunokuba luloyiko.
Zonke iinjongo zokukhula kunye nobudlova zingakwazi ukuhlangabezana phantsi kweentlobo ezintathu ezihlukeneyo - i-kati yakho inokujonga phambili kumava amatsha, iimbopheleleko ezongeziweyo kunye nokujonga okutsha. Musa ukwesaba ukuya kwiinkcukacha ngokuqinisekileyo ukunikezela phakathi kwezinto ezithile ukuba ujonge nge:
Izinto ezintsha
- Ukuzama isikolo esiphakathi okanye amaqela ezemidlalo esikolweni esiphakeme . ( Ukukhula kwezityalo kunye namandla angakumbi kunokuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho ufumana izakhono ezintsha kunye nemidlalo efanelekileyo.)
- Ukuya kwezinye iindawo ezingagqithwanga
- Ukujoyina iiklabhu zesikolo
- Iikholeji zokutyelela nokucinga ngobomi emva kwesikolo esiphakeme
- Ukufunda indlela yokuqhuba
- Ukwenza abahlobo abatsha
- Ukubethelela izakhono abaye bazibuza ngazo (njengokupheka okanye ukulungisa imoto)
- Ukuthabatha zabo iiklasi esikolweni
- Ukufumana izinto ezintsha zokuzilibazisa nokuzama izakhono eziphezulu
- Ukuya kuma-movie angabalwa-G
- Ukutshata
- Ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo
- Ukuhlala emva koko
Ukuthenjwa ngeMithwalo mboleko
- Ukuncedisa kunye noxanduva lweentsapho, njengokubukela abantakwabo abancinci okanye ukuncedisa ukutya
- Ukwenza izigqibo ezininzi kwimisebenzi yabo yemihla kunye nekamva labo
- Ukubhabha, ukutshiza iinqaba kunye nokufumana imali
- Ukufumana ifowuni
Imbonakalo entsha
- Izambatho ezintsha kunye nezicathulo zomzimba wazo okhulayo
- Ukufumana ii-lens zoqhagamshelwano (ukuba zigqoka iiglasi okanye unomdla wokuzama iilensi zambala)
- Ukuhambisa imilenze okanye ubuso
- Amazinyo alungileyo njengoko i-braces ivela
- Ukukhupha impahla okanye ukugqoka (ngaphakathi kwemida yakho)
Yabelana ngale miba ephambili malunga nokugqithisela kokutshatyalaliswa phakathi kwakho kwaye uwanike njengento evuyisayo ngayo (nangona ingcamango yokucheba imihla ngemihla ingabonakali kakhulu kuwe). Mhlawumbi uya kumkela ingcamango yobuntlwana kunokuba asabise utshintsho oluzayo. Yaye ukhumbule ukuba ube nomonde phakathi kwakho xa ukuguqulwa kwentshukumo kunye nokuguquka kwemizwelo kungena kuyo. Isigaba esicinezelayo sokuphila, ukuqinisekisa ukuba, kwaye kiddo yakho idinga lonke uncedo onokukunika.