Izigaba kunye neMpawu zoBushushu kunye nendlela onokukunceda ngayo
Ubushushu buyisigaba esiqhelekileyo sokuphuhliswa okwenzekayo xa umzimba uguqulwa kumzimba omdala kwaye uphinde uvuselele ukuvelisa. Njengoko abantwana bangena ebusheni, baya kuba nemibuzo emininzi ngemizimba yabo kwaye abazali baya kuphawula utshintsho oluthile lomzimba nolusengqondweni. Ngezantsi kukho isikhokelo sokuqonda ubuntwaba, kwaye uncedisa phakathi kwakho kwiinqanaba zokukhula.
Yintoni yoBushushu?
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwintshukumo yenguqu wonke umntu uhamba nayo. Lixesha lokutshintsha apho umzimba womntu uguqula ukususela kumntwana kumntu omdala. IiHormone ziza kubangela ukukhula okuhlukeneyo kumakhwenkwe namantombazana kwaye kungabangela ukuphazamiseka kwemvakalelo yomntu omtsha kunye nomzimba kunye nesikhumba.
Kungathatha iminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwe-4 ngaphambi kokuba umzimba wakho we-tween uguqule ngokupheleleyo ngokusasa. Umntwana ngamnye uya kukhula ngezinga elihlukile kuneontanga. Kungaba nzima kubafundi ukuba bangazithelekiseli nabahlobo babo abakhula ngokukhawuleza kunoko.
Ukutshatyalaliswa kwabasetyhini
Amantombazana angena ekufikeni ubusuku ngaphambi kokuba amakhwenkwe kwaye akuqhelekanga ukuba amantombazana aqale ukubonakalisa iimpawu ezineminyaka eyi-9 ubudala. Kwintombi ezininzi, ukuya kwimihla kunokuqala malunga ne-11 okanye 12.
Izimpawu zomzimba ukuba intombazana ingena ebusheni zibandakanya ukukhula, ukuphuculwa kwebele , ukunyuka kwesantya kunye nokukhula kweenwele ze-pubic, i-facial acne, i- odor body , i-cramps, kunye nokuya esikhathini.
Amantombazana abonisa iimpawu zokuba ngumntwana ngaphambi kokuba aneminyaka engama-8 ayaziwa ukuba aphelile . Le yimeko ephiliswayo kufuneka ihlolwe ngumntwana wezingane.
Ukuguga Kwabafana
Amakhwenkwe, iimpawu zokuqala zokutshatyalaliswa ziyakwenzeka malunga ne-11 okanye 12.
Imiqondiso engokwenyama yokuba inkwenkwe ingena ebusheni iquka ukunyaniseka kwezwi, ukukhula kwemisipha, ukunyuka kwama-pubic kunye nokukhula kweenwele ezinqamlekileyo, ukunyuka kwamathambo, ukukhula okukhulayo, ukuvumba komzimba omdala, ukuphuphuma kwamathambo kunye neepeni, amaphupho amanzi okanye ukukwazi ukuhlaziya.
Indlela Yokunceda Abantwana Bakho Ngethuba Lokuguquka
Qaphela izinto zokuzithemba. Xa abantwana bangena ebusheni ngaphambili okanye kamva kunontanga yabo, banokuzixhalabisa, bakhathazeke, okanye bacinezelekile ngemeko yabo. Aba bantwana banokufuna uncedo lokulungiswa okanye ukufunda indlela yokuhlangabezana nayo.
- Kwimeko yabantwana abancinci ukungena ebusheni, banikeze isikhuthazo kwaye baqiniseke ukuba imizimba yabo iya kutshintsha ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
- Kubantwana abakhulayo ngokukhawuleza, baqinisekise ukuba abahlobo babo baya kulandela ngokukhawuleza. Bangakwazi ukuyijonga kakuhle kwaye bakwazi ukukunceda abahlobo babo xa lixesha labo.
Yiba nesineke ngokuguquka kwemizwelo. Abanye baphila ngokuguqulwa ngokutshatyalaliswa ngokusasazeka , Abanye bangabhekana nokuziphatha okubi, ukugquma komsindo okanye ukuphazamiseka kwemiqobo.
- Kubalulekile ukunika umntwana wakho ulwazi oluthe baninzi malunga nomzimba wakhe oguqukayo kunye nomntwana wakho ukuba aqonde isizathu sokuba umzimba wonke uphenduke. Fumana imithombo enokuthenjwa enokuthi wena kunye nomntwana wakho unako ukufumana ulwazi kunye nenkxaso.
- Zenze ufumane ukuthetha ngokukhululekile nomntwana wakho malunga nale nguqu xa befuna.
- Khumbula ukuba ngamanye amaxesha umntwana oselula usefuna nje ukushiywa yedwa, naye. Banike loo ndawo xa beyidinga.
Yilungiselele imibuzo. Umntwana wakho unokuziva ekhululekile ukuza kuwe xa enemibuzo malunga noshintsho lomzimba. Ukuba bayincwadana, bazise ngencoko ukuze bazi ukuba ukhona ukunceda.
- Akunakufuneka uthabathe inkqubela yokulahleka kwi-biology yabantu okanye unike iinkcukacha ezithile. Sebenzisa lakho amava ukuba unike umntwana wakho iingcebiso abayidingayo.
- Xa uqala ukuphawula iimpawu zokuba usuphelile, zilungele ukubonelelwa kobuqu obuya kulufuna. Imveliso yezilwanyana ezifanelekileyo ezisetyhini kwindawo yokuhlambela yokuqala kwintombi yakho. Yilungele ngokuchasana nomntwana wakho xa eqala 'ukuvumba njengendoda' okanye iimveliso ze-acne ekuphumeni kwakhe kokuqala.
- Xa kuziwa kuphuhliso lwezesondo, vula kwaye uthembeke xa uphendula imibuzo. Ingane yakho inokukhathazeka ngephupha elimanzi kwaye lilungile. Kufuneka ulungele ngeempendulo ezifanelekileyo ukuzobathuthuzela ngazo zonke iinguqu.
Lindela okungalindelekanga. Ngokuqhelekileyo, imibuzo malunga nokuphelelwa ngumntwana inokuphuma kumzali obomvu nolumangalisayo kwizinto ezibonakala zixesha elibi kakhulu (ukulungiselela isidlo sakusihlwa okanye ukulungisa wonke umntu ekuseni).
Ukuba umntwana wakho uza kuwe, kubalulekile kubo. Thatha ixesha lokulungisa iinkxalabo zabo ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba uyothuka, zinike umzuzu ukuba uziqokele.
Yeka kwaye uhlale phantsi kunye neshumi elineshumi, nokuba ngaba ingxoxo esheshayo. Ukuba usuphelile emsebenzini okanye unomnye umqobo, thuthuzela okusemandleni akho, uphendule nayiphi na imfuno esheshayo kwaye ukhethe intetho ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba ukhona.
Ungayifaki incoko engapheliyo kunokuba iyimfuneko. Ngeke ufune ukushiya umntwana wakho ngokukhathazeka ngokungenakunqwenelekayo ngosuku lonke lwesikolo okanye ngokukhawuleza iintsuku ezimbini malunga nento ebonakalayo yendalo.