Abantwana abanikiweyo, ngokukodwa amagama abanobuchule, badla ngokuthelekiswa namagqwetha: baphikisana ngokungathi basenkundleni. Iimeko abahlala ziphikisana nazo zodwa. Bathetha malunga nemithetho, malunga nokujeziswa, ukuqeqeshwa, ixesha lokulala, isidlo sakusihlwa. Eyona nto, bayakuphikisa malunga nantoni na ayithandiyo okanye bafuna ukuyiphepha. Nangona umntwana onobuchule angenza iingxabano ezintle, kubalulekile ukuba abazali baqinisekise ukuba bahlala bephethe.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba umntwana oqaqambileyo, usengumntwana, kwaye abantwana, kunye nabanobuchule , badinga isikhokelo. Bafuna imithetho kwaye badinga imiphumo xa bephula loo mithetho. Abantwana abanikiweyo abanakuze bakhululwe ekuziphatheni kakubi kuba benza ityala elifanelekileyo lokuphula umthetho. Ukuba abantwana bayakwazi ukuthetha indlela yabo yokuphuma kwimiphumo yokuziphatha kakubi, bona, abazali babo, abapheli ekulawuleni.
Indlela Yokungaxhatshazi Ngomntwana Wakho Ophethwe Ngumntwana kwaye Ugcine Ulawulo
- Yenza iMithetho iVuliwe.
Ukuba kufuneka ujongane nommeli omncinci, kuya kufuneka uqale ukucinga njengomnye. Oko kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uqikelele ukuba umntwana wakho uya kufumana nayiphi na into oyishiye kuyo. Umzekelo, ukuba uthetha umntwana wakho ukuba lixesha lokulala kwaye emva koko uyamfumana edlala - elelekileyo - unokuqiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho ufunyenwe. Awuthethi ukuba akayi kudlala. Uthi nje lixesha lokulala. Umntwana wakho kufuneka aqonde ngaphambi kwexesha oko kuthetha ntoni xa uthe ixesha lilala.
- Yenza iziphumo zokuqhawula imigaqo ecacileyo.
Umntwana onobuchule unokufuneka avumele ukuba uphule umgaqo, kodwa unokukwazi ukuphikisana nemiphumo. Unokucinga ukuba umthetho wawungekho sikweni okanye isijeziso asikho sikweni, kwaye kunye nezingane ezinezipho, imicimbi yokulungelelanisa ayilona nje imiba yengxoxo. Ngokuqhelekileyo banengqondo ejulile yobulungisa. Ukunyaniseka akusiyo ingxaki, nangona kunjalo, ukuba imiphumo yokuphula umgaqo iyacaca ukususela ekuqaleni.
- Gwema ukuxoxisana neziphumo emva koMthetho ophukileyo.
Abanye abantwana abanesiphiwo esinokuthi baxoxe ngolu hlobo ngokufanelekileyo ukuba abazali babo bavume kwaye bathethe ingxoxo entsha. Ukuxoxisana emva kokuphulwa komthetho kubonakala kungalunganga njengokuphelisa ngokupheleleyo umphumo. Unokwenene uvumelane nomntwana wakho, kodwa ukuxubusha imiphumo kufuneka kwenziwe phambi kokuba imithetho iphulwe, kungekhona emva. Oko kuthetha ukuba ukuba umntwana wayenemibuzo malunga nomthetho kunye nemiphumo yakhe okanye engavumelani nanye kubo, kufuneka ukuba abuze ngexesha lolawulo lwenziwa. Esi sizathu esinye sokwenza imithetho, kunye nemiphumo yokuwaphula, kucace ukususela ekuqaleni. - Musa ukuphikisa.
Le ngongoma enzima ukuyilandela kuba kulula ukuyifumana kwingxoxo. Abazali abanabantwana abanesakhono abanakunceda ngamanye amaxesha banokumangalisa ngamandla abo omncinci ukuba baqiqe izinto baze baveze ingxabano efanelekileyo, efanelekileyo. Aba bazali banokufuna ukuphendula yonke imibuzo yomntwana wabo, umzekelo, "Kutheni ndifanele ndilale ngaphambi kokuba kube mnyama xa ....?" Nangona kunjalo, impendulo engcono kwili nqanaba kukuthetha into enje, "Uyazi ukuba kwakuyixesha lokulala, kodwa wenqaba ukuya. Siyakwazi ukuthetha ngexesha lokulala ezahlukeneyo kusasa, kodwa awuyi kubukela uBill yakho yeNye yeSayensi Guy ividiyo kusasa ngenxa yokuba uyazi ukuba isijeziso sokungalali xa ufanelekile. "
- Ukwandisa Isiphumo Ukuba Umntwana Wakho Uqhubeka Ephikisana.
Nika umntwana wakho ithuba lokuyeka ukuphikisana ngokunika isilumkiso kuqala. Umzekelo, usenokuthi, "Ukuba uphinde uphikisane nam, awuyi kukhangela i-Bill Nye iintsuku ezimbini." Ukuba umntwana wakho uyaqhubeka ephikisana naye, mxelele ukuba ulahlekelwe ngamalungelo akhe eBhili yeentsuku ezimbini kwaye ukuba uthe wabuya wabuza, kuya kuba iintsuku ezintathu. Iibhokhwe ezinamakhwenkwe ziqhaqele ngokwaneleyo ukuba zifuna ukuyeka ukuphikisana. - Qinisekisa kwaye ulandele ngeZiphumo.
Akunakulungi ukuthatha amalungelo xa kwenziwa kuphela ngegama kuphela. Iibhokhwe ezinokuzibona ziza kubona ubuthathaka kwaye zixhaphaze! Ngexesha elizayo xa befuna ukuphikisana, baya kuqhubeka baze baxubushe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba bangasongela ntoni, kuba baya kubona ukuba izisongelo zakho aziyizinto ezingenanto.
- Yenza iziphumo ezinengqiqo kwaye zinyanzeliswe.
Akunakuncedo ukuxelela umntwana oneminyaka emine ukuba akayi kuba nako abahlobo ngaphezu kweenyanga ezintathu. Kude kakhulu, becinga ukuba uyakwazi ukunyanzelisa loo nto. Abantwana abanikiweyo banokufumana enye into enokuyenza ukuze bathathe indawo enayithathileyo, ngoko ukulahlekelwa kwayo kungabi nentsingiselo.
Ezi ngcebiso zisebenza kakuhle xa abazali bezisebenzisa ukusuka ekuqaleni. Nangona kunjalo, baya kusebenza kunye nabantwana abadala, kodwa umdala umntwana, ixesha elide liya kuthatha la macebo okusebenza. Ukubambisana kuyintloko. Ukuba unika kwaye uphikisane, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka ubuyele kwikota eyodwa. Enyanisweni, ugqiba kwi-square-five ngoba xa unikezela, uye waqinisa le ngcamango yokuba ukuphikisana kwemisebenzi!
Ngandlela zonke, nandipha ukwazi kakuhle kwengqondo yomntwana wakho. Musa ukuyivumela ukuba ilawule ubomi bakho bentsapho.