Amanqanaba angama-10 asebenza kwimisebenzi emininzi yexesha elibandakanya iimidlalo kunye nezinye iinkqubo zokuncedisa. Nangona ezinye i-13 zihlakulela izinto zokuzilibazisa kunye nezinto ezinomdla kwasebuncinaneni, abanye badinga ixesha ngaphambi kokuba batye kwizinto ezithatha ingqalelo kunye nomdla wabo. Musa ukuyeka ukusebenza kwemisebenzi yengane yakho, kunokuthatha ixesha kodwa ekugqibeleni uya kufumana into eyithandayo.
Imisebenzi yangexesha elongezelelweyo inikezela ngeenzuzo ezininzi kubantwana bethu, kwaye yinto efanelekileyo yokugcina umntwana wakho abandakanyekayo. Ngezantsi ziingcebiso zokukunceda ukwandisa i-horizons yengane yakho kwaye ufumane ukukhwabanisa okanye umdlalo ohlala ubomi.
Hlanganisa
Kukulungele ukuba umntwana wakho azame yonke into kunokuba alungele kwimidlalo okanye umsebenzi. Nangona i-tween yakho ishintshe ukusuka komsebenzi owodwa ojikelezayo ukuya kwelinye, ufunda izakhono ezintsha kwaye ufumanisa izinto ngaye. Qinisekisa ukuba ukhuthaze uhlangothi lwakho ukuze unamathele kunye nantoni na into eyenziwa yecandelo elithile elithatha inxaxheba kulo xesha. Xa sele ezalisekile ukuzibophezela kwakhe, mbuze ukuba ufuna ukutyikitya kwakhona, okanye ufumane into entsha kwaye eyahlukileyo ukwenza.
Yenza Izinto Ngawonye
Kungenzeka ukuba abantwana kunye nabazali bafumane imisebenzi yangaphandle kunye kunye. Ukutyelela iimyuziyam, ukuya kumakhonsathi, uchithe ixesha lokulima, okanye ukuzithandela kwintando yendawo.
Ngokuchitha ixesha kunye kunye , ungabona ukuba phakathi kwakho kubonakala kunomdla kwizinto ezithile zokuzonwabisa okanye umsebenzi, okanye unetalente ekhethekileyo ekufuneka ikhuthazwe kwaye ikhuthazwe.
Cinga nge mibutho yolutsha
Imibutho efana ne-Girls Scouts okanye i-Boys Scouts inikeza abantwana ithuba lokuba bafunde izakhono zobukhokelo, bathathe inxaxheba kwiziganeko zentlalo, kwaye bazame imisebenzi ehlukahlukeneyo.
Iindidi zemisebenzi enikezelwa ngamaqela angabangela ukuba abantwana banomdla kwaye bahlanganyele unyaka wonke.
Cinga ngeMidlalo engeyiyo-kukhuphiswano
Abanye abantwana banandipha umdlalo wezemidlalo kunye nomzimba, kodwa awanjalo nje kumncintiswano. Ukuba i-kati yakho ihambile kwimidlalo yezokukhuphisana, cinga ngamalungiselelo angabikho kukhuphiswano . Iintlawulo zinye, kwaye kubantwana abathile, ukuxhamla kokuphucula ngokwabo kukho konke ukhuphiswano abayidingayo ngokwenene.
Khuthaza u kufunda
Umntwana wakho unokufumana umdla kuphela ngokufunda ngaye kwincwadi. Thatha ixesha lokunceda iincwadi zakho zokuthabatha eziphakathi kunye nezinto ezinomdla kunye nabalinganiswa. Ngendlela, ukufunda ngokwakho kunokuthathwa njengento yokuzilibazisa kwaye ukuba i-kati yakho iba yintonga yencwadi, unakoloko unceda ukuba aqale iqela lakhe lokufunda.
Phu laphule
Qiniseka ukuba uphulaphule xa u-kati wakho ubonisa umdla kumdlalo, umdlalo okanye enye imisebenzi yangaphandle. Ngamanye amaxesha abazali baneengcamango zabo malunga nemisebenzi abafuna ukuba abantwana babo bahlolisise, kodwa qiniseka ukuba i-pakati yakho inegalelo kwaye ikwazi ukuphandelelwa iminqweno yakhe, kunokuba iyakho.
Cinga Ngaphandle kwebhokisi
Nangona i-kati yakho ingenalo umdlalo wokudlala i-baseball, unokuyilandela le midlalo ngentshiseko.
Ukuba kunjalo, unokwazi ukuba i-pakati yakho inokuba nomdla ekuncedeni iqela lebhola lebhola lezemidlalo njengomphathi omncinane, umfana wenkwenkwezi okanye umcebisi womqeqeshi.
Ezinye i-tween ziyakwazi ukuba zifuna ukuhlela emva kweembononongo, zihombise okanye zenze imisebenzi abanye abafuni ukuyenza. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba phakathi kwakho unetalente okanye ubuchule obukhethekileyo, zama ukufumana indlela yokumnceda asebenzise elo talente. Umzekelo, ukuba i-kati yakho inomdla wokubhenkcelela, unokufuna ukuqwalasela ngokuzithandela kwiqela lezemidlalo ukuze ancedise ukuhlanganisa iisethi. Ukuba u-pakati wakho ujonge ukulungelelanisa, unokufuna ukuzithandela esikolweni sakhe ngokuncedisa kwi-ofisi yesikolo, okanye ngokuncedisa ootitshala ukuba bahlele iiklasi zabo.