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Yenza isicwangciso sehlobo kulo nyaka kwaye ujabulele eli xesha kunye nabantwana bakho

Isikolo siphuma kwiinyanga ezintathu nje kuphela, kodwa abazali banokuchitha ixesha elininzi (okanye ngaphezulu) ukucwangcisa ihlobo. Kwaye nangona ezinye zezona zihlobo ezihle zentyatyambo ehlotyeni kubantwana kunye nabazali azilungelelaniswa, inyaniso yilezo zinto ezixabisekileyo, zikhethiweyo zimbalwa kwaye ziphakathi.

Xa ungumzali wabafundi kunye nezingane, imini kunye nemini, ihlobo lide. Nangona kunjalo, awufuni ukubukeka emva nje ukuba uzive nje ukuba utyumbile kuyo ngamehlo akho aphethwe kwiSuku lomSebenzi. Ngoko ukwenzela ukuba ihambe kakuhle ngokukhunjulwa ekugqibeleni, abazali kufuneka badibanise iinkqubo ezininzi zokunyamekela abantwana ehlobo ngexesha lemihla yeeholide kunye nexesha elidlulileyo ngelixa bechitha ixesha elihle kwihlobo leentsana zabo.

Leyo myalelo omde ngoko kukulungele ukuqala ukucwangcisa ihlobo ngeli xesha ubusika kusekhona. Nangona kunjalo, esi sicwangciso senyathelo ngesinyathelo sehlotyana siza kunceda nanini na xa uqala khona.

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Inyathelo 1: Phuma ngeCawa ngeVeki ngeeVeki

Phrinta iphepha elingenalutho lwekhalenda ukuze usebenzise njengoluhlu oluthile. Oku kukuvumela ukuba ubeke phantsi kwamathuba nje, kunokumakisha kunye nokuchithwa kwikhalenda yephepha okanye ukususa ngokungabonakali kwikhalenda yekhompyutha.

Qalisa ukucwangcisa ihlobo ngeemeko ezinemihla ethile. Beka nayiphi na ikhefu, inkampu yehlobo, izindwendwe zendlu, uhambo lweentsuku, iiholide, njl njl. Owaziyo kwikhalenda. Ukongeza kwakhona nayiphi na imihla ebalulekileyo enxulumene nomsebenzi, oko kukuthi ixesha lokugqibela, iifeshini zabasebenzi, ohambo lwezorhwebo, njl.

Ngoku unengcamango engqambileyo kangangeentsuku okanye iiveki eziza kuyidinga ukwenza isicwangciso sehlobo.

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Inyathelo 2: Misela iinjongo zasehlotyeni

Ngenkcazo yesigxina seshedyuli sasehlobo, lixesha lokuqalisa ukulungiselela iinjongo. Iinjongo zasehlobo zingaba ngumsebenzi- okanye intsapho ehlobene. Iinjongo zobugcisa zingaba yinto enqwenelekayo njengokugqiba iprojekthi eyinkimbinkimbi, okanye ingaba yinto elula njengokubeka inani elithile leeyure ngeveki okanye imini. Iinjongo ezinxulumene neentsapho zinokuthatha iintsuku zohambo okanye ukuzonwabisa ngeli xesha kunye nabantwana abanengcinezelo encinci.

Kodwa yenza lula kuwe xa ubeka iinjongo. I-Factor ngoxa ukunyuka kwexesha eliqhelekileyo elichazwa ngabaxhasi kunye nabasebenzi basekuhlaleni kunye nezingane ezivela esikolweni zichaphazela oko unokuzifeza.

Mhlawumbi intsapho sele sele ihlobo "lweelkethi uluhlu" lwezinto zokwenza. Ukuba akunjalo, fumana iingcamango ezivela kuleluhlu lweengcamango ezili-100 ezimnandi kubantwana nabazali . Okanye mhlawumbi kukho abantwana abanekhono abazange bazi kakuhle ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo ( izibalo zamatriki , izihlangu, kunye nezinye). Ihlobo lingaba lixesha lokuyilwela ngendlela ekhululekile.

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Inyathelo lesi-3: Sifuna ukunyamekelwa kweNtsana yabantwana

Yingakho ihlawulela ukuqala ekuqaleni. Ngokukhawuleza uqala, unonophelo loluncedo lomntwana oya kuba nalo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthatha ixesha lokugqiba amanyathelo 1 no-2 kuqala kukunceda wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo kwintsapho yakho.

Kalokunje ukuba unexesha kunye negosa, qalisa ukuzaliswa kwile kalenda ngokwenene. Cinga ngoobani oza kusebenza kwintsapho yakho. Ngokuqhelekileyo abazali basebenzisa umxube wabo. Inkampu yohlobo lweveki enye, oogogo nomkhulu olandelayo kwaye ke abantwana bafanele bazithabathele ekhaya okanye benomntwana weveki, njl njl.

Zininzi iinkampu zasehlotyeni ziqala ukuzaliswa ngoFebhuwari noKwindla, kwaye abantwana bebhattsitter bafumana ezinye iimama ngaphambi kokuba unyaka wesikolo uphume. Ngoko ungalibali ukuzalisekisa iinkcukacha zesicwangciso sehlobo. Kodwa ukuba uqala ukuqala, musa ukuphelelwa lithemba. Into ezayo.

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Inyathelo 4: Yenza ezinye izigqibo

Ukunikezelwa ngoncedo lwakho lokunakekelwa kwengane kunye nomthwalo wokusebenza, ngaba iiveki okanye iintsuku ezininzi zingabonakali? Ukuba ukhathele ukhetho lokunakekelwa kwabantwana oluthengiweyo, ngoko ukhangele kwishedyuli yomsebenzi wakho endaweni yoko. Isinyathelo esilandelayo sinokuthi uthathe iiyure okanye ulungiselele ishedyuli yakho ukusebenza ebusuku neveki. Mhlawumbi iqabane lakho liyakwazi ukulungiselela ishedyuli eguquguqukayo yehlobo. Cinga ukuba uthathe iholide esebenzayo (okt usebenza, abantwana badlala). Okuqhekeza i-monotony yokuchitha ihlobo ehlala ekhaya kubazali kunye nezingane.

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Inyathelo lesi-5: Cwangcisa iMisebenzi yemihla ngemihla

Ngaphandle kokuba ukhethe iiveki zokubuya emva kwenkampu yasehlotyeni, abantwana baya kuba nawe ekhaya iintsuku ezithile ehlobo. Hlola imisebenzi yeentsuku zentsuku zeentsuku zokuzenza xa usebenza. Cinga ngendlela ongayenza ngayo kwiinjongo ozibeka kuzo imihla ngemihla njengoko uceba imihla. Kodwa ujonge kunye kunye. Zama ezinye iimbono zokuzonwabisa ezikhululekile zasehlobo okanye ujoyine iqela lokufunda ehlobo.