Inkcazo yokuNakekela abantwana
Ukufumana ukunakekelwa kwabantwana bekhwalithi yimiba ebalulekileyo ebalulekileyo abazali abajongene nayo. Ukugqiba ngubani oza kumlinda umntwana wakho ngenkathi usebenza, ugqirha logqirha, okanye nje ukutya isidlo singenza isigqibo esicinezelayo nesigxina. Ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana kuza ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye kubonakala kwintsapho nganye.
Xa ufuna Ukunyamekela abantwana
Kubazali abaninzi, isigqibo sokufuna ukunakekelwa kwabantwana sikhutshwe ekupheleni kwekhefu lomzali.
Ikhefu lomzali liyahluka ngoomhlaba nelizwe. Umgaqo-nkqubo wekhefu waseMerika waseMzantsi Afrika okhoyo ngoku ulandelwa yi-Family Family and Medical Leave Act ka-1993 (i-FMLA), equka ukubonelelwa kweeveki ezili-12 zekhefu elingabhawulwanga rhoqo ngonyaka ngoomama osanda kuzalwa okanye abantwana abasanda kutholwa. Abazali abaninzi abanakukwazi ukufumana ikhefu elingenakuhlawuliswa baze baphele emsebenzini emva kweeveki ezili-12, beshiya abazali abatsha befuna ukunakekelwa kwabantwana kwintsana yabo.
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Izinto ezi-8 zokucinga malunga Nokuba Ufuna Ukuba nguMboneleli weNtlonipho yabantwana
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Iintlobo zabanikezeli bamanyathelo abantwana
Iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zabaninikeli boLondolozo lwaBantwana
Ababoneleli ngabantwana ngabanye banomdla kwaye banikezela isondlo kubantwana abaneminyaka eli-6 ukuya kwi-13 ubudala. Umboneleli ngamnye weenkonzo zokunakekela abantwana uhlukile, kodwa bonke babelana nothando kubantwana. Ukukhetha kwakho ababoneleli ngeenkonzo zabantwana kunokuxhomekeka kwiminyaka yabantwana bakho, iimfuno zeentsapho kunye nendawo yakho.
Ababoneleli bemihla ngemihla
Ukunyamekela kweso sihlandlo apho abazali belahla abantwana babo ngosuku lokunyamekela, ukuhlolwa, nokufunda. I-Daycares yimihlaba esemthethweni, ehleliweyo kunye nexesha elithile lokulahla kunye nexesha lokuthabatha. Amacandelo okunakekelwa kwezilwanyana azigxininisa ekunakekeleni iintsana ngokusebenzisa abantwana abaneminyaka engama-11 ubudala, nangona ezinye iintsuku zihamba phambili zinikela ngononophelo lwangaphambili-nangemva kokufunda esikolweni abantwana abakwizikolo.
Ababoneleli ngoncedo ekhaya
Ukunyamekela kwabantwana kwindlu apho iindwendwe zihlawula ukuzisa umntwana wazo kwikhaya lomntu omdala, ojongana nabantwana ngokuqhelekileyo nangokuqhubekayo. Olu khetho lokunakekela abantwana luhluke kunomntwana ngenxa yokuba abantwana bayiswa kwikhaya lomnakekeli ukuze banakekele.
Nanny
Umntu oqeshwe yintsapho kwimeko yokuhlala okanye ekuphumeni. Umntu ufika kwikhaya lentsapho ukubonelela nokunyamekela umntwana okanye abantwana. Isabelo somnxeba sinokukhetha apho omnye umntwana enakekela abantwana ababini okanye abangabandakanyekanga kwelinye lamakhaya omndeni.
Babysitter
Umntwana oqeshiweyo uqeshelwa yintsapho ukuba anakekele abantwana okwethutyana. Babysitters banokuqeshwa rhoqo okanye ngezinye izihlandlo. Umntwana ojongana nomntwana unoxanduva lokhuseleko kunye nenhlalakahle yabantwana.
Titshala
Xa umntwana wakho ekhulile ngokwaneleyo ukuya esikolweni, ootitshala baya kunika abantwana ukunakekelwa. Ootitshala bayimodeli ebantwini kubantwana kwaye banikele ngenkxaso, ukukhuthazwa kunye nokukhuselekileyo kwimeko. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali babe nolwalamano oluhle kunye nootitshala babantwana babo kwaye baqhubeke beqhagamshelana .
Indlela yokukhetha imeko yokunakekela abantwana ekulungeleyo
Ukukhetha imeko efanelekileyo yokunakekela abantwana isebenza kangangoko intsapho yakho ifuna ukuba uhlale phantsi njengentsapho kwaye uxoxe ngeemeko zakho ezizodwa. Eminye imibuzo ekufuneka uyibuze ngayo:
- Ngaba ufuna ixesha elizeleyo lokubonelela ngeenkonzo zokunakekela abantwana?
- Ingaba intsapho yakho isebenza ngeeyure zomdabu okanye ngaba unonophelo kulindeleke ukuba asebenze ekuqaleni, emva kwexesha, okanye ngeveki?
- Ukuba ngaba i-part-time, ngaba iintsuku ezifunekayo xa zifuneka zihlala zihambelana, okanye ngaba umboneleli wezononophelo lwezingane kufuneka aguquke kwiintsuku ezisebenzayo?
- Yintoni isabelomali yakho yentsapho yokunyamekela abantwana?
- Umntwana wakho uneminyaka engakanani kwaye yintoni inqanaba lakho lokuthuthuzela ngokumbeka kwindawo ethile yokubonelela ngeenkonzo zabantwana kule minyaka?
Ingaba umntwana wakho unemiqathango ekhethekileyo okanye iimfuno kwaye ufanelekile kangcono kummandla omncinci wokunakekela abantwana njengomntwana, njengokhathalelo lwasekhaya , okanye uyazikhula kwiiklasi ezinkulu kunye nemisebenzi ekhethekileyo enokufunyanwa kwimveli yokubeka
Ngokuxhomekeke kwiimpendulo zale mibuzo, ungaqala ukuphanda malunga nantoni na onokuzikhethela intsapho yakho. Ngaphambi kokugqiba ukuba uluhlobo luni lomncedisi wokunakekela abantwana onqwenelayo, misela oko unokukwazi ukukufumana. Umntwana, umzekelo, uya kuba neendleko ezingaphezulu kokubeka umntwana kwiziko lekhaya. Nangona amaziko okunakekelwa kwamasango avame ukufumana iintsana , abanye abazali bakhetha uhlobo oluthile lokumisela iintsana kunokuba benzayo xa umntwana ekhula.
Abazali bayazi kakuhle abantwana babo kwaye kufuneka bakhethe iimeko ezizivumela ukuba zikhule kwaye zikhule. Xa ukhangela iinketho zakho, cinga ngemfuno yengane yakho kunye nobudala kunye nokuba uya kuhluma ekhaya kunye nomntwana okanye kwisimo seqela, njengokhathalelo lwemveli lwendabuko.
Iindleko kunye neenkxaso zeMali zokuNakekela abantwana
Akumangalisi ukuba iindleko zokunakekela abantwana zihluka ngohlobo lononophelo. Ezi ndleko ziyahlukahluka ngendawo, iminyaka yobudala, kunye neendleko ze-nanny, ziya kuhluka uma unesabelo somntwana okanye unomntwana ongaphezu kweyodwa kwintsapho yakho.
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Wonke Umzali Kufanele Abuze Imibuzo Ngaphambi Kokuzisa Iintsana Ukunakekelwa Kwemini
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Imibuzo engama-12 yokubuza i-Day Care Care Day
Usuku lweSuku lweMveli lwaBantwana kunye nabantwana
Iindleko eziqhelekileyo zokunakekelwa kwamasango e-United States yi-$ 11,666 ngonyaka (i-$ 972 ngenyanga), kodwa amaxabiso avela kwi-3,582 ukuya kwii-18,773 ngonyaka (i-$ 300 ukuya kwi-1,564 ngenyanga), ngokweMbutho kaZwelonke woLondolozo lweNkxaso yabantwana kunye neeReferral Agencies (NACCRRA).
Usuku loSuku lweMveli lwabaNtu beSchools
Iindleko zokunakekelwa kwezilwanyana kubantwana abaneminyaka engama-10 ubudala ziphantsi, zilinganiselwa kuma-8 800 zamawaka ngonyaka (i-$ 733 ngenyanga). Kuya kuxhomekeka apho uhlala khona, uya kuhlawula ukusuka kwi $ 4,460 ukuya kwi-13,185 ngonyaka (i-$ 371 ukuya kwi-1,100 yeenyanga ngenyanga).
Ukunyamekelwa kwekhaya kwabantwana kunye nabantwana
Ngokufana nokunakekelwa kwenkcubeko, iindleko zokunakekelwa kwentsapho kwintsapho zixhomekeke kwiminyaka yengane yakho nalapho uhlala khona. Amanqanaba okunakekelwa kwindleko ngekhaya angama-7 761 ngonyaka (i-$ 646 ngenyanga) yabantwana kunye nabantwana. Amaxabiso aqala kwi $ 3,582 ngonyaka kwaye afike kwi-$ 11,940 ngonyaka (i-$ 300 ukuya kwi-995 ngenyanga) kodwa kwiidolophu ezinkulu le mali iya kuba phezulu.
Unonophelo lweKhaya lwabafundi baseKlasini
Ukufumana abantwana abaneminyaka engama-1000 ubudala, iindleko eziqhelekileyo zokunakekelwa kwendlu ekhaya zi-$ 7,627 ngonyaka (i-$ 636 ngenyanga). Amaxabiso avela kwi-$ 3,780 ukuya kwii-12,000 zamawaka ngonyaka (i-$ 315 ukuya kwi-1 000 ngenyanga).
Yabelana ngeNanny neNanny
Ngokuxhomekeka apho uhlala khona, unabantwana abangaphi na, kunye naluphi ukhuphiswano lwabaviwa abaqeqeshiwe, i-nannies ibiza imali ukusuka kwi $ 500 ukuya kwii-700 zamawaka ngeveki (i-$ 2,167 ukuya kwii-3,033 ngenyanga) ukunyamekela ixesha elipheleleyo lomntwana omnye kunye phakathi kwama-$ 400 I-650 yezigidi ngeveki (i-$ 1,733 ukuya kwii-2,817 ngenyanga) ngeeyure zeeyure. Kwisabelo somntwana , iindleko zokunakekela abantwana zinqunywe ngenxa yokuba umnxeba uchitha ixesha phakathi kwabantwana.
Babysitter
Iindleko zobuntwana zixhomekeka kwiimeko ezahlukahlukeneyo, ezifana nokuba bangaphi abantwana ababukeleyo, izinga lamava lomntwana; ukuba umntanki wenza umsebenzi owongezelelweyo; kwaye ukuba umntwana oqeshiweyo uqeshwa kwixesha elikhethekileyo, njengeholide okanye iholide .
Ukulungiselela Ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana
Iiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala ukuba umntwana wakho usezintweni okanye nge-nanny yithuba lokutshintsha kwintsapho yonke. Bobabini kunye nomntwana wakho kuya kufuneka ulungelelanise neshedyuli, ubuso obutsha kunye nemeko entsha. Uya kulungelelanisa ukuba ulindele ezinye iimvumba endleleni.
Ukulungiselela Ukunyamekelwa Kwemini okanye Ukunyamekelwa Kwangekhaya
Ngaphambi kosuku lokuqala lokunakekelwa kwamasango okanye ukunakekelwa kwekhaya, qiniseka ukuba ufumanisa oko ufuna ukukuzisa. Olu luhlu luyahlukahluka kuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yomntwana wakho. Ngaphambi kokuba umntwana wakho atshintshe i-1, uya kufuneka ukunikezela ngononophelo lwezonka ngeebhotile zefomula okanye ubisi lwebele olupompile ukunyusa umntwana wakho yonke imini. Xa umntwana wakho eqala ukutya izilwanyana, fumana umgaqo wokutya. Ngaba unikezela ukutya okanye ngaba ukunakekelwa kwelanga kukubonelela ukutya? Ukuba umntwana wakho usemntwaneni, ulondolozo lwemini lunokulandela ukutya kunye neshedyuli yokulala oyalela, kodwa ukuba umntwana wakho sele ekhulile, ukunakekelwa kweso sihlandlo kunokubekwa isantya, isidlo sasemini kunye namaxesha omnxeba, ngoko kubuza malunga neeshedyuli kwangaphambili.
Ukulungiselela iNanny
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ngomntwana, kunenzuzo yokuba neentsuku zokuvavanya, okanye ubuncinane iiyure ezimbalwa apho umntwana wakho echitha ixesha kunye nomntwana kwaye ungabonisa umntanakho malunga nekhaya lakho. Bhala ishedyuli yokutya komntwana kunye neshedyuli yokulala. Ukubambisana phakathi kwabancinci kubalulekile ekuphuculweni kwabantwana kwaye ukuba nesimo sizuzisa abantwana.
Ukujongana Neengxaki Zokutshintshwa Kwempilo Yabantwana
Ukuqala ukunakekelwa kwamasango okanye ukuba nomntwana oza ekhaya lakho yonke imihla yinguqu enkulu kuyo yonke intsapho. Kuqhelekileyo kubazali kunye nabantwana ukuba bazive bebuhlungu, bexhalabile, bevuya, okanye babulawe kwezinye iimvakalelo ngeli xesha lohlengahlengiso. Musa ukumangaliswa xa uhlangabezana nemingeni yomzimba, yengqondo, yomzimba, okanye yemingeni kulolu tshintsho.
Ukuhlukana
Ukukhathazeka ngokuhlukana xa umntwana okanye umncinane ekhala okanye ekhungathekile xa umlondolozi oyintloko engabonakaliyo okanye ewashiya nomnye umnakekeli. Ukuxhalabisa ukuxhalaba kukuphendula ngokuqhelekileyo kumntwana onomncedisi omtsha wokunakekela abantwana. Inokuqala ekuqaleni kweenyanga ezintandathu. Ukuxhalabisa ngokukodwa akukwenzeka kuphela xa kuqala kuqala ngumboneleli omtsha wokunakekela abantwana. Abantwana abaninzi banenkxalabo yokuhlukana nokuba ngaba bekunakekelwa kwintsuku okanye benomntwana ixesha elide. Unokukunceda umntwana wakho ngokuxhalabisa ngokwahlukana ngokuba nolwazi olucacileyo nolungaguquguqukiyo kunye nokufunda iincwadi malunga nokuhlukana kwabazali.
Ukuncelisa
Ukuba ungumama wokuncelisa, ukuguquka kokubuyela emsebenzini kunye nokubeka umntwana wakho ekunakekeleni abantwana, kunokwakheka kocwangciso olongezelelweyo. Kubalulekile ukucinga malunga neendlela ozikhethayo ngokupompa emsebenzini , ukucoca, kunye nokuxhaswa ngefomula. Xoxa ngezicwangciso zakho zokuncelisa kunye neSebe lakho loLuntu okanye umqeshi ukuqinisekisa ukuba kukho indawo eyaneleyo yokupompa. Unomama amaninzi aqhubeka nokunyamezela nokupompa ngelixa ebuyela emsebenzini, kodwa inokungena nemingeni ethile.
ZeMali
Ukuhlawula ukunyamekela abantwana kuyindleko enkulu kubazali abaninzi. Uphononongo olwenziwa yi- Child Care Aware luthi kukho iintsapho ezininzi iindleko zokunyamekelwa kwabantwana zidlula iindleko zezindlu, iikholeji, ukuthutha okanye ukutya. Kubalulekile ukujonga kwiimali zakho kunye nohlahlo lwabiwo-mali ngokufanelekileyo ngoncedo lwabantwana.
Logistics
Omnye umba onokuvela xa uqala ukunyamekelwa kwabantwana ujongene nokuhamba kwezinto zokuhamba kunye nokuqikelela ukuphuma kwexesha kunye nexesha lokuthabatha kunye neqabane lakho. Enye yeenzuzo ze-nanny kukuba akufanele ulahle umntwana wakho naphi na. Ukuba ukhetha ukhathalelo lwemini, qiniseka ukuba uyazi i-drop off and times-up times. Buza malunga nokuzilungelelanisa ngamaxesha kwaye ukuba kukho nayiphi na imali ehlawulwayo xa ufike ngokukhawuleza ukukhetha.
Imvakalelo yokubuyela emsebenzini
Ukushiya umntwana wakho nomnakekeli kubangela imvakalelo eyahlukeneyo kubantu abahlukeneyo. Unokuvakalelwa kukuba ungabikho ekhaya, ukhathazekile ukuba ulahlekelwa yimpumelelo okanye ezinye izihlandlo ezibalulekileyo ebomini bakho. Abazali abaninzi abasebenzayo bajongana neemvakalelo zetyala xa beshiya umntwana wabo kwelinye ilondolozo lomntu kunye nokunyamekela. Unokuziva nomona ngomnakekeli womntwana wakho.
Ukuba unethamsanqa ngokwaneleyo ukuba ube nomsebenzi owanelisayo oziva unomdla ngoku, ukubuyela eofisi unokuziva uthuthuzela, unomdla, kwaye uvuselela. Lezo zintlobo zengqondo zingakhokelela kwimeko ekhethekileyo yecala, apho uziva kakubi ukuba awufuni ukuya ekhaya nomntwana wakho.
Njengemvakalelo eninzi enxulumene nomzali, kunzima ukwazi ukuba uya kuvakalelwa njani uze ufumane oko. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uluphi uhlobo oluvakalelwa ngayo, zonke ziqhelekileyo. Ukubuyela emsebenzini yinguqu enkulu egcwele imizwa ephikisanayo. Kuyinto engokwemvelo ukuba uyabuhlungu ukushiya umntwana wakho kodwa ujabule ukubuyela kwindawo yakho yomsebenzi.