Ukulondoloza umntwana onokuthenjwa nokuthembekileyo akuyona into elula. Nazi ezinye izicwangciso zokunceda kwinkqubo yokufumana i-sitters ukuba udliwano-ndlebe, imibuzo ozoyibuza ngexesha lodliwano-ndlebe, ubiza izikhombisi kunye nokuqeshisa umntwana.
Kuphi ukujonga kunye nokokucela ukuba ufumane i-Babysitter
Indawo efanelekileyo yokuqala ukukhangela ngaphakathi kwindawo oyaziyo: icawa, izikolo zendawo, abamelwane, indawo yokusebenzela.
Emva kokuba unokhetho oluthile, kubalulekile ukujonga iingxelo . Ezi zinokuvela kubafundisi, iinkokeli zeqela lolutsha okanye kwezinye iindwendwe ezisebenzise i-sitter. Xa uqhagamshelana neentsapho i-sitter esebenzele yona, cela ubuninzi babo abantwana. Kwakhona, fumana ukuba ngaba babe neengxaki malunga nendlela abahlala ngayo nabantwana babo.
Qaphela ukusebenzisana kwabantwana nabantwana bakho
Isinyathelo esilandelayo kukumema i-sitter ngaphezulu ukuba ubuze imibuzo kwaye ubone indlela asebenzisana ngayo nabantwana bakho. Olu hlobo lwenxibelelwano lubonisa izinga lokuthuthuzela ohlala kuyo kunye nabantwana. Kubalulekile ukukhetha umntwana obhalisa ngendlela yakho yokuba ngumzali. Qiniseka ukuba ubuze malunga noqeqesho lwe-sitter kwi-first aid okanye kwi-CPR. Xoxa ngento enokuyenza kwiimeko ezithile zexakeka. I-sitter enobuchule iya kukwazi ukuphendula le mibuzo kwaye ibonise ukuba unokukwazi ukuwuqhuba umsebenzi.
Ngaba Ufanelekile Ukuba Ngumntwana?
Hlola iimfanelo zakho ze- sitter ezichasene nale mpawu icetyiswa yiNkqubo yoQeqesho lwaBantwana base-American Red Cross: Ngaba unayo uqeqesho lokuqala / iCPR? Ngaba ubonisa ukukhula, ukugweba kakuhle, nokuqonda? Ingaba ubonakala enobungane, enoxanduva kwaye ehlekisa?
Ngaba i-sitter ivutha? Ngaba ulungile kwaye ulungelelanise? Ngaphandle kwamanqanaba onke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uhambe nomzimba wakho. Ngaba uvakalelwa kakuhle malunga ne-sitter kwaye uyamthemba lo mntu nomntwana wakho?
Buza malunga neNdleko
Buza abathititters oko bahlawula ngaphambili ukuze kungabikho ukudideka okanye ukungathandeki xa bebonisa ukujonga abantwana bakho. Ukuhlawula iirhafu kufana nendawo, iinani labantwana, amava kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Khangela amaxabiso okufumana abantwana apha.
Cwangcisa ukufika kwangaphambili kwi-Babysitter
Emva kokuba uqeshe i-sitter, mvumele ukuba eze endlwini yakho isiqingatha seyure ngaphambi kokuba uhambe uhambe kuzo zonke iinkxalabo zexakeka. UDkt. Keener uthi: "Ingaphezu kwesigamu abazali abayeke abantwana babo nabantwana abangaphantsi kwe-16 abangashiyi manani oomnxeba.
Xoxa ngemithetho yeNdlu kunye neNkcukacha zoLwazi lokuShawula
Qinisekisa ukuba uxoxisana nemithetho yakho yasekhaya kunye ne-sitter kwaye uhlale ushiya inombolo apho ungafikelela kuyo ngamaxesha onke. Shiya ulwazi malunga nayiphi na iishedyuli (ukondla okanye ukulala), naluphi na uhlobo lokutya, ukuthanda okuthethiweyo nokungathandeki kunye nolunye ulwazi olubalulekileyo umgcini uya kufuneka ukuba unakekele kakuhle abantwana bakho. Xa kukho imeko engxamisekileyo yokongela ubomi, ugqirha wezokwelapha livumelekile ukunyanga umntwana wakho, iingcali zithi.
Kodwa ukuba ingozi yokungabikho ubomi, baya kufuna imvume yabazali yokunyanga.
Ikholi yasekhaya Ukujonga kwi-Kids kunye neBabititter (Kwixesha eliPhambili lokuHlola)
Ngethuba lobusuku, qiniseka ukubiza ikhaya, ingakumbi ukuba awufumaneki lula. Biza ekhaya ngexesha apho unokukwazi ukukhupha ingxaki, njengesiqingatha seyure emva kokulala xa abantwana banokungalali ukulala. Ungaphakamisa iindlela ezithile ze-sitter ukuze ubaqinisekise ukuba balale. Ukubambisana phakathi kwabanakekeli kubaluleke kakhulu xa kuziwa ekulaleni, ekudleni nasekufundiseni.
Fumana i-Debriefing Emva kokuba ubuyele ekhaya
Cinga ngokuxubusha kunye ne-sitter xa ufika ekhaya.
Buza ngokukodwa malunga neendawo ocinga ukuba i- sitter inokuba neengxaki . Ngokuqhelekileyo uhlala ecinga ukuba ukuziphatha komntwana wakho kukubonakalisa kwaye unokunganqweneli ukuvuma nayiphi na ingxaki yokuziphatha ngaphandle kokuba abuze. Ukukhetha i-sitter kunye nokuqeqeshwa kokusingatha iimeko eziphuthumayo kunye nokujonga iingxelo ze-sitter ziya kukunceda ngakumbi kwaye abantwana bakho bavikeleke.
Buza Abantwana Bakho Nge-Sitter
Ngokuxhomekeke kwiminyaka yobuntu kunye nobuntu babantwana bakho, unokufumana ingqiqo efanelekileyo kwi-sitter ngokusekelwe kwingcaciso evela kumntwana wakho. Ingaba umntwana wakho ujabule? Ngaba besondla kwaye banwabile xa ubuya? Iimvana ezininzi zikhala okanye zibonisa ukuxhalaba kohlulo xa abazali babo bebashiya nge-sitter entsha, ngoko nihlawule ingqalelo kwimilinganiselo yomntwana kunye neemvakalelo xa ubuya kwaye kungekhona xa uphuma emnyango.