6 Iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo zokukhusela umntwana wakho kufuneka azi
Ingaba umntwana wakho uyazi ukuba wenzeni ukuba wahlukana nawe kwindawo ephakamileyo yabantu njengepaki okanye ivenkile? Ngenye yezona zinto zikhohlakeleyo kakhulu kubazali kodwa enye umzali kufuneka ayilungiselele umntwana. Masifunde izifundo eziyisithandathu onokuzifundisa abantwana bakho ukuba bahlale bekhuselekileyo xa belahleka.
Yazi Ulwazi Lwakho
Qiniseka ukuba umntwana uyazikhumbula ngegama lakho elipheleleyo, inombolo yakho yefowuni kunye nedilesi yakho. Abanye abantwana njengabantwana abathathu bangakwazi ukukhumbula inombolo yomnxeba kamama okanye uyise.
Kwakhona, qinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho uyazi amagama akho okuqala nokugqibela. Khumbula, nangona kunjalo, ukuba abanye abantwana banokulibala amagama akho okuqala kuba bengayisebenzisi ukubhekisela kubazali babo.
Ukuba umntwana wakho usemncinci ukukhumbula ngeenkcukacha zakho, bhala phantsi kwisiqwenga sephepha uze uyikhuphe kwindawo ekhuselekileyo njengesihlangu okanye ipokhethi yakhe. Mkhumbuze umntwana wakho apho iphepheni phambi kokuya kwindawo oya kuyo ukuze akwazi ukuxelela umntu omdala okhuselekileyo ukuba ukhona xa uthe wahlukana.
UkuSebenza Ukubizela
Yenza umntwana wakho asebenzise ukubiza ifowuni yakho. Oku kunceda kakhulu abantwana abadala xa befunda ukusebenzisa ifowuni kwaye unako ukubiza umnxeba wakho kwi-landline okanye enye ifowuni.
Cela uncedo ngokukhuselekileyo
Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba acele uncedo ngokukhuselekileyo. Kunokuba ufundise umntwana wakho ukuba angalokothi athethe nabangamaziyo, xhobisa umntwana wakho kwaye umxelele ukuba abuze umfazi onomntwana uncedo. Ukuba akakwazi ukubona enye, mxelele ukuba afune ibhinqa, umthengisi wevenkile ene-nametag, okanye unogada.
Mfundise ukuba utshele umntu omdala ukuba ulahlekile kwaye uzinike igama lakhe elipheleleyo, inombolo yakho yefowuni, igama lakho kunye nolunye ulwazi oluyisiseko.
Hlala apho ukhona
Tshela umntwana wakho ukuba angalokothi ahambe akukhange xa elahleka. Into efanelekileyo kubo ukuba bayenze ukuhlala apho bahlala khona ukuze ukwazi ukuza ufumane.
Yenza ukhuseleko
Yenza ukufunda ezi ngcebiso. Indlela enhle yokwenza oko kukubukela ividiyo ekhuselekileyo njenge "Ukhuseleko olukhuselekileyo-ukhuseleko lwamaqhinga: Iingcebiso ezitshoyo zokugcina abantwana abanzi bekhuselekile kunye nabantu abangazi kwaye bazi," ezidalwe yiZiko leSizwe labantwana abalahlekileyo kunye nabaxhaphaziweyo. (NCMEC).
Idibanisa ulwazi olukhuseleko olubalulekileyo, njengento yokwenzayo xa uhlukaniswe nomzali wakho, ngendlela ejabulisayo neyokulula ukuyiqonda ebantwana. I-DVD ilungele ukuba neyakho kuba uyayibukela njengentsapho rhoqo emva kwesikhashana ukuvuselela imemori yabo. Abantwana bayayithanda le nto, naye.
I-NCMEC iphinde isebenze iwebhusayithi ethi Kid Smartz. Izaliswe ngolwazi oluxabisekileyo kubazali, iividiyo ezininzi zezingane, kunye nemisebenzi enokuqhubeka nokufunda kwakho ukhuseleko.
Ziqhelise Oko Ukwenza
Ziqhelise "ntoni ukuba" kunye nomntwana wakho. Yiya kula macebiso ngezikhathi ezithile, ingakumbi ngaphambi kokuba uphume kwindawo ephakamileyo njengepaki, indawo yokudlala okanye enye indawo kawonkewonke. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba akufanele ubeke umntwana wakho engozini xa eqhuba, imibuzo elula kunye nezimpendulo ziya kwenza.
I-NCMEC isincoma ukuhamba kwiindidi ezahlukeneyo ezinjenge:
- "Unokwenza ntoni ukuba ungeke undibone?"
- "Unokwenza ntoni ukuba ungaboni umama onomntwana kwangoko emva kokuba uqaphele ukuba sahlule?"
- "Unokwenza ntoni ukuba umntu uthe ufanele uhambe nabo ukuze undifumane ?"
Xa uphumelele kwaye malunga, sebenzisa ezi ngcebiso kunye nomntwana wakho ngokubuza ukuba ngubani umntu omdala okukufutshane nawe ukuba uya kufikelela xa elahlekile.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Izifundo ezilula kunye nezikhumbuzo ngezihlandlo zikwazi ukugcina abantwana bakho bekhuselekile xa besesidlangalaleni . Ukuphonononga ezi ngcebiso zokukhusela kaninzi njengoko ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuqiniseka ukuba uyazi ukuba wenzeni ukuba uyahlukana. Khumbula ukugcina izinto ezimnandi, nangona kunjalo. Ingumxholo obalulekileyo, kodwa abantwana bahlala begcina ulwazi xa bayakuvuyela ukufunda.
> Umthombo:
> Isiko seSizwe soBantwana abasweleyo kunye nabaxhaphaziweyo. Iingcebiso kubazali: Iziganeko zoKhuseleko. 2014. http://www.kidsmartz.org/~/media/KidSmartz/ResourceDocuments/KidSmartz_Safety_Scenarios.pdf