Funda Oko Ukulinda
Ngaba ukhathazeke ngentetho yomntwana kunye nophuhliso lweelwimi? Ukuba kunjalo, awunabo. Uninzi lwabazali banenkxalabo malunga nezigaba zophuhliso lwabantwana kuzo zonke iindawo. Njengoko kwezinye iindawo zokuphuhliswa, abantwana bahlakulela intetho nezakhono zolwimi kumaxabiso ahlukeneyo. Ukulibaziseka okuphuculwayo kwezakhono zonxibelelwano akubonakaliyo iimpawu ezipheleleyo zokuthetha okanye ukukhubazeka kolwimi.
Intetho nokuphuhliswa kolwimi kufuneka kucatshangelwe njengokuba kwenzeka phakathi kwexesha lexesha kunokuba lixesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, kukho imiqondiso eqhelekileyo yokuthetha kunye nokulibaziseka kolwimi onokuyilinda .
Ukuzalwa kweintsana ukuya kwiinyanga ezili-18
Amanqanaba okuqala okuphuhlisa intetho afaka iingcamango zokuziphatha ezifana nokujonga okanye ukujikela kwisandi, ukudibana nombono womnakekeli, nokwenza izandi. Njengoko usana luqhubeka lukhula, uya kuqala ukulinganisa intshukumo kunye nezandi zabanye abazungezile. Kwiinyanga ezililishumi elinambini, umntwana uqala ukufunda ukuba abo banyamekelayo banxulumene nezandi ezithile kunye nezinto kunye nabantu. Uqala ukuthetha amagama afana ne-da-da, ma-ma, kunye nebha yebhotile.
Ngeli xesha, ukulibaziseka kunokukhathazeka ukuba umntwana:
- Unqamle ukudibanisa kwamehlo okanye ayiphenduli kwizandi kwindawo yakhe
- Awuyikubamba okanye ahlaziye, ahlabe umlomo ngomlomo
- Ayiphenduli ingoma yokucula kunye nabanye
- Akubonakali ukuphulaphula okanye ukukhathazeka ngamazwi abanakekeli okanye abantakwabo
- Ayenzi izinto eziqhelekileyo ezifana nokukhomba ngento efunwayo, ukukhwela okanye ukubulisa
- Kubonakala kungakhululeki, ngokukhala ngokukhawuleza
Abantwana abanama-18 ukuya ku-24 inyanga
Abantwana abakweli nqanaba kufuneka baqale ukubukela abanye kwindawo yabo.
Bahlakulela ukukwazi ukubonisa imvakalelo kwiilwimi zabo kunye nokubamba. Baza kuqala ukubonisa ukuqonda, okanye izakhono zokuthobela ulwimi ngokukhomba izinto xa kucelwa ukuba wenze njalo okanye ngokulandela izikhombisi ezilula.
Ngeli xesha, ukulibaziseka kunokukhathazeka ukuba umntwana:
- Uyaqhubeka nokubonisa ukunxulumana kwamehlo nabanakekeli kunye nabanye abantwana
- Kubonakala ukubonisa uluhlu oluthile lwemvakalelo
- Awuqali ukuthetha amagama angatshatanga abantu abaqhelekileyo kunye nezinto
- Ayikwazi ukubhekisela kumalungu amabini amakhulu okanye amathathu omzimba njengentloko, iingalo, iinyawo okanye imilenze
- Awukhombisi izinto eziqhelekileyo okanye abantu xa bebuzwa okanye abakwazi ukukhomba imifanekiso yezinto eziqhelekileyo xa kucelwa
- Ubonakala engathandekiyo kwindawo yakhe
- Ayizame ukujonga abanye okanye ukusebenzisana
Ukuthatha abantwana abangama-24 ukuya kuma-36 inyanga
Ngalesi sizukulwana, abantwana baqala ukucula iingoma zomculo eziyingcingo ezilula okanye ukulinganisa iingoma ngokuxuba. Baqala ukubonisa izakhono zolwimi zokuqala . Bakwazi ukuchaza izinto ezininzi eziqhelekileyo emakhaya abo okanye kwisetyenziselwa kwindlela yokunakekelwa kwamasango kwaye bangenza izivakalisi ezilula ezimbini ukuya kweyesithathu.
Ngeli xesha, ukulibaziseka kunokukhathazeka ukuba umntwana:
- Ayikwazi ukukhomba okanye ukusho amagama eziqhelekileyo kwindawo yakhe
- Ayithethi izivakalisi ezilula ezifana "nokufuna ubisi," "ikhaya likaDa-da," okanye "akukho ixesha lokulala"
- Ayinakuvuyela ukuphulaphula amabali okanye ukulandela kwincwadi
- Awunomdla kumabonwakude amabonwakude
- Ngaba kunzima ukuyiqonda kunabanye abantwana bakhe ubudala
Kuphi ukuphendulela uncedo
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