Ukukhungatheka ngokuthetha nokusebenza ngaphandle kunokuba yimpawu
Ukuba intetho yengane eneminyaka engama-10 ubudala kunye nentuthuko yeelwimi isala emva kwontanga yakhe, unokuzibuza ukuba ufuna ukuba unyango ukuthatha. Ukwahlukana kwintetho phakathi komntwana wakho kunye noontanga bakhe bangabonakala bebhengezwa ngakumbi njengoko eqhubeka esebenzisana nabo kwindawo yokufunda esemthethweni.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, abaninzi abazali banenkxalabo malunga nophuhliso lwabantwana babo.
Kodwa njengakwizinye iindawo zokuphuhliswa, intetho yabantwana kunye nezakhono zolwimi ezihamba phambili kumaxabiso ahlukeneyo.
Nangona kubalulekile ukubheka ukulibaziseka kwintetho yengane yakho nokuphuhliswa kolwimi, kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ukuxilwa kwezakhono zokunxibelelana akuthethi ukuba intetho okanye ukukhubazeka kolwimi akunakukuphepha.
Iimpawu zeNtetho yokulahla
Intetho ekhethekileyo kunye nezakhono zolwimi kufuneka kucatshangelwe njengento eyenzekayo kwixesha lexesha kunexesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iziganeko eziqhelekileyo ezinokuba izibonakaliso zentetho yokuthetha kunye nokulibaziseka kolwimi onokulujonga. Ngokomzekelo, ingabe intetho yomntwana wakho ibonakala ihluke kakhulu kwabanye abantwana esikolweni? Ngaba ootitshala nabanye abantwana babonakala benenkinga yokuqonda umntwana wakho?
Ingaba umntwanakho uphazamiseka lula ngokufunda nokudlala imisebenzi ebandakanya ukuthetha nabanye, ukuphulaphula okanye ukulandela izikhokelo?
Ingaba umntwana wakho ubonakala enganakwabelanga kwabanye kwaye akanomdla kwimisebenzi yokufundela okanye adlala nabanye?
Abantwana abafumana ukuthetha inselele banokuphinde bathukuthele, balume okanye babethe abanye abantwana kunokusebenzisa amagama abo. Abantwana abakhomba okanye babambe izinto okanye abantu kwaye benze imisindo ukubonisa iimpendulo zabo kunokuba babize izinto okanye abantu ngamagama abo babonisa iimpawu zokubambezeleka kweelwimi.
Kuyafana nabantwana abanenkathazo yokulandela imiyalelo okanye ikhombandlela ebandakanya amanyathelo omnye okanye amabini. Qaphela umntwana wakho. Ngaba ulandela imisebenzi ngokubukela abanye ngaphambi kokuba azame? Emva koko, unokufumana ingxaki yokuthetha.
Ezinye izixhobo zokuLinda
Kwezinye iziganeko, unokubona kwakhona izibonakaliso zokuthetha nolwimi ukulibaziseka ngokuhlawula ngokukhawuleza oko umntwana wakho akutshoyo nokuthi uyithetha njani. Ukuthetha kakhulu ngamagama angamazwi okanye imfutshane emfutshane kunokuba uthethe ngezivakalisi ezipheleleyo kunokukhathazeka. Ngokomzekelo, umntwana onokufundela ngexesha lokulibaziseka unokukwenza ukuthabatha isenzo kwiloli yokudlala kwaye uthi, "iloli" kunokuthi, "Ndifuna iloli."
Abantwana abanokulibaziseka kokuthetha kunye neengxaki zokuvalelwa ngeentloko zingashiya izandi zokuqala zamagama okanye zenze amagama angaphezulu kweelwimi enye. Basenokufaka izandi ezifana nesandi esilungileyo kodwa asikho isandi esilungileyo. Umntwana unokuthi "inyopho" esikhundleni sezinyo okanye "parm" esikhundleni se "fama."
Ezi ntlobo zentlukwano yezinye iintetho ngamanye amaxesha zibangelwa zizifo ezithintekayo zentloko ngexesha lokuphuhlisa ulwimi lokuqala. Kwamanye amaxesha, ezi ntlobo zeentetho zentetho zingabangelwa ukungabikho kokulungelelaniswa kolwimi kunye nezihlunu zomlomo womntwana.
Iintetho ze-pathologists zibhekisela kulokhu njengombutho osebenza ngomlomo. Kwimeko enjalo, unyango lwentetho lunokuphucula ukuthetha kule miqathango.
Ukuba uyakrokrela ukuba umntwana wakho onokufundela unokulibaziseka kweelwimi, khulisa nodokotela wezingane malunga nokufumana ukuba ahlolwe.