Gxila kumntu, kungekhona ukukhubazeka
Ulwimi lokuqala loluntu luyindlela evelele kakhulu, okanye yezopolitiko, ukuthetha ngokukhubazeka. Xa kuxubusha abantwana abakhubazekileyo, abantu bahlala besisebenzisa ukukhubazeka ukuchaza wonke umntu. Basenokuthi, umzekelo, "U-ADHD," okanye "Ungumntwana ophantsi."
Kusenokwenzeka ukuba uye wakuva kwaye watsho ezi zinto ngaphandle kokucingisisa, kodwa amazwi anjalo angalimaza abantwana abaneemfuno ezizodwa.
Ulwimi lokuqala loluntu yindlela enye yokuthetha ngokukhubazeka kwabantwana okubeka ingqwalasela kumntu ngaphandle kokukhubazeka. Ukusebenzisa ulwimi lomntu wokuqala, yitsho igama lomntu okanye sebenzisa isigama-magama kuqala, landela ngesenzi esifanelekileyo uze ubeke igama lokukhubazeka.
U mzekelo
Esikhundleni sokuthi, "U-ADHD" okanye "Ufunda ukukhubazeka," sebenzisa izitethi ezifana "UDavid une-Down syndrome" okanye "uSusan ungumntwana onesifo sokufunda ." Kunokuba uthi, "Isakhiwo sineenkqubo ezikhubazekileyo," usenokuthi, "Isakhiwo sineprogram yabantu abantu abakhubazekileyo."
Ukusebenzisa ulwimi lokuqala lomntu kuthatha ixesha elide. Ukubhala kufuna amanye amagama ukuchaza abantu kunye neenkqubo. Nangona kunjalo, ukusetyenziswa komntu wokuqala kulwimi kuguqula ukugxilwa kwethu ukukhubazeka kunye neengxaki ezibhekiselele kumntu. Isenza sicinge ngomntu njengoko sibhekene nokukhubazeka kunokuba sicinge ngabo kuphela ngokukhubazeka kwabo.
Abantu abakhubazekileyo bangabantu bokuqala nabokuqala; ukukhubazeka kwabo akufuneki ukulubekela ubume babo.
Izinzuzo
Abaninzi abakhubazekileyo bakholelwa ukuba ukusebenzisa ulwimi lokuqala kuluncedo kunceda ootitshala, abagqirha, abazali nababoneleli benkonzo bakhumbula ukuba basebenzisana nomntu onesidima, iimvakalelo kunye namalungelo.
Abayikhubako okanye isifo. Bangabantu abanokukhubazeka okanye izifo. Ukutshintshwa kolwimi oluqinileyo kodwa olunamandla kusinceda sibone abantu abanokukhubazeka njengokuba banako kwaye banelungelo lokuhlonela.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele, nangona kunjalo, ukuba abanye abantu abakhubazekileyo banokhetho lwabo malunga nendlela oxoxa ngayo ngokukhubazeka kwabo. Ngokomzekelo, kwezinye iindawo ezizithulu, kukhethwa ukuba uthi, "Uyisithulu," kunokuba "Ungenanto." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, usenokuthi, "Unokukhubazeka kokuvalelwa."
Kwezinye iindawo eziyimfama, kukhethwa ukuba uthi, "Uyimfama" kunokuba "Uphofu." Ngaphezu koko, ezinye iindawo eziyimfama zikhetha ukuthetha "umntu ongaboni." Ngakolunye uhlangothi, unokuthi, "Unobungozi obubonakalayo."
Xa ungathandabuzeki, ungayigcina kwaye uphulaphule ulwimi olusetyenziswe ngumntu okhubazekileyo kwaye uthathe iingcinga zakho kwizinto ezithethwa. Unokubuza kwakhona ukuba ngaba ootitshala okanye abantu abakhubazekileyo endaweni yakho bazimisele ukwabelana ngokukhetha kwakho nawe. Ukuba zonke izinto ziyahluleka kwaye uphukisa umntu, ukuxolisa ngokunyanisekileyo kunokukunceda.
Igama elivela kwi-Verywell
Injongo kukuxoxa ngokukhubazeka ngendlela ebonisa ubungqina bomntu obandakanyekayo.
Kwiimeko ezininzi, ukukhubazeka akuchazi ubungqina bomntu wonke, ngoko abanye akufanele bachaze ukukhubazeka njengokungathi yinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebomini.