Imiba ekujonganeni nokuxhalaba Emva kokuphela kokukhulelwa
Ukuzikhethela ukuphelisa ukukhulelwa okufunayo ngenxa yeengxaki zonyango kuyintlungu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba izizathu zihlobene nawe okanye umntwana wakho, akungabazeki ukuba kufuneka wenze isigqibo ongazifuni ukwenza. Nangona uqinisekile ukuba wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo, uya kujongana neempendulo ezininzi emva kwemiva.
Zinike imvume yokulila
Abasetyhini abafumana ukulahleka kokukhulelwa banokuzabalazela nokuba ngaba abanelungelo lokulila.
Ukufa komntwana kunzima abantu ukuba bathethe ngabo, kwaye oomama abaninzi abadabukayo kulindeleke ukuba bagcine ubuhlungu babo bubucala ukuze bagweme. Loo nto iphakanyiswa ngabasetyhini abaye baphumelela ekugqibeleni ukunyanga ngenxa yokuba ekugqibeleni baye bakhetha ukuphelisa ukukhulelwa kwabo.
Inyaniso kukuba unelungelo lokulilazela ilahleko lakho. Ukulindela kwakho ukukhulelwa kwakuguqulwe ngokugqithiseleyo ngokuxilongwa kwesimo esisongela ubomi wena okanye umntwana wakho. Awuyi kukwenza ukukhetha ukuphelisa ukukhulelwa kwakho ukuba ngaba isiphumo esihle sinokwenzeka. Kuqondakala ngokucacileyo ukuba uziva uhlungu, kwaye unamava amaninzi emzimbeni, engqondweni nangokwengqondo.
Ukuthotywa
Phantse bonke abazali bazive benetyala emva kokulahleka kokukhulelwa. Kunzima ukungazibuza ukuba unokwenza ntoni ngokungafaniyo, okanye ukuba wenze isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Kwimeko yokupheliswa kwemithi , akungabazeki ukuba uhamba ngokuvavanya kunye nokucebisa nge-perinatologist ukuqinisekisa ukuba ukuxilonga kwakho umntwana kubulala.
Ngaphandle kwezi ziqinisekiso, akusoloko kulula ukuphelisa ukukhulelwa.
Kubalulekile ukuqaphela ukuba inetyala iyimpendulo yendalo, kodwa kwimeko efana nale-apho ungenalo igunya lokutshintsha imeko-yinto engafanelekanga. Akukho ndlela elula okanye yendalo yonke yokufumana iimvakalelo zangaphambili zecala, kodwa unokufumana iindlela zokujamelana nayo.
Isikolo sakho seZibhedlele
Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokonyango zokupheliswa komzimba, ukuhluthwa nokukhutshwa (iD & E) okanye ukuchithwa kwabasebenzi. Indlela yesibini eqhelekileyo iyabonakala ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yeengozi ezinxulumene ne-D & E kamva xa ukhulelwa. Ukuba unomsebenzi obangelwa ngamachiza, amava akho aya kufana ne- trimester . Enye yeenzuzo zokufumana inyulo yithuba lokuba ubone kwaye ubambe umntwana wakho emva kokunikezelwa. Kufuneka unikezwe ithuba lokuqokelela i-mementos yengane yakho, kubandakanywa neenyawo, iifoto kunye nethuba lokubiza umntwana wakho . Eli lixesha elixabisekileyo lokuba awuyi kuba nelithuba lesibini.
Ngaphandle kweSibhedlele
Xa ukhutshwa esibhedlele, umsebenzi wesantya uyaqhubeka. Iimvakalelo zakho zinokuluhlula kwiinkalo zonke, ukusuka kwintlungu ukuya ekudabukeleni, kunye nexesha lovuyo. Zonke ezi mvakalelo ziqhelekileyo kwaye ziyinxalenye yenkqubo yokulila.
Ngokuxhomekeka kwindlela ekukude ngayo ngexesha lakho lokupheliswa, unokufuneka uqalane nokujongana nomntwana oye waqala ukuwusekela ukulungiselela abantwana . Kuya kufuneka ufumane indlela yokwabelana ngeendaba zokulahleka kwakho kunye nabahlobo kunye nosapho.
Nangona mhlawumbi uya kufumana ukuba amaninzi amabhinqa kumaqela enkxaso yokulahleka kokukhulelwa ayenokuphulukana nokusalela okanye ukuzalwa komntwana, usenokufumana uncedo ukuzama imeko yeqela.
Ukuba unabantu abangasese, cinga indlela yokuzithetha, njengokubhala okanye omnye umsebenzi wokudala.
Kulungile ukuba neNgcwaba
Kungabonakala kungafanelekanga ukuba ube nomngcwabo okanye inkonzo yesikhumbuzo sokukhulelwa oye wakhetha ukuphela, kodwa umngcwabo yinxalenye ebalulekileyo kwinkqubo yokulila abantu abaninzi. Ithuba lokutshilola kwaye uqaphele ubuntu bomntwana wakho kunye nosapho kunye nabahlobo bakho abakhona ukukuxhasa. Kukho izixhobo ezininzi ezincedo ekucwangciseni umngcwabo okhoyo kule ndawo.
Ukufuna Uncedo lobuNtu
Akukho mhla wokugqibela "ukufikelela phezu kwayo." Inzingo yinkqubo kunye nohambo.
Uza kuba nexesha apho uqala ukuziva ukuba uhamba phambili, kuphela ukubuyiswa ngento ethile, njengesikhumbuzo, ieholide , okanye ikhefu lakho lokuqala lentsapho emva kokulahleka. Kungokwemvelo ukufumana ezi zihlandlo apho ukudabuka kukuziva kutsha kwakhona.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba usizi lwakho kunye neempawu zomzimba ziqala ukuphazamisa ubomi bakho, okanye ukukwazi kwakho ukuzikhathalela wena kunye nosapho lwakho, kusenokuba ixesha lokufuna uncedo lwezengcali kwi-orrapist or psychiatrist. Ukuba unakho ukucinga ngokuzilimaza okanye omnye umntu, funa uncedo olusesikweni loogqirha okanye amapolisa. Ukuba awukwazi ukufika kwigumbi elingxamisekileyo ngokwakho, biza u-9-1-1.
Ukuzama kwakhona
Unyuselo oluninzi lwezonyango lubangelwa yinto engavamile kwi-fetus engahambelani nobomi. Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye iimeko, imbangela inxulumene nengxaki yezofuzo komnye wabazali onokuphinda xa ekhulelwe. Kwiimeko apho ukupheliswa kwacetyiswa ngenxa yempilweni yomama- pre-eclampsia enkulu , ukusuleleka , okanye impilo engapheliyo- yinto enjalo yimeko yokuphindaphinda kwenye ukukhulelwa.
Eyona ndlela enokukhetha kuyo yinkqubo yokuqokwa ngokulandelelana kunye ne-OB / GYN yakho, kunye ne- perinatologist ephethe ukupheliswa kwakho. Bangancomela ukutyelelwa ngomcebisi wezofuzo. Abanikezeli bakho baya kuba nako ukunika ingcamango engcono kakhulu yokuba neengxaki zokukhulelwa kwangaphambili.
Isigqibo sokuzama kwakhona emva kokulahleka kokukhulelwa sisigqibo somntu siqu. Qhubeka uqhagamshelana nomlingane wakho njengoko uthatha isigqibo sokuba ufuna ukuzama kwakhona. Kwakulungile ukuba ungazami kwakhona . Thembela izilwanyana zakho njengoko ucinga ngomnye umntwana, kwaye khumbula ukuba unxibelelwano luyisitshixo ekujonganeni ngendlela ephilileyo.