Kukho ininzi yezikhubekiso ezingokomzwelo oza kuhlangabezana nazo njengoko usebenza kumaxesha anzima emva kwakho kunye neqabane lakho lithinteka ukukhulelwa . Ngelinye ilanga unokukwazi ukujamelana kakuhle, uzive ngathi ubomi buya kubuya "buqhelekileyo." Ngomso olandelayo, unokuba nomhlobo onenjongo enokungazivanga iindaba zibuza ukuba kude kangakanani kunye nomlingane wakho ekukhulelweni kwakhe kwaye ukulahleka kuya kutsha kwakhona.
Esinye isiganeko ongenakuyilungiselela ngoSuku lukaBawo. Ukuqala ngoMeyi, izitolo zihlala zizalisa iingcamango zesipho ngoTata, amakhadi kunye nezikhumbuzo ezingapheliyo zomhla ozayo. Uyenza njani?
Indlela yokujongana noSuku loBawo emva kokutshatyalaliswa
Okokuqala, akukho sizathu sokuba akufanele uzive ukhululekile ukungahoywa iholide ngokupheleleyo. Abahlobo kunye nosapho abanokuthi bangabikho kwiphepha elifanayo, ngoko-ke, qondani kunye nabasondeleyo kuwe ukuba ulungele uvumele usuku luphume. Gxininisa kubabomi ebomini bakho, njengoYihlo, abazalwana bakho, okanye abazalwana bakho.
Yenza iholide ukwenza enye into oyithandayo. Uhambo oluya kwi-ballpark, okanye ukwenza iprojekthi edibaneni onentsingiselo yokubamba nayo ingaba yinto ephazamisayo oyifunayo. Kungaba yinto elungileyo kuwe kunye neqabane lakho ukuba uhambe kunye kunye nokunikezela induduzo omnye komnye.
Yilungiselele ngengqondo ukuba imini ibe nzima kuwe, okanye iqabane lakho, kwaye uzenze ikhefu xa ufuna ixesha lokulila.
Kwabanye abantu, ukumakisha umcimbi kunceda kakhulu kwinkqubo yokuphilisa. Ukuba ujoyine iqela lokuxhasa, hlaziya umcimbi kumalungu. Nantoni na evela kwindlu yangasese engafanelekanga yebhabhi kwisiganeko esikhumbulweyo esinjengokuhamba kunye nebhaluni ukukhululwa kungaba yonyango.
Ncedisa isidlo kwikhitshi yesobho, ncedise ikhuselo lezilwanyana, okanye uchithe ixesha elithile ukwakha indlu intsapho efuna.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba usichitha ixesha lakho, ukunceda abanye kunokukunika ngokwenene injongo.
Ukuba unabanye abantwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba intlungu yakho inokuva njani, khumbula ukuba abantwana bakho bangabhekana ngokuhlukileyo. Basenokufuna ithuba lokuba baqonde usuku lukaBawo njengokuba besenza njalo. Yiba neentlonelo kwiimfuno zabo, kodwa ungesabi ukunyaniseka nabo xa ufumana imvakalelo.
Oku kunokuba yinto enhle ukuba yonke intsapho ingene kwimisebenzi ekhethekileyo yokuhlonipha inkumbulo yakho.
Kwaye ke, iqabane lakho liyakuthi live lixinekile yiholide, kuba mhlawumbi wayemnyamezela uMhla woMama wokuqala ukusuka ekulahlekeni. Qhubeka uxoxisana nomnye, kwaye wenze okusemandleni akho ukuxhasa omnye kunye nalo lonke usuku.