Isigqibo sokuba nomntwana asiqhathananga lula ukwenza. Kwabo abaye bafumana ukulahlekelwa kokukhulelwa kwesi sigqibo sinokuqulunqwa nemvakalelo engakumbi kunye neenkcukacha zonyango kunokuqhelekileyo.
Ngexesha lokuzama kwakhona
Ezinye iintsapho zikhetha ukujika zize zizame kwakhona ngokukhawuleza xa abanye besele bebuza ukuba bafuna ukuzama kwakhona. Abanye baya kukhetha olu khetho ngenxa yokukhathazeka ngenxa yengxaki yokuzala okanye ubudala babazali.
Izizathu zokubambezeleka komtshato zingabandakanya:
- Ugqirha ngokubambisana nokulahlekelwa kwakho ( ukuhlengahlengiswa kunye nokuhluthwa (iD & C) , icandelo le-laarean , laparotomy)
- Ukulibala ngokubuyela kwimigangatho yokuya esikhathini
- Uvavanyo lwe-Genetic, imibiko yebhu, okanye ukulinda iingxelo ze-autopsy
- Imiba engokomzwelo
Iintsapho ezininzi zivakalelwa kukuba kuthatha ubuncinane iinyanga ezimbalwa zokuphulukisa ngokomoya nangokwenyama. Ukuvumela ukunyuka kwamaxhoba ukuphilisa kunye nomzimba ukuba ulungele kangcono ukukhulelwa okulandelayo kunokuba luncedo kakhulu. Abanye baziziva bekulungele ukukhulelwa ngokukhawuleza xa bekwazi ukwenza umzimba.
"Ndandicinga ukuba ndiyakhulelwa kwaye ndikhulelwe xa umhla wethu wokuqala ufikeleleke ndiza kulungile," utsho uAmanda olahlekelwa yindodana yakhe kwiiveki ezingama-22.
Ukuxoxa ngokugqithiseleyo xa kunye nongcali yakho kunye namalungu enkqubo yakho yokuxhasa inokuba luncedo kakhulu. Ukukhulelwa okulandelayo kuya kubangelwa yiyakhe imingcipheko.
Ukuzama Ukuba Ngumama
Ukuba ukuzala kwakho kubuyile ekulahlekelweni kwakho kwaye awuzange ufumane ukulibaziseka kokungabikho komntwana kunye nokubambezeleka kwangaphambili, ungenakukhathazeka malunga nokuba uza kukhulelwa njani nezinye iintsapho eziye zafumana unyango lwe-infertility .
Ngandlela-thile i-coaster coaster ye-emotion kunye nama-hormone yinto yangempela. Ukufumana inkxaso evela kwintsapho yakho, abahlobo, amaqela enkxaso yobugcisa kunye nogqirha okanye umbelethisi kubaluleke kakhulu kwintlalo yakho.
Xa uthatha ulawulo oluthe xaxa malunga nokuzala kwakho nokwenza konke okusemandleni akho ukuqinisekisa ukuba umzimba ophilileyo ukwamkela ukukhulelwa, abanye besetyhini baziziva bebhetele malunga nemeko yabo.
Abanye bakhetha ukuthatha indlela eyahlukileyo yokukhulelwa kwabo kwangaphambili, basebenzisa imishanguzo yokubanceda ukuba bacingisise okanye baqhubeke nokukhulelwa xa bebengakhange bakhulelwe okanye banike uncedo lwezobisi xa besetyenziswe ngaphambili.
Ukuba uphilile kwaye uyinyani yinjongo kuphela ekufuneka uyenayo kule nqanaba. Ukusebenzisa inkxaso, ukunyamekela umzimba wakho nengqondo kuya kuhamba ixesha elide lokukunceda kulezi zihlandlo ezilingo. Kufuneka ukhumbule ukuba ngaphezu kokuzama ukukhulelwa usalusizi ngenxa yokulahlekelwa ngumntwana wakho.
Ndiyakuhalalisela?!
Uhambe kwaye wenzile ngoku! Ukhulelwe.
Nangona abanye abafazi bephefumula ukukhulula kwaye bacinge ukuba inxalenye ekhuni iphelile, abanye abaninzi baya kufumanisa ukuba ukungabi namacala okuvuyela kokukhulelwa kuthatyathelwe yinto yokwesaba ukulahlekelwa omnye umntwana.
Ukunyamekela kwangaphambili ekukhuleleni kwakho kulungile kwizizathu zonyango nezomzwelo. Kukho iindlela ezinokuthi wena kunye nomlingisi wakho uye wagqiba ekubeni usebenzise ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukuze uzame ukukhusela enye ilahleko. Kungaba yimeko apho ufuna kuphela ukuqinisekiswa okungekho xa ukhulelwe ukuba ukhulelwe kwakho ngokuqhelekileyo.
Izigqibo malunga nokuvavanya i-genetic kunokuba nzima ngakumbi ngokukhulelwa okulandelayo.
Nangona ukulahlekelwa kwakho akubanga ngenxa yengxaki yokuzalwa, abaninzi oomama bayazixhalabisa ngeengxaki ze-genetic kwaye baphendukela kwiimvavanyo ze-genetics kunye ne-ultrasound ukuze baqinisekise ngakumbi. Abaninzi bathi ukusetyenziswa kwe-ultrasound kubancedisa ngokubambisana, ngelixa abanye bathi i-ultrasound iyabethusa.
"Xa sibona intliziyo ibetha ngokukhawuleza ukutyelela okokuqala, kwakumangalisa! Andizange ndilungiselele loo mnyama, ikhona ebonakalayo kwisikrini kwindwendwe yam rhoqo," u-Liza uyakhumbula. "Ndandicinga ukuba ndiza kuhamba njengomntu wonke, ndiyazi ukuba umntwana wam uyinkwenkwe okanye intombazana. Ngeli xesha andinakukwazi ukunyuka ukuba ndibuye ngena kwigumbi kwakhona."
Abanye baya kutshintsha iingcali okanye izicwangciso zokuba baya kubaphi na umntwana. Ukukhumbula ukuba konke ukukhulelwa kuyahlukileyo kwaye kubalulekile ukuba kubekho okubaluleke kakhulu.
Umgca wokugqibela kukuba ukukhulelwa okulandelayo akuyi kuba lula. Kuya kuba nzima ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Iintsuku zakho zizahluka ukusuka kwisigqibo sokungacingi. Kubalulekile ukuba unesistim sokuxhasa ngubani owaziyo noko kwenzekayo kwaye uzive ulawulwa yimiba yezokwelapha xa ukhulelwa. Ukudlulela kwinqanaba lokulahlekelwa kwakho kokuqala ukuba kwakunjalo ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunokukhupha. Abanye abesetyhini bachitha ixesha labo bebala ukuhlaselwa komntwana omtsha, abanye bavele bazibeka phantsi kwimoya kude kube ngumzuzu wokugqibela. Ayikho enye indlela efanelekileyo yokujongana nokukhulelwa okulandelayo.