Oko Kufuneka Uyenze Ukuba Ujongene Nokungabikho Kwenqanaba Eliqhelekileyo

Ukungabikho komntwana kwinqanaba elithile xa umtshato unabantwana omnye, uzama ukukhulelwa kwakhona, kodwa ungakhulelwa emva konyaka omnye wokuzama.

Ukungabikho kolwazi olungasesekondari kunokudideka kunye neengqondo. Ubungekho nkathazo yokukhulelwa ngexesha lokugqibela. Ngoko, kutheni kungenzeki ngoku?

Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba ukungabikho kobutyebi obuncinane kunokuqhelekileyo kunokusweleka kwesibini.

Ukungabikho kokusesikweni esinqununu xa i-sibini ingazange ibe nabantwana kwaye ayikwazi ukukhulelwa.

Nangona kunjalo, inyaniso ngamanani anesiqingatha nesiqingatha.

Ngokutsho kweZiko loLawulo lweZifo, i-11% yezibini ezisele sele zinezingane ziza kuba namava angaphantsi kwe-infertility. Zizo malunga neentsapho ezinezigidi ezi-4 okanye malunga nesiqingatha sazo zonke iziganeko zokungabikho.

Ababini abanobubele besibini bangaphinda babeke ukufuna uncedo . Basenokufumana ukuba abahlobo, intsapho, kunye noogqirha banciphisa ubunzima babo bokuzala.

Emva koko, banebhokhwe enye. (Okanye iibini ezimbini, okanye ngaphezulu ...) Ngaba akunjalo?

Inyaniso kukuba nokuba unzima kunani lomntwana, inombolo yesibini, okanye inombolo yesihlanu, kukho ukuxhalaba kunye nentlungu ekujongene nayo. Ukujongana nokungabikho kokusweleka kwengxaki kwintsimilo.

Unomfanekiso wento ocinga ukuba intsapho yakho iya kuba yintoni. Umntwana wakho unokucela umntakwabo. Kwaye izizathu zonyango zokusweleka kwezilwanyana ezingaphantsi kwesibini azikho nzima kunzima ukunyanga kunye nokuxilongwa kunokugqithisa okuphambili.

Izizathu

Ukungabikho kokusweleka kwesibini kubangelwa ziingxaki ezifanayo ezikhokelela ekungabikho komntwana.

Ezi zizathu ziquka:

Malunga nesinye kwisithathu seemeko zokungakhulelwa zihlobene nokungabikho komntwana, enye yesithathu inxulumene nokungazalwanga kwabantwana, kwaye enye yesithathu ihambelana neengxaki zomntu kunye nomfazi okanye zihlala zingachazwanga.

Kutheni Ndingenako Ukuziqonda Ngeli xesha?

Lo ngumbuzo omkhulu kwiingcinga zalawo mava anesifo sokusweleka kwesibini.

Ukungabikho kolwazi lwesibini kungabetha xa ...

Ukhulile : ukuba unomntwana wakho wokuqala ku-35, kwaye uzama okwesibini kwi-38, ukuzala kwakho ngokwemvelo kuye kwancipha kakhulu .

Ubudala yimbangela ebalulekileyo yokusweleka kwesibini.

Unayo iqabane elitsha : lingaba lakho iqabane elitsha linenkinga yokungakwazi ukungafumani. Kodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba lowo kunye nezingane ezivela kwintsebenziswano yangaphambili uye wavelisa ingxaki yokuzala.

Noba imeko ingenzeka.

Ingxaki yokuzala inobungozi yenzeke kakhulu : kungenzeka ukuba ube ne-endometriosis, okanye ube ne- PCOS encinci. Mhlawumbi iindawo zakho zokugcina ii-ovarian sele zikho phantsi kwe-downslide, kodwa wayengazi.

Ixesha lidlulile, kwaye izinto ziye zadlula. Iyenzeka.

Uzuze ubunzima : ukuzala kuthinteka kwisisindo . Ukugqithisa okanye ukunyamezela kunokubangela iingxaki ze-ovulation kubasetyhini, kunye nempembelelo yentsholongwane yempilo kumadoda.

Abazali abatsha badla ubunzima (ngokukodwa ukusuka ekukhulelweni, ngokukodwa kwixinzelelo kunye nokungabikho kokulala.) Oku kunokuba ukwanele ukukunyulela kwicala elingenalo.

Unengxaki entsha yezempilo : mhlawumbi wena okanye lakho iqabane liye lahlakulela isifo sikashukela. Mhlawumbi uthatha imishanguzo yengcinezelo yegazi ephezulu. Okanye, mhlawumbi unengxaki yokudandatheka .

Naliphi na kwezi zigulo kunokuchaphazela ukuzala kwakho okanye kufuna imithi enokuchaphazela ukuzala kwakho.

Ukukhulelwa kokugqibela okanye ukuzala kubangela ingxaki yokuzala : ukusuleleka kwe-pelvic okanye iinkqubo ezininzi ze-D & C zingabangela ukubambelela kwe- uterine okanye iibhulokhwe ezingenayo .

Ukuba unamacandelo e-C, unakho ukuvelisa izicubu ezibomvu, ezinokuchaphazela ukuzala kwakho.

Akukho sizathu esicacileyo sokuba kutheni le xesha : maxesha amaninzi, akukho mntu unokukuxelela ukuba kutheni umcimbi wakho wokuzala ungazange ungakuyeki ukuba ufumane ixesha lokugqibela.

Kuninzi malunga nokuzala esiyiqondiyo. Akukho mntu unayo yonke impendulo.

Kufuneka Ufune Uncedo?

Ukuba uneminyaka engaphantsi kweminyaka engama-35 ubudala, kufuneka ufune uncedo ukuba ungakhange ukhulelwe emva konyaka wokuzama.

Ukuba uneminyaka engama-35 okanye ngaphezulu, kufuneka ufumane uncedo emva kweenyanga ezintandathu.

Kwakhona, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka engakanani, ukuba unamava emibini alandelanayo, kufuneka ufumane uncedo.

Ezinye izibini zicinga ukuba zifanele ziqhubeke nokuzama nangemva kokupasa kwamanani eminyaka. Ngaba abazange bafumane ixesha lokugqibela? Ngokucacileyo, ukuba baqhubeka bezama, baya kuphumelela ngeli xesha. Kunene?

Nope!

Nceda ungayeki ukufumana uncedo. Ezinye izizathu zokubangela ukungabikho kwengqondo kunzima ngaphezu kwexesha. Ukunciphisa uncedo kunokunciphisa iimeko zakho zokuphumelela ukukhulelwa.

Inyaniso yokuba ukhulelwe ngexesha elidlulileyo ayiqinisekisi ukuba uza kuphinda ukhulelwe.

Ngokudabukisayo, akukho ziqinisekiso zokuzala, nabani na.

U vavanya

Ukuvavanywa kokusweleka kwesibini kuyafana nokuvavanywa kokungabikho komntwana. Bobabini indoda kunye nomfazi kufuneka bahlolwe.

Mhlawumbi unomlingane omtsha, kwaye omnye wenu uye waba nomntwana kwaye omnye akakwenzi. Ingaba iqabane "elivelisiweyo" lifuna ngokwenene ukuhlolwa kovalo?

Impendulo nguyebo. Benza.

Njengoko kuthethwe ngasentla, ukuba nezingane akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukufumana ukungena.

Unyango

Unyango lwe-infertility lusekondari lufana nolwabantwana bokuqala ukungabikho. Unyango luquka:

Njengoko ufuna isisombululo seengxaki zakho zokuzala, unokuba nohlobo kunye nosapho abangavumiyo kwizigqibo zakho.

Bangazibuza ukuba kutheni "uzama kanzima." Kutheni ungahlali "uphumule?" Kwenzeke okokugqibela, kuya kwenzeka kwakhona.

Aba bahlobo kunye nosapho bahambi kakuhle. Qiniseka ukuba imfuno yakho yonyango ifana nomntu ongenabantwana bokuqala.

Akuyena "umlinganiselo ogqithiseleyo" wokusebenzisa unyango olunokukunceda ukuba unomntwana onqwenelayo.

Imithombo:

U-Chandra A, uMartinez GM, uMosher WD, u-Abma JC, uJones J. Ukhula, ucwangciso lwezesapho, kunye nempilo yokuzala yabesifazane base-US: Iinkcukacha ezivela kwi-Survey of 2002 yoNyaka loKhuseleko lweNtsapho. IZiko leSizwe leeMpilo zoLwazi. I-Health Health Statement 23 (25). 2005. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/series/sr_23/sr23_025.pdf

Ukungabi Nciphisa. UKUQHUBEKA: UMbutho weSizwe ongenakuncedo. http://www.resolve.org/diagnosis-management/infertility-diagnosis/secondary-infertility.html