Ukuba unamatholeji amabini okanye ngaphezulu - owaziwa ngokuba ngamathambo emzimbeni - unokuthi uzibuze indlela yokuphilisa nokuqhubela phambili. Siza kuxubusha ezinye iinkxalabo ezingokomzwelo nangokwenyama zokujongana nokulahleka kwamathambo okuphindaphindiweyo.
Ukukhathazeka Ngeemvakalelo
Inkxalabo yokuqala yinkalo yakho yengqondo . Unokuba nexesha elinzima kakhulu ukujongana nokulahlekelwa kwakho okwesibini kunokuba ukwenzile ngowokuqala, ngenxa yokuba awufumani nantuthuzelo ekuqinisekiseni izibalo (nangona izibalo zihlala zikulungele ukukhulelwa kwakho okuqhelekileyo).
Kule nqanaba, ngaphezu kokuva buhlungu, mhlawumbi ukhululekile kwaye udidekile. Ngethuba lokuqala ulahlekile , ugqirha wakho mhlawumbi wandixelele ukuba iingxaki ziphantsi ukuba kuya kwenzeka kwakhona. Abahlobo kunye nezihlobo zakho kungenzeka ukuba zizame ukukuqinisekisa ukuba, "yonke into iya kulungela ixesha elizayo." Kusenokwenzeka nokuba uziqinisekisile ngokwenza loo nto.
Ukulahleka kwamathambo okuqhelekileyo kunokushukumisa inkolelo yakho kuyo nayiphi na uhlobo lweengxaki zokubala. I-American Pregnancy Association ithi i-1 pesenti yazo zonke iibini zinelahleko ezininzi. Ngokwenene uvakalelwa ukuwina i-lottery embi.
Ukulahleka kwamathambo okuqhelekileyo kunokuziva ngathi ukungcatshiswa ngumzimba wakho - yonke into yayimele ifaneleke kwaye oko kwakungekho.
Abasetyhini abanokuphelelwa kwesisu okungaphezu kwesinye abanokufumana:
Ukuxhalabisa nokuxinezeleka. Abasetyhini abaye bafumana ukulahlekelwa ngokukhulelwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo banomlinganiselo ophezulu kunezinga eliqhelekileyo lokuphuhlisa uxinzelelo kunye nokudandatheka ngenxa yezizathu ezicacileyo. Unokufumana uxhala ngokukodwa malunga nethuba lokuzama ukukhulelwa kwakhona.
- Ulwalamano olusondeleyo. Ulwalamano lwakho kunye nomlingane wakho lunokujamelana noxinzelelo olongezelelweyo emva kokulahlekelwa ngamathambo amaninzi. Amadoda amaninzi akwazi ukujamelana ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kokukhulelwa kunabasetyhini, kwaye oku kungabangela umquzulwano ukuba loo ntokazi iguqulela oku njengendoda engakhathalelayo kunokuba iphathe ngendlela ehlukile ngayo. Kwizibini, ngamanye amaxesha indoda inokucinga ukuba le ntokazi ihlala kakhulu kumava. Akunakho ukunika ithuba lokudabuka ngendlela afuna ngayo.
Ingaba uzama ukukhulelwa kwakhona okanye cha, amaqela amaninzi enkxaso ye-intanethi akhona ekulahlekeni kokukhulelwa okuphindaphindiweyo. Njengalo naluphi na uhlobo lokulahleka, akufanele uhlangabezane namava akho kuphela.
Ukukhathazeka ngokwasemzimbeni
Ukuba unemiphunga emibi elandelelanayo, kufuneka ubone ugqirha wezovavanyo olusisiseko sokukhulelwa kwesisu , njengeengxaki zobume be-uterine, ukuphazamiseka kwegazi kunye nokungalingani kwe-hormonal. Uvavanyo luya kubandakanya inani leemvavanyo zegazi kunye nokuvavanywa kweemvavanyo zesisu sakho. Unokufuna ukuyeka ukuzama ukukhulelwa kwakhona uze uzalise uvavanyo.
Ingcali yakho inokuxelela ukuba kufuneka ufumane ukulahleka kwezinto ezintathu ukuze ube novavanyo. Nangona abanye oogqirha banokuqhubeka belandela le khokelo, ngoFebruwari 2001 i-American College of Ostrijians kunye neGynecologists (ACOG) yatshintshe iziphakamiso zayo zokulawulwa kokuphuphuma komzimba ukuthetha ukuba oogqirha kufuneka baqhube iimvavanyo emva kokulahlekelwa okulandelelana kokulandelelana.
Ukuba awukhululekile nongcali yakho yangoku, unokukhangela entsha. Unokufuna ukucinga ngongcali yokuphuphuma komzimba okanye u-endocrinologist yokuzala. Unonophelo oluxhasayo lubaluleke kakhulu kwaye ezinye iingcaphephe zibonisa ukuba kunokunciphisa iziganeko zokulahlekelwa kokukhulelwa kwezibini ezithandanayo.
Khumbula ukuba nangona amava akho aziva ekhulu kwaye engenakuxhatshazwa okwangoku, iziganeko ziyakusasaza ukuba uya kuba nosana ngolunye usuku. Nangona emva kokulahlekelwa ezintandathu okanye ngaphezulu, ininzi yabasetyhini ekugqibeleni iyaqhubeka nokukhulelwa okuphumelelayo. Yonke imihla edlulayo isondele kuloo mini xa uza kuba nosana kwaye xa oko uhlangabezana nayo ngoku kuya kuba yimemori embi nje.
Cinga uMbutho we-Endocrinology yokuzalisa nokungafihliyo ukufumana ingcali yonyango kwindawo yakho.
Imithombo:
Ulawulo loLwaphulo lwaBantwana bokuqala lokuLawula. Ikholeji yase-American College of Obstetricians kunye neGynecologists. I-ACOG Yenza i-Bulletin, inombolo 24. Februwari 2001.
Ukutshatyalaliswa. Umama waseMelika wokukhulelwa. NgoSeptemba 26, 2007.
Swanson, K., Karmali, ZA, Powell, SH, et al. (2003). Uphuhliso lokutshatyalaliswa komtshato kubudlelwane phakathi kwabantwana kunye nobudlelwane bobulili ngexesha loNyaka wokuqala emva kokulahlekelwa: Iimbono zabafazi. Iingcali zengqondo.