Fundisa uxanduva ngelixa uqinisekisa ukuba umsebenzi uyenziwe.
Ukucocwa emva komdlalo wokuzonwabisa kumnandi mhlawumbi kwizinto zokufundela izinto "Izinto andikuthandi ukwenza Uludwe." Kodwa ngaphandle kokuba ufuna ukuchitha ixesha lakho ngokunyathela abantu abancinci kunye nebhasi yabo yesikolo (kunye nefama yabo kunye nezoozo zabo kunye nevili labo likaFerris), umfundi wakho wokufunda esikolweni kufuneka afunde indlela yokuhlaziya iityshi.
Ingxenye ebalulekileyo yentuthuko yomntu osemtsha, ukuhlambulula umonakalo abazenzayo ngokwabo kukunceda ukuphuhlisa umthwalo wakho wemfanelo.
Nangona kunokuba kube lula kuwe ukwenza nje ukucoca ngokwakho, sisisombululo esifushane. Indlela umntwana afunda ngayo ukuhlambulula ngoku ibeka isiteji ngendlela aza kuzalisa ngayo umsebenzi xa bekhula. Ukuba uhlala uqokelela emva komntwana wakho kule minyaka, baya kufunda ukuba balindela njalo. Kwaye ke, njengoko bekhulile mhlawumbi bayazi ukuba njani okanye, abayi kucinga ukuba yinto abayidingayo ukuba bazixhalabele ngenxa yokuba umama nobahlala bekwenza njalo.
Ukucocwa, ngelixa kungakhathaliseki, akudingeki ukuba usebenze kakubi. Nantsi indlela yokwenza umsebenzi usebenze kakuhle:
Khetha amagama akho ngokucophelela
Musa ukutsho nje ukuba "hlambulula." Kulula ukuba umntwana oneminyaka engama-15 ubudala ahlaselwe ngumonakalo omkhulu, kaninzi ngenxa yokuba abazi ukuba baqale kuphi. Endaweni yoko, zama "Gxotha iimoto zakho kuqala uze uhambe kwiincwadi." Ngokuphula umsebenzi phantsi kwimisebenzi emincinci, umsebenzi obonakala ungenamkhawulo ulawulwa. Khumbula, umntwana wakho untsha ekuhlambuleni ishishini.
Ukucocwa kwamathoyizi akuyona into abayazi ngayo ukuba bayayenza njani. Uya kufuneka ufundise.
Chaza ukuba Kutheni Kufuneka Ucocwe
Kuwe kuyacaca, kodwa kwinqanaba lakho lokufundela, ukucocwa akulona nto ngaphandle kokuyeka ukuzonwabisa. (Ngubani ofuna ukwenza oku?) Chaza ukuba ukuba amathoyizi angasuswa njani ngokuchanekileyo umntu unokuhamba kwaye azilimaze ngokwabo, okanye izicatshulwa zingalahleka kwaye ngokudlala kunye nale nto yokudlala kuyakuba mnandi.
Ngabantwana abancinci, kubalulekile ukwenza uxhumano lokuba banokuziqonda.
Yenza Ubungqina Bomntwana Bokudlala Iimfino
Beka iilebhile zetekisi ezisusayo kumatshini kunye neebhokhwe zokunceda abantwana bafunde apho yonke into ihamba khona. Yenza umntwana wakho atye okanye aphethwe kumaphephancwadi imifanekiso yezinto ezithile (ibhloko, iipuzzle, imidlalo) eya nganye. Ngaphantsi komfanekiso, bhala ngokufanelekileyo igama lento ( ukubonakala kwamagama kubangaphambi kokufunda ). Xa yonke into inendawo efanelekileyo, yenza kube lula ukuwayeka.
Pump Up the Tunes!
Ukuhlaselwa kukaDan Zanes okanye i-Wiggles ngelixa ixesha lokucoca liqhubeka. Yenza umsebenzi uhambe ngokukhawuleza kunye nomculo we-peppy uza kugcina umntwana wakho entle. Okanye ucule iingoma zakho. "Le ndlela yindlela esiyithatha ngayo iibhloko, uthathe iibhloko, uthathe iibhloko. Yile ndlela esenza ngayo iibhloko, njengoko sihlambulula igumbi lakho!"
Yenza iMdlalo
Beka i-timer yesi-10 imizuzu uze ucelise umngeni wakho wokufunda ukuba "Utshise i-Clock." Okanye ubuze, "Ngaba unako ukugqiba ukubeka iziqwenga zeepadesi ngaphambi kokuba ndilahle iimbophu?"
Ungayilungisi
Xa igumbi lomntwana okanye igumbi lokudlala ligcina licocekile, musa ukubuyisela into engagqibekanga. Iibhulayi zeLumpy? Akukho mfuneko yokuzihambisa. Ifayili ifowuni?
Yigatya. Ngethuba nje umsebenzi uyenziwe ngokufanelekileyo, vele uhambe. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-4 akaze ahlambuluke kunye nomdala. Kwaye ukuba uhamba phambili kwaye wenze kwakhona oko sele sele basebenze nzima kanzima ukuwugqiba, wakho umncinci angeke athambekele ekwenzeni umsebenzi emva kokuba uyilungisa nantoni na. Kule meko, umphumo wokuphela awubalulekanga njengemigudu.
Uvuza Umsebenzi Owenziwe Kulungile
Gcina ishati ekhitshini okanye kwenye indawo evelele endlwini. Ngokukhawuleza xa umfundi wakho wokufunda esikolweni egqiba umsebenzi wakhe, mnike isitika sokubeka kwishati. Ngokuqhelekileyo, oko kwaneleyo, kodwa ukuba ukucocwa yinkinga yokuba umntwana wakho acinge ukuba amvumele ukuba athole into ebalulekileyo emva kwenani elithile leempawu.
Ukongezelela, qiniseka ukuba uyamncoma ngomlomo wakho ngomsebenzi onzima. Dweba ingqalelo kwindlela amahle abonakala ngayo kwigumbi ngoku kwaye bakhuthaze ukuba baziqhenyise ngezinto abaye bazenza