Fundisa Umntwana Wakho Ukuba abe Nomonde
Indlu ithule. Umfundi wakho osemfundela wayesidla isidlo sasemini waza waya kwindlu yokuhlambela, kwaye ngoku uyabalalisa ngokukhawuleza. Ixesha eligqibeleleyo lokuthabatha ifowuni nokwenza iifowuni ezimbalwa. Kunene? Ha. Cinga kwakhona. Naliphi na umzali onokukuxelela ukuba imeko echazwe ngasentla ihlala ikhokelela kwinto enye - yesibini ufumene kwifowuni yakho, kungekudala uza kufumana umntwana wakho ezinyaweni zakho, ukukhwela kwikhati lakho, ukuphazamisa oko ukwenzayo.
Kuthiwani malunga nabantwana besikolo kunye nokuphazamisa? Umntwana ophazamisayo ngokuqinisekileyo uyacaphukisa, nokuba uxoxa nomnye umntu, uzama ukugqiba umsebenzi olula okanye ewe, ukuthetha kwifowuni. Iindaba ezimbi kukuba, ngelixa lo mkhuba ngumntwana wakho ekugqibeleni uya kukhula, kuya kuthatha ixesha elithile. Iindaba ezilungileyo kukuba, kukho amanyathelo onokuyithatha ukuze unqande umntwana wakho okhuphayo kwaye mhlawumbi uze uqedele ingxoxo.
Kutheni abafundi beSchools baphazamisa
Umfundi wakho ongasesikolweni akayithandabuzi xa ephazamisa - akwazi ukuba ngcono. "Kodwa ndimxelele kaninzi, maxesha amaninzi ukuba kufuneka alinde ixesha lakhe xa ndithetha nomntu," uyakhala, udangele. "Ungazi njani na ?" Ngokwenene akanako. Njengamanye amaninzi "iingxaki" iimpawu zokuziphatha zasesikolweni, ezifana nokuqamba amanga , ukuxubha kunye nentlungu , ukuphazamiseka kunento eninzi yokwenza ngokungafumani.
Kukho izizathu ezimbalwa ezenza ukuba abantwana bezemfundo bangaziphazamisi:
- Abantwana kwiminyaka emithathu ukuya kwemihlanu baqala ukufumanisa ukuba kukho okungakumbi okuqhubekayo ebomini bakho kunabo. Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha wena (ushiye) wenze izinto ngaphandle kwegalelo okanye ulwazi.
- Umntwana wakho unokulibalibala oko wamtshilo. Imemori yexesha elifutshane isakhulayo kule minyaka, igalelo kwixesha elifutshane.
- Ukungakwazi ukuqonda ixesha elidlulileyo. Yintoni ebonakala ngathi iiyure ezintathu ukuya esikolweni sakho sokuqala xa ulindele ukuxelela into ethile mhlawumbi ibe malunga nemizuzu emithathu kuphela.
- Ungazi ukuba kukho into efuna ukuphazamiseka. Ngenxa yokuba umncinci wakho, umfanekiso weentyatyambo ayenzileyo kubalulekile ngokwaneleyo ukukuyeka ukuthetha kwifowuni. Kunjalo ukuba udade wakhe omdala wafihla imoto yakhe yokudlala.
- Unokuba nento enomdla kakhulu ukuthetha!
Indlela Yokumisa Umntwana Ophazamisayo
Ngoko ngoku ukuba uyazi ukuba kutheni intsha yakho yokufundela isiphazamisa, ingenza ibe yinto engathandeki kakhulu? Akunjalongo noko. Kukho iindlela, kunoko, ukubanceda ukuba baqonde ukuba ngelixa bathethayo ngokwenene, kubaluleke kakhulu kuwe, ngamanye amaxesha kukho ezinye izinto oza kufuneka uzikhathalele kuqala:
- Ungayihoyi ukuphazamiseka. Oku kunzima kuba, ekuqaleni, kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze umntwana wakho aphakame, kodwa ngokukhawuleza uya kufunda ukuba xa ephazamisa, akayi kuwuqwalasela.
- Cwangcisa ukuphazamiseka. Ukuba unomsebenzi okanye umnxeba owaziyo uya kuthatha imizuzu elishumi ukugqiba, uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali imizuzu engama-15 uze unike into into yokuba umntwana onokufundela ukuba ayenze ngelo xesha - funda incwadi, udlale ngamadonki, ubukele ithelevishini. Beka i-timer kwaye uchaze ukuba akayi kukuphazamisa (ngaphandle kokuba iimeko eziphuthumayo ngokwenene) de i-timer iyahamba.
- Chaza ukuba kutheni ungathandi ukuphazanyiswa - maxesha amaninzi kuthatha. Mxelele ukuba xa ephazamisa, kukuthintela ukwenza into ofuna ukuyenza. Yaye ukuba uya kugcina emkhatsini womsebenzi, kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuwugqiba, kukugcina kude nantoni na ofuna ukuba uyibone okanye uyive.
- Ungavumeli umntwana wakho adlule igama lakhe lokuqala. Xa umfundi wakho wokufundela esikolweni ephazamisa wena, mthinte ukhulume kwaye umxelele ukuba awukwazi ukumnceda kwangoku kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba uthethe - ukuthetha kwifowuni, ukubhala uluhlu lokuthenga, njl - uya kuvuyela ncedise. Gcina kuyo.
Njengoko umntwana wakho ekhula kwaye ufunda ezininzi malunga nokujika, akayi kuba lula ukuphazamisa. Xa usenza ngefowuni ngaphandle kokuba umntwanakho azinqamle, qiniseka ukuba udumise ngokudumisa, umxelele ukuba uyayithanda kangakanani ukuba unako ukwenza okufunekayo.
Ekugqibeleni, isitshixo ekujonganeni nomntwana ophazamisayo ukunyamezela. Njengoko efunda ukuba ihlabathi alinakuzungezile kwaye njengoko uyaqonda ukuba akwenzi ukwenza ukuqhuma, uyingxaki iya kusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo.